The children choose dishes at the dining table.

Speaking of table culture, I think everyone is familiar with it, and eating is also very particular. Friends gathering, family gathering, social work, etc. Which one does not need to be held at the dinner table. Have good manners and good upbringing, and let others look up at it at any time.

On the contrary, a person who has no self-cultivation and no manners can rarely get the favor of others. Children's future achievements are closely related to family education. As the saying goes, the dining table shows character, and parents must cultivate their children's table manners from an early age.

During the National Day holiday, Lily took her son Xiao Hao to a class reunion. We talked while waiting for the food. Many students praised Xiao Hao as cute and polite.

But when it was time to eat, this polite little Hao was unexpected, which attracted everyone to "sit up and take notice." Eating at the table, being picky, always rummaging through the dishes with chopsticks for what you like to eat. Lily just watched, didn't stop, and helped the children get food.

After a while, everyone couldn't eat any more. The classmate whispered: This child is really ill-bred. I praised him just now! It is estimated that it will be difficult to achieve anything when you grow up.

A person who finds fault at the dinner table, a person who makes a mess of the food, a person who skips around at the dinner table and a person who makes a loud noise at the dinner table are easily laughed at and despised by others. Such behavior will make others think that he is a selfish person and lacks literacy.

After such a person enters the society, it is bound to hit a wall everywhere, and it is difficult to be recognized and accepted by people. A person's success is not only related to his ability, but also to his personality, cultivation and pattern.

1, don't eat, voracious child

Some children wolfed down their meals as if someone were fighting for them. When they see something delicious, they can't wait to eat it all at once. Often make the table full of food, at sixes and sevens.

Many parents are still used to it and don't consider changing their children at all. They think children are still young, but they will be fine when they grow up. I don't know that good habits can't be cultivated when I was a child, and it's even harder to change when I grow up. With this bad habit, no matter where you go, you will feel that your child has no quality.

Even if you can't chew slowly and with dignity at the dinner table, at least you can ensure that it won't affect others' meals and eat better! If you are impolite and ill-bred, you will only be looked down upon. How can you talk about commitment?

2, selfish children: picky, overbearing, eating alone.

Some children are picky eaters, no matter at home or outside, no matter who they eat with, they never consider other people's feelings. Pick and choose among the dishes and rummage through what you like to eat.

There is also a kind of child who is overbearing and eats alone. When you see your favorite food, bring the plate directly, even if you can't finish it, don't let others sandwich it.

Such children are too selfish, don't know how to share, don't know how to respect others, and will be easily hated by others when they step into the society in the future. They have no interpersonal relationship and bad conduct, so it is difficult to make any progress.

3. Children "laughing and playing" at the dinner table

When you are eating, will you still have an appetite when there are children chattering and jumping around? When chatting with friends before serving, the children are always dangling in front of you, which is very noisy. Are you still in the mood to chat?

Parents should educate their children from an early age, "eat without words, sleep without words", eat quietly and don't disturb others. Children who are impolite will also embarrass their parents. If you are rude and have no emotional ability, you will have a lot to do when you grow up.

Good table manners reflect a person's quality, and most people are willing to associate with people who are polite, educated and have high emotional intelligence.

Parents should set an example to educate their children.

Parents should teach their children table manners from an early age, and don't be careless.

1, etiquette before meals

Let children know how to respect their elders, and don't start eating until everyone arrives. Old people come first, young people come later.

2, food etiquette

Teach children how to use tableware correctly and try to keep it tidy when eating. Don't pick and choose on the plate, don't make a noise, don't skip around, don't sneeze at the table, eat slowly, don't make a fuss, and avoid touching others or knocking over the tableware.

3. After-dinner etiquette

When you leave after eating, clean up the residue, tell your elders that you are ready and let them eat slowly.

The so-called "three-year-old and seven-year-old" can show some signs of children's future achievements from their behavior at the dinner table. Parents should not always be indifferent to some wrong behaviors of their children. If you don't guide your child to correct it in time, it will be difficult to make great achievements in the future.

Whether children have a good future depends on how parents usually educate them!