The best way for mother-in-law to get along (the best way for mother-in-law to get along)

Introduction: As a mother-in-law, if she really treats her daughter-in-law as a daughter, she will not talk about the good moments for her.

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Many girls are worried about how to get along with their mother-in-law before they get married. They have seen her horror on TV and heard many wonderful things from married people.

However, after falling in love, I have also heard a lot of praise from my boyfriend, such as: "My mother is not a traditional person." "In what age, mothers-in-law like TV are all performers." "My mother said that when I get married, she won't participate in our small family. If I am happy, she will be happy."

The pride that comes to mind as I talk about it will never stop proclaiming "My mother is the best."

And many mothers-in-law will hold hands and ask for help when they meet a girl who may be a future daughter-in-law for the first time. They will say what they want to eat and aunt will cook it for you. At that moment, the mother-in-law showed her true feelings, and the girl was warm and glad that she had a good mother-in-law.

But things have changed since I got married. The once kind mother-in-law has somehow become a boring "mother-in-law".

as long as I do something for you, I'll keep you thinking about her kindness. And give her a chance, and she will directly tell you what to do and blend in with your life. It is also euphemistic to treat you as a daughter.

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On the surface, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems calm, but it is actually turbulent. Everyone complains in private. This is a problem that exists in many families.

you can't tell who is right or wrong. It is also understandable to criticize and criticize each other. Perhaps the last thing you should do is that your mother-in-law says that she treats you as her daughter, so you are really rude and treat her like your own mother.

what she does for you is not because she loves you, but because she loves her son.

You should know that everyone but your parents will get back what they have done to you.

I still remember the TV series "Double-sided Adhesive", and there was such a tender scene. Christina played a Shanghai girl named Lijuan who married Yaping, the "Phoenix Man", and lived a happy life after the marriage.

After her mother-in-law came home, she bought food, cooked and cleaned, stayed up late to make sofa cover for light-colored sofas, and even cleaned Lijuan's underwear, which simply brought Lijuan a full touch.

After a long time, it changed. My mother-in-law began to complain that Lijuan went to the gym without doing so much housework, complaining that Lijuan spent a lot of money. Later, only her son cooked specially at home, otherwise it would be leftovers.

finally, the conflict escalated, and it was raging.

The result may be that Lijuan took her simple and kind mother-in-law as her own mother at first, which caused her mother-in-law's dissatisfaction.

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As a mother, what she has done for her children is no regrets, and her love for others may be true, but at least it needs to be repaid.

only in front of our parents can we be coquettish at will.

We can't really enjoy the love of others because we need to repay it.

Only by keeping others' kindness to themselves in mind, can the relationship last.

I watched a TV program, mainly in the form of "thanking and apologizing" to promote positive energy. One of the mother-in-law explained that because she was a city dweller, she looked down on her daughter-in-law from the countryside. She usually lived under the same roof and didn't even look at her.

although the daughter-in-law is wronged, she has never had a conflict with her.

it was not until my father-in-law was ill and my daughter-in-law ran before and after that that my mother-in-law discovered her daughter-in-law's kindness.

After that, the mother-in-law changed her attitude towards her daughter-in-law, and they got along like mother and daughter. Although I experienced some unhappiness at first, fortunately, there was a day of reconciliation.

The mother-in-law sincerely apologized for what she had done before in the program. The daughter-in-law also generously said that things are not so serious, and they are all family members.

It's just that many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have never crossed this hurdle in their lives. Some of them are like enemies, and some of them are superficial.

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Perhaps the daughter-in-law's sincere efforts as soon as she entered the door didn't get warm feedback, and she gradually became cold. Perhaps the mother-in-law met a daughter-in-law who didn't know how to return, and she complained more. Two people always can't get along well.

sometimes, the more people you don't like, the more they do, the more wrong they are. The longer time goes by, the more contradictions there are, and the more difficult it is to get happy day after day.

If everyone is like the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the program, they have an epiphany, and for the sake of the people they love, they will make some setbacks and find each other's good, and their future life will be much more harmonious.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not a family at all. It is entirely up to the cultivation of their feelings in the later period to force their way into a door.

A mother-in-law wants to ask her daughter-in-law as a mother, hoping to treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter. If she only pretends to be good for her son, it will disrupt the life of the young couple, and it will not pay off.

Many mother-in-law overstepped the line, and after being refuted, they still have to pose as elders. "I treat you as a daughter, can't I talk about you?"

In fact, everyone knows that if they were really treated as daughters, they wouldn't complain so much.

If a daughter-in-law wants to be respected in her husband's family, she should first respect herself. No one should do anything for you, and all the efforts made by others need your equal feedback.

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Many people complain that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along with, but there are still many families with good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and in these families, there are general similarities between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

regardless of whether the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, first of all, the mother-in-law doesn't ask too much of her daughter-in-law as an elder, and it is necessary to understand that young people now have their own lifestyles and ideas. Secondly, she doesn't boss her daughter-in-law around as the head of the family, or pretend to be a person who has been through it and interfere in the marriage of her daughter-in-law and her son. Finally, the daughter-in-law is kind to her mother-in-law, which is filial piety and kindness, but the mother-in-law should not take her daughter-in-law's kindness for granted, or even hold her head high to dislike her daughter-in-law for not doing well enough.

correspondingly, the daughter-in-law should be filial to her mother-in-law, but don't be critical of what her mother-in-law does. It's normal for two generations to disagree, and if we care about everything, the family will be in a mess. Mother-in-law is kind to her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law should be grateful. Even your own mother should be grateful for your kindness, instead of treating her mother-in-law's kindness to you as it should be. Mother-in-law's temperament can't be like daughter-in-law's mind, and daughter-in-law should understand that after all, you are not a person who can do everything perfectly.

There is a generation gap between two women. Because * * * loves the same man and becomes a family, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and disagreements. As a middleman, the son and husband should play a role in lubrication, so that the relationship between wife and mother can be better and better, instead of running away or blindly favoring one side when encountering problems, which will worsen the contradictions.

Finally, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not related by blood, so it is not easy to be like mother and daughter. Only when both sides put their positions right can the family be stable.

This article originated from "Flower Shadow Story". Huaying story, the story in your heart, wakes you up at dawn and sleeps with you at night.