What are the common customs for weddings in rural areas of Northeast China?

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First of all, the bride and groom do not meet before the wedding. The bride will wait at her parents’ house the next morning. In the Northeast, weddings are held in the morning. People who get married after noon and have a wedding banquet are only two people. Marriage means remarriage. The bride, ME, sits on the bed and makes a quail dress without touching her feet. She relies on the dowry made by her mother: two quilts, one is the red embroidered Hundred Sons and Thousands of Suns quilt, and the Dragon and Phoenix Cheng Xiang quilt. There are sprinkles on the bed. A new one-dollar and fifty-cent coin, with my wedding basin next to it. This basin is very special, with the word "happy" printed in red. There are some cosmetics (meaning the bride is beautiful) and money (meaning that the future life will be full of gold and silver). ), and a pair of small dogs (meaning the puppies are getting more and more as time goes by), and they are wrapped in a big red cloth with the word "happy" on it. When I hand the basin to my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law will give a red envelope.

Then, when the man comes in, he should kneel down, give the bouquet of flowers, stand up, lift his head (the one with the red basin), kiss and make a happy dress, and then help the bride up. At this time, the mother-in-law should give the gift Add noodles and eggs, and the bride and groom feed each other. Then the groom brings flowers to his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Theoretically, the bride should let the groom carry her to the car without her feet touching the ground, and then put on her shoes after arriving at the hotel. Interlude: An aunt said that she would put 100RMB each in the bride’s shoes (meaning she is rich)

The bride and groom and the best man and bridesmaid were the first car, the second car was the father-in-law and mother-in-law, and the third car was the bride’s grandparents. The groom The parents were already waiting at the door of the hotel. They waited for the bride to get off the car, handed the red basin, and brought flowers to the parents-in-law. Then they waited at the door of the hotel to greet the guests. Then they started acting~ Change their words, the parents-in-law gave the daughter-in-law 1001 RMB: It means that it is better to choose one from a thousand. Daughter-in-law. Father-in-law and mother-in-law give 999: It means forever.