Ashamed and shameful, I discovered that I was an unfilial son and blamed everyone. I sincerely repent and ask all Bodhisattvas to show me the way. I feel so ashamed for losing my fundamental morality

Ashamed and shameful, I discovered that I was an unfilial son and blamed everyone. I sincerely repent and ask all Bodhisattvas to show me the way. I feel so ashamed for losing my fundamental morality.

1. Praise the original poster for repenting. It's a good thing if you have a thought of repentance.

2. How to change it. Here is an article that I saw recently. It is very good and very specific about how to be filial to your parents. Please read it several times and act accordingly.

There are also many articles on the Internet about how to "raise parents with filial piety", please find more and read them. Pick the method that works for you. As long as you do something sincerely, you can definitely do it.

Steps: Repent to your parents - be good to your parents from now on, for the rest of your life!

"Changing your destiny always starts with being filial and supporting your parents"

Changing your destiny always starts with being filial and supporting your parents. The Buddha said: What is the precepts? Being filial to your parents is the precepts. If there is no Buddha, serve your parents as Buddhas. If you think of filial piety and offer a little thing to your parents once, this kind of merit will be greater than if you offer hundreds of eminent monks hundreds of millions. Billions of years. These are real words, not metaphors.

Being filial and supporting your parents is a blessing in this life. The blessing is so great that even a miserable fate cannot stop your own blessing.

Be filial and provide for your parents, even if you just do it for one day, your life will have incredible changes. If you don't contradict your parents for one year, you can eliminate thirty years of hostility. After that, everything you lack will come together, and everything that doesn't go well will come. , all automatically and smoothly. Even if you devote one month to being filial and supporting your parents and making them happy, the trouble you are having will be solved automatically.

If you want to accumulate great merit, accumulate merit that you can enjoy in this life (such as a smooth and good marriage, smooth work, accumulation of assets, excellent performance in important exams, various applications not being rejected, and even everything in real life) (good fortune and good fortune), as long as you don’t contradict your parents, look at your parents with a gentle smile, talk softly and happily to your parents, there is no obstacle to having these basic things. Ghosts and gods will see that you are filial to your parents, and they will respect you very much. I don’t dare to hinder you at all. It’s a pity that no one knows about such a good way to change your life.

If you want to have a successful career, you usually have to be someone who has not resisted your parents since childhood, because he has been helped by his parents' influence every day since he was a child. He is very powerful and cannot be compared with others. Also, be careful not to speak ill of ancient Chinese sages such as Lao Tzu, Confucius, and eminent monks. Once you speak, you will be finished. Don't expect to be promoted unless you confess deeply.

Be respectful to your parents and make them happy. If you have any good things, you should use them to support your parents.

Being respectful to your parents is the fastest way to increase your official salary. There is nothing faster than this. If you respect your elders, you will naturally become an elder and be respected by others;

Support Parents are the ones who grow their wealth the fastest.

To tell you something that people don’t like to hear, no matter how a person says he is filial at heart, if a person does not support his parents, the word “poor” will be written very big on his face.

So, what the Buddha taught us is to think of filial piety. After the first thought of filial piety, there is another sentence: Offer small things to your parents.

Usually, you have to spend some amount of money to support your parents. Don’t hold them so tightly, and don’t make excuses that your wife and children need money for a house. If you act like this, your children will not be able to support you when you get old. The excuses are all the same as yours, it’s called: father shaped like son.

Changing your life always starts with being filial and supporting your parents.

If you can't do it, it's impossible to change your life, because accumulating blessings is not as fast as losing them.

How can people who contradict their parents change their ways?

1. Repent in front of the Buddha statue that you have contradicted your parents and teachers. Think about one thing and confess one by one. Whatever you can think of, repent immediately. You should repent as soon as possible after committing karma, and repent as much as you can.

Then think about the good things your parents do to you one by one, and say them to the Buddha one by one

Then come to the point, start kowtowing, and keep kowtowing. One, don't get up in a hurry, just say this: From now on, disciples will never contradict or contradict their parents again. There are 108 kowtows to be made, and you have to say something after every kowtow.

2. It is very important to get forgiveness from your parents.

Call your parents, in case you are embarrassed to say disgusting and sensational words (actually this is the time you should say it, because This is the mantra for resolving grievances.) You can just say it casually in a casual chat, for example: I think it was wrong for me to always contradict you before. Hey, I'm sorry. I used to make you angry and make you not healthy enough. Hey, I'm sorry. I think if I had a child like me, I would be always angry and unhappy.

My friend, who always said something like this, was very surprised to his parents, and then said: I'm not sorry, in fact you were very good when you were a child. As a result, his parents began to praise him, which surprised him even more.

3. Frequently send text messages to care about your parents, such as dad going to bed early at night and drinking less alcohol.

I’m sure your parents will secretly read this text message countless times.

People who have resisted and contradicted their parents since childhood should send a text message every day to care about their parents, or greet their parents, or say something humorous to make their parents laugh, every day.

4. From now on, never contradict or hate your parents again, and smile at your parents more often.

When my parents speak, the corners of my mouth tend to curve upwards, and I am the most stupid person with a sullen face. And if you shout loudly, the sound will be worse than the howling of a wolf.

