The church shut up and talk.

Zeng Guofan said: "Talking a lot is a great evil in life."

It's not necessarily a good thing to be outspoken, but learning to shut up is definitely not a bad thing.

A true wise man is quiet and reserved. They use silence instead of excuses, eliminate troubles with silence, see through without breaking, see through without exposing, say nothing, but have their own judgments in their hearts.

There is a master in Qingcheng who is proficient in astronomy and geography. Talented people are famous all over the world, and an endless stream of disciples have broken the threshold.

A young man came from afar to pay tribute to the master. After the greeting, without waiting for the master to speak, he gushed about his reverence for the master and kept talking about how excellent he was.

The master didn't want to accept him as an apprentice, but he couldn't get in a word and just listened to him finish.

After he finished speaking, the master reluctantly agreed to let him visit, but he made a condition that he would charge double tuition. Young people are confused. Master replied, "I will teach you to shut up first, and then I will teach you to open your mouth."

Lin Yutang said: "The shorter you speak, the better. A long speech can sometimes backfire. Wisdom and thought are never judged by talking more and talking less. "

Many times, instead of arguing with people endlessly, causing conflicts and contradictions, it is better to keep silent, laugh it off and seek stability.

You don't have to argue everything about winning or losing. Shut up, stop loss in time, play dumb, and do it with heart.

The highest level of conversation is to make the other person comfortable, shut up at the right time and don't talk nonsense, which will make the other person comfortable.

Silence is a kind of practice, and silence is a realm.

Talking to people and learning to shut up is the greatest education in my life.