Positive psychological suggestion: everything is the best arrangement, be grateful for everything encountered in life!

I don't remember where I read this sentence: everything is the best arrangement. Since then, this sentence has been deeply engraved in my mind.

When I saw this sentence, it was the darkest time in my life. This sentence is like a bright lamp, which suddenly illuminates the road ahead and instantly feels that life has hope again. I also began to think about applying this sentence to my life, reminding myself to learn positive psychological hints at all times.

I remember one day last year, we decided to go hiking in the nearby mountains. But as it is the first time to go, the road is unfamiliar. Take the highway again and accidentally miss the exit of the highway. You can't turn around on the highway, so you must keep going and find the next exit. But walking, I never found the exit.

Later, all the way west, we got used to the vast plains and never drove the tunnel again. But just this once. Tunnel after tunnel, tunnel after tunnel, tunnel after tunnel, tunnel after tunnel. What's more sad is that many lights in the tunnel are broken and the line of sight is extremely poor. And was attacked by big trucks before and after. What is even more frightening is that there is a tunnel hundreds of miles long, and the lights are basically broken. This is a dark and long tunnel. Drive carefully. My husband and I encouraged and supported each other along the way. To tell you the truth, I was scared. The child in the back seat has been in a bad mood, complaining that he walked through the intersection and wasted a day. We tried to comfort him. And he has been encouraging and comforting him with the phrase "Everything is the best arrangement". In fact, it is more about encouraging yourself and comforting yourself. Fortunately, the child who likes to make a hullabaloo about and cry on weekdays was quiet this time and endured crying. If he makes a scene in the tunnel, the consequences will be unimaginable.

When we can talk, we always say to each other: everything is the best arrangement. When we can't talk and need to concentrate on driving, we each say this sentence in our hearts. I've been trying to give myself positive psychological hints. Finally through hundreds of miles of darkness, ushered in the light. I don't know how long it took, but we found that we had arrived in Shanxi. Later, it passed through several counties in succession, and finally got off the expressway in Zuo Quan. Later, I found a local specialty store, and everyone had a good time. Children will also become happy. We are still saying this sentence: Look, everything is the best arrangement. I'm glad that we succeeded in giving positive psychological hints along the way. Can you eat such delicious local snacks without going to the wrong intersection? Do we have a chance to come to Shanxi?

After lunch, we hurried back. Unfortunately, I forgot my way when I came, and I didn't know where to find the entrance to the expressway. In the deep mountains, the car navigation system failed to detect our position. Although there are roads, it is sparsely populated. No one can ask for directions. To be honest, I was desperate. But as long as there is a road, we can definitely get out. So they encouraged each other with the phrase "Everything is the best arrangement". And it seemed cloudy that day, and there was no sun, so I couldn't judge the direction. We just move forward by feeling. In this way, I kept walking and finally saw more cars. At this time, we believe that the expressway should not be far away. Sure enough, it wasn't long before we got on the highway. The next three hours will be completely consumed on highways, through tunnels and hundreds of kilometers of darkness. But we are not afraid, because we believe everything is the best arrangement. We believe in the power of positive psychological suggestion.

Although I was nervous all the way, I tried to talk and laugh. Try to tell each other and tell yourself that everything is the best arrangement.

Later, we successfully returned to the mountain we planned to go to in the morning. But it's too late to go up the mountain now. So I went to play in the valley below the mountain. There, we picked up stones and played with sand. Both mother and son buried each other in the sand. Looking up at the surrounding mountains, I feel so practical. Look down at the river that is sometimes calm and sometimes swift. Suddenly understood: the reason why the river will become turbulent is because of the obstruction of stones and also because of the gap. The relationship between people is different, because there is a gap in understanding, which will cause an emotional gap. Suddenly I feel that I have found the key to solving the parent-child problem.

I was so touched, so touched. And I was studying sand table therapy. I have different feelings about sand. Plus playing with children, I suddenly feel that everything is so beautiful! One sand and one world, one leaf and one bodhi! A small grain of sand can actually make people's inner energy flow. In particular, the feeling of all this, all the happiness is guessed after we have gone through hardships, so it is more precious. We said to each other: everything is the best arrangement! Thanks again for the positive psychological suggestion!

The sun went down, and we happily embarked on the journey home!

From now on, our family will always remember this sentence: everything is the best arrangement! On the road in the future, whether it is sunshine, rain and dew, or storms. Always tell yourself: everything is the best arrangement! Always remember to give yourself positive psychological hints!