Who is in charge of money in your family?

Who owns the economic power after marriage has always been a controversial topic, which can even directly affect the relationship between husband and wife. It is common that in some families, it is the husband who makes money and manages the money; In some families, the husband issues a salary card and the wife manages the money; In some families, they manage their own money; Of course, there are also a few families where the mother-in-law has the final say in money.

In fact, many mothers are very supportive of letting their wives manage money. This is not because Han's mother is a woman, so I think we should control the financial power ourselves and leave the money to our wife. There are many benefits!

Conducive to men's career development

In many traditional families, the man is still the head of the family and the woman is the head of the family. Men are responsible for making money to support their families outside, while women are responsible for taking care of their children and serving their in-laws at home. When you meet a place where you need to spend money, your wife will tell her husband that he will give you money.

There seems to be nothing unreasonable. But in Han Ma's view, this division of labor hides great hidden dangers. Because the time is long and the times of asking for money are more, men will definitely feel tired and will be distracted when they work hard. They even think to themselves, "How do you know to ask me for money? I don't know that going to work is very tired! " So the relationship between husband and wife will also be greatly affected.

Think about it, in order to earn money to support the family, it is a very hard thing for men to work hard outside. Women, on the other hand, have to ask their husbands for everything because they have no money. For example, buy a milk powder for your child today, buy diapers for your child tomorrow and pay the electricity bill the day after tomorrow. Before the festival, you should figure out what kind of gifts to prepare for your elders and so on.

At this time, if you catch up with men at work, it will do too much damage to men's brains. After all, it is really tiring to spend energy and time dealing with household chores, thinking about how to spend money, how to allocate it, etc. Besides facing work every day.

Giving money to your wife is different. The daily expenses and many trivial matters at home can be left to the wife to worry about. Men only need to be responsible for making money and fighting for their careers.

Conducive to family wealth.

When many men are single, even if they get married and have children, they can't change the habit of spending money lavishly.

Take my husband for example, he never seems to have the concept of settling down and living. I spend as much money as I want every time, no matter whether I should spend the money or not, and no matter how I spend it the next day.

Giving money to your wife can greatly avoid the day when you spend money hard today and have no money to eat tomorrow. After all, compared with most men, women are really much more careful in spending money to live. "Spend money wisely" is usually their motto.

From toothpaste and toothbrushes to big items at home, women often shop around and bargain, trying to buy the best things with the least money. Especially for women with children, most of them will pay attention to their children before spending money. As for other unnecessary things, they can not buy them.

This can save a lot of money for the family invisibly, which is more conducive to the accumulation of family wealth.