If my parents are right, I will be right.

You are right, and I am right. It makes sense.

To be honest, I couldn’t accept it, so I smiled helplessly and cutely. It’s not difficult to ask me to pretend to be naughty and cute, right?

Why are we arguing with each other with words? Fighting with words can never solve the problem, it will only make parents sad.

Do you think that the children in the future will loudly contradict you and show off their faces? If you don’t want to, then change it as soon as possible, otherwise you will not be able to escape this cause and effect, and you will be annoyed by children every day, at least for twenty years. Enough.

5. Don’t contradict your parents, and don’t contradict other elders or bosses.

If I want to be noble, I must respect my elders, otherwise I won’t be able to be noble. When I contradict my parents, I have to understand that this is what the ancients called "meanness", and this is where nobleness and baseness are determined.

Why does the Bodhisattva always obey all living beings?

Because he has great blessings and great wisdom, he will not do anything to undermine his blessings.

We who are unlucky always do things that bring bad luck to us, and those who resist and contradict our parents are the least blessed. Nothing goes smoothly in life. I have seen even smart people get bad grades in school. Okay, but I will fail in the key exam.

Don’t hit the smiling person with your hand. Smiling is very important. When my parents are angry, I smile. When my parents are angry, I laugh. When my parents are unhappy, I quickly come up to me and ask what's the matter in a humble and lovely way. How could my parents be so angry with me when I treat them with such a gentle and cute smile? They are even embarrassed to criticize me. This is the most important and effective way to transfer parents. My friend's mother gets angry whenever she sees her, and says whatever hurts others. She is very hysterical. It has been like this for twenty years, but she just smiled and spoke softly to her parents for a month, and it worked. , my mother found her pleasing to the eye and didn’t want to criticize her at all.

If I want to have the attitude to change my parents, I will change them democratically with a soft, cute smile. Instead of them getting angry, I just support them. I have been converted and possessed. If you ignore your parents and let them hold their anger inside, as will be mentioned below, it is very serious.

I often say sorry to my parents over and over again in my heart, to my teachers sincerely over and over again, and to all the living beings I have hurt.

8. If my parents are unhappy with what I say. I remember not to let my parents hold their anger in their hearts, because this is actually very serious.

My parents felt a little angry. My work, exams, and everything else that day would not go well. Moreover, my parents are holding their breath in their hearts, and they will get sick, and I will have headaches. It would be really serious if I knew my parents were angry and ignored, and it was the harbinger of a long period of bad luck. The ancients could tell by looking at your complexion that something was not going well with you. If you contradicted your parents, you would immediately have poverty written on your face, so that anyone who knew how to read could see it clearly.

If my parents hang up the phone on me or throw the phone away from me, I will try to call them as soon as possible to eliminate their anger as soon as possible. I must be kind to them and remember: the purpose is to resolve the problem. My parents are angry. It doesn’t matter what I say. It doesn’t matter what my parents say.

9. In the past, I resisted and contradicted my parents so much and looked down on my elders. The merits that were destroyed were too great. To get back your merit, you can only wash your parents' feet every day with a filial and grateful heart, carry water and pour it yourself, wash it carefully, and wipe it dry with a dry towel (if you don't wipe it dry, it will easily cause the skin to rot) , put on your parents' socks, be careful not to wrinkle them, otherwise your feet will clinch. Put your socks down and be careful, gentle, and loving.

10. Part of your monthly salary must be used to support your parents no matter what. Being respectful, filial, and providing money to your parents is extremely good for improving your wealth.

11. When our parents call us, we must answer immediately and cannot delay.

When our parents tell us to do something, we must do it immediately and not be lazy.

If a person's life is generally unsatisfactory and suffers from all kinds of pain and suffering, it is usually because he has resisted and contradicted his parents since childhood.

I have observed that the most painful thing for many girls on the Internet is love. Marriage is originally about harmony. They often contradict and contradict their parents, which has no harmony at all. It makes the whole body full of hostility, so it is impossible to have a relationship. Smooth and harmonious feelings.

What are parents, elders, and superiors?

My parents gave birth to me, so they help me through birth;

Elders, superiors, and those who give birth to young children also help me through birth. ;

What is the object of affection?

The object, the object, the relative image, is the opposite to me;

If you don’t have parents, teachers and students to help you, the object will come to you. If you compete, you will be bullied.

So if you want a good marriage, the first thing is to stop contradicting your parents and teachers, always make your parents and teachers happy, and let your parents and teachers help you in the next life, so that your feelings will not bully you

Start now, change it immediately, and within a year, you will have a good marriage.

The aura generated by being filial to parents is the most precious and powerful aura in the world. It can support all blessings and suppress all kinds of difficulties in life, including worries, sorrows and fears.

〈Respectfully recorded〉

In addition, read, recite and practice the first chapter of "Disciple Rules", "Enter the filial piety".

I hope the poster will repent to his parents soon, gain their understanding, and be a filial son! Set a positive example for the unfilial sons of the world! Use your own strength to move others and become a filial son! Then you are the most filial son in the world!

Please work hard, for the sake of filial piety!