In your mind, what kind of man can really be called a man?

It is said that northeast men are pure men, because their tone of voice is problematic, crisp and neat, and full of flavor. However, I think the real man is not the way he speaks, but how well he speaks, but whether he is responsible for people. The real man in my mind is a man who can carry the burden on his shoulders, hold up the sky, be ordered in a crisis, be able to handle affairs, be serious and never compromise.

These conditions seem easy, but they are not that simple. Words and deeds alone cannot achieve the unity of words and deeds, and words and deeds differ. Such men are generally unreliable, only playing tricks, and sometimes even more unreliable than women. Besides, I think a real man must be masculine. I don't like boys who are too feminine. Although everyone has the right to choose, a boy who is a little sissy, or a boy who has undergone sex-change surgery, is not a real man even if his personality is excellent.

But a real man doesn't mean that he has big muscles, good figure and is good at fighting, but that he can give people around him a sense of security and protect himself. People who want to protect him are willing to give everything, even if he has no strength, he must hold on to the most precious things around him. This spirit is really precious, so he is a real man.

Moreover, real men must be kind to their women, be single-minded, know how to live a down-to-earth life, be fickle and philandering everywhere, have their own goals, directions and pursuits, and be ambitious. A real man is someone who wants to realize his ideal. Such a man is the one who really admires me, the real man in my heart.