Why does my boyfriend always lie to me?

Maybe it's just a white lie.

What women fear most is that men lie, because the birth of a lie is often accompanied by more lies. In fact, a woman has no intention to argue about the number of lies. What is more important is to see what the man lied about.

1. Lie about something

To see if a man who always lies loves you, the first step is to see what he always lies about. The lies of a man who loves you are always used to avoid possible disputes between you and this man. For example, if you want to buy a dress and ask him if it looks good, even if it doesn't look good, you will answer yes. This kind of lying is also to avoid causing disputes.

A man who doesn't love you at all often lies to you in his daily life. He clearly agreed to go out to play at that time. As a result, the man called and said that he had to work overtime, so he couldn't go out to play together. As a result, he saw photos of them going out to play together in his friend's circle the next day. A man who lies like this just doesn't love you.

2. Lying about whom to meet

A man who loves you won't lie about who to meet, even if he is meeting a female colleague or a female friend. In order to avoid your misunderstanding, he will never lie to you about meeting a male friend.

and a man who doesn't love you at all, his lies will be used to meet someone. Obviously, it is to meet a female colleague or a female friend, but it is distorted to go out with a male friend, or even go out with a group of people. Men lie about such things, mostly because they are weak in heart. A man who behaves like this lies to you and doesn't love you.

3. What is the motive for lying?

The most important point in the whole three points is often the last one. What is this man's motive for lying? Is it out of kindness or can't you find an excuse for him? Yes, a lie is not necessarily malicious, but a man who loves you often lies for the purpose of avoiding your dispute with him, maintaining your self-esteem and ensuring a stable life for you and him.

A man who doesn't love you lies, often only for himself, for his own convenience, and for himself not to be bothered by you. A man who doesn't love you will often lie to you for such a motive.

Although there are white lies between lovers, it will make this relationship closer. But there are many lies, and white lies will also become a straw to crush camels.

Relative frankness is beneficial to the progress of the relationship between two people who love each other. If a man really loves women, he should know that not all women like to listen to white lies.