What can make you pay a painful price?

Let me pay a painful price, naturally because of my failure in study, emotion and work.

First, the failure in learning once felt that I was different. I thought I could get good grades as long as I studied hard. After all, I have been praised by teachers and parents as a smart child, and I feel very powerful because of this trust. But after the results of the college entrance examination came out, I found myself just an ant compared with some powerful people. What was once called pride is not worth mentioning in front of tens of millions of candidates. I dreamed of an ideal university before, but I didn't expect it to be too much, and I failed in my study. Finally, I went to the diploma workshop.

Second, emotional failure I am a person with a strong desire to control, and I also want to control all aspects emotionally. I hope my partner can listen to me and treat me well. So I always list some couples' boxes to limit each other's behavior and ask them to do something to me. Maybe at the beginning, the other party feels very fresh and will play with me, but after a long time, it will make the other party feel pressure. But I didn't know it, but it intensified, eventually causing the other party's disgust and letting the feelings say goodbye. Then in many relationships, I don't know how to repent. I still think I'm not wrong. I think my standards are very high. But this is actually a very disgusting little problem in my relationship. The failure of feelings has cost me countless time and energy, and I feel that even my own life has become sad.

Third, failure at work will also face various problems at work, and sometimes some projects will be criticized by the boss if they are not done well. Sometimes some things can't meet the boss's standards, and their own performance can't meet the standards, and they will be criticized a lot. Because the ability at work is not outstanding, the salary is very small, and naturally I live a very poor life. I always feel that I have accomplished nothing.