Children often bully other students at school. How to persuade and educate him?

The premise of our practice is very important, that is, we must tell our children that bullying others is wrong, and let them know calmly and firmly that you will not let this kind of behavior continue to happen. Then talk to the child about what he is doing, let him know what bullying is, and talk about the possible reasons why he does it. Stay calm, don't blame the child, listen to his own thoughts. Help children understand how these behaviors affect others. You can say, "Do you want others to do this to you?" Or "How will others feel if you do this?"

Pay attention to children's online situation, see if he often plays violent games or watches violent movies, and guide him to play educational games and watch movies suitable for his age. At school, we should support teachers' opinions and give children a strong message: bullying is not allowed. Always keep in touch with the teacher to understand the child's behavior at school.

If you want to change your child's bullying behavior, you need to know why he likes bullying. Generally speaking, there are five reasons: 1. He was bullied by others, and in turn bullied others. Listen to the child and carefully distinguish whether he is a victim. Join a bad group, you will be punished if you don't bully others, and bully others in order not to be bullied. 3. Imitate violence in TV programs and mobile phone videos. Sometimes bullying happens because children see others do it and then imitate it.

Bullying other people's children may be to make others take him seriously or to control others. If so, it is likely that there is something wrong with the development of self-esteem. Children may also misunderstand the meaning of "protecting themselves". Sometimes, giving positive comments on children's aggressive or arbitrary sexual behavior will encourage their bullying behavior.

The sooner you deal with the problem of children being bullied, the better. When a child is young, you can influence his bullying behavior to the greatest extent. The younger he is, the more likely he is to correct his behavior. In fact, this idea is wrong. 3~6 years old is the most frequent and sensitive stage for children. Correct guidance from parents is very important. Children must be guided to develop in a good direction before they form bad habits.