Law of interpersonal communication: people always talk about their favors, but don't talk about giving them favors.

A few days ago, I recorded a short video and talked about a topic: people who have high hopes will not report, and I will give you a suggestion: others are good to us and know how to repay; If we are kind to others, we will forget it. A friend complained to me in the comments section, but he hasn't helped others yet. Why is this happening? Let's talk about helping others in detail today.

As for helping, I'll give you a proverb: always say that you are favored by others, not giving them favors.

When others help you, keep it in mind and always talk about it, looking for opportunities to repay others. Here is a very important point, which I often talk about. I don't often mention it when I meet and chat. You don't tell me how people know what you know, do you? Maybe you haven't had a chance to repay him yet. Then, people often talk about their kindness. He didn't say that he was happy to hear it. At least the people I help are not baiwenhang.

Moreover, I will tell you a big truth: one day you are in trouble, and the person who may help you is not the person you have helped, but the person who has helped you.

If you help others without saying anything, what do you mean by always saying something? It means you want something in return, right? This pattern is very small, and even over time, the people you mentioned are ungrateful or even disgusted with this kind of goodwill. Don't think about kindness, why? The loved one is back, and the blessed one is back. When you can help others, lend a helping hand and give your blessings, and you will get even greater blessings in the future. Don't narrow yourself down.

I have helped many people for so many years. Whether there is a baiwenhang, there must be, but there is no kindness to repay, more.

So, remember this little advice in interpersonal communication: you always say you owe others, but you don't say you owe others.