My husband pays too much attention to family, and I can't stand it.

A n experienced person, almost forty, thirteen-year-old children this year, write some struggle experiences:

1, don't divorce! If you believe me, don't leave, the woman will probably regret the divorce! I have to admit that with the growth of age, women's depreciation is very severe. It is not difficult to find it again. Of course, if you were Yuqi Zhang, I wouldn't say anything.

2. Don't live with your mother-in-law and father-in-law! You can live in a community or upstairs and downstairs, but don't live together! I've seen too many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law! Please believe me, distance makes beauty!

3, communicate more between husband and wife, draw a red line, and write a good scale if you need to play. The other side is always stepping on the line. For example, if you don't fight, the red line. Another example is who did something wrong, washing dishes, washing clothes and so on. Make a rule.

4, read more books, such as the University of Minnesota's "Oak Marriage Quality Assessment". He analyzed the deep-seated contradictions in marriage from eleven factors, such as marriage expectation, sexual life, personality compatibility, sharing and communication, conflict resolution, financial management, leisure activities, relationship between relatives and friends, role equality, religious belief and children's education, and learned some methods to control emotions and promote communication. Two people are still very easy to communicate!

5, don't be too sensitive, some small mistakes, just bear it! Generally speaking, as long as we don't live together every day, there are not so many contradictions!