Once we were tired of childhood and longed to grow up, and now we want to go back to childhood. Why?

Joy is regarded as joy when it dies, not when it first comes.

People are contradictory, they don't cherish what they have, and when they die, they suddenly look back, but that person is there, and the lights are dim. You and I have been looking for happiness, but rarely can we really find happiness. The flame of our happiness is usually lit by an accidental fire. Don't try to control happiness, enjoy the present quietly, and when you look back, there will be no regrets.

Worry and happiness, success or failure, just look at it. When you know how to adapt yourself to pain and happiness, you really know how to live, and you can turn adversity into luck with wit. Only by getting rid of all troubles can a person get real spiritual happiness. Happy people are all the same. They are optimistic about life, happy with their work and hard at their careers.

Under the haze of the epidemic, we know how to cherish our health. Happiness is health, depression is disease. Let's be healthy and happy every day!

When I was young, I really thought my father was a great man. I think my father is omnipotent and powerful. He can meet all my requirements. Father earns money and can support his family. At that time, I felt useless and could do nothing. I really want to grow up quickly, like my father, so that I can buy many toys I want, eat snacks I want, buy things I want and do many things that children can't do.

But when I grew up, I found that my father was just an ordinary migrant worker, doing the lowest job, holding the lowest salary, saving money to send home, and suffering a lot we didn't know. And now I am at the bottom of this society, working until the end of the month to get paid, only to find that transformers toys, which I wanted to buy as a child, is no longer needed. The snacks and spicy strips I liked as a child have long been meaningless, and many things I wanted to do as a child have long been uninterested. Now I have no time to do what I am interested in, and I have to face the pressure of work, life and family. I suffered a lot and cried secretly myself. The burden of this family fell on me. The bitterness of eating today and the sadness in the future make me dare not think. Looking at those two falling tears, I seem to see my childhood. "That day, it was raining in Mao Mao. I sat at the window with my head down, shaking my calf and thinking about the day when I grew up."

The corners of the mouth rose slightly, and I couldn't help sneering. At that time, I was so innocent and lovely. Now, if you give me a chance, I really want to go back to my childhood, lie in my father's arms and coquetry, and call out "Dad". Well ... who is not a child?

When I was a child, I felt that adults were very powerful and arrogant. They could decide things by themselves, make money and control their behavior.

At that time, I often sat on the stone windowsill half waist high, watching the warm universe swaying outside the window, watching butterflies flapping their wings and flying freely, watching birds playing in the branches, and even a mature hen could crow proudly for an egg. ...

I think it must be good to grow up. At that time, I could make my own money, buy my favorite dolls and read many picture books. I don't have to be beaten by my father when I am naughty. Grow up quickly. My heart is full of grass.

However, I don't know when this feeling has faded a little. Years have cut off many things with sharp knives, but left many mottled marks. When I grew up, I found that the word "easy" never existed in the adult world.

I was deeply moved by my daughter's casual words that day. She said, why is my aunt so big this year? When she asked, I quickly turned my head and rushed to the bathroom to cry.

A few years ago, I went home for the Spring Festival. Because there are many people, father wants to install an iron bed. That day, I saw that he was very slow and struggling to screw, so I took it over at will to help. But at the moment I started, that bitterness made me silent for half a ring. It turned out that the screws were very light, and I found my father was old. He is no longer the strong man who has to wait for me when he walks, but an old man with vicissitudes of life.

He left the year before last and never came back. I often dream about him, and my heart will wake up like tears. If I can, I really want to go back to the past, to the time when fireworks were blooming, to the carefree days, to the time when my parents were young and we were not grown up.

Feng Zikai once said: I was silly when I was a child and always wanted to grow up. Yes, we were silly when we were young, and we didn't know that we had to pay so much when we grew up.

I don't mean to say that if it was a wonderful childhood, I might want to go back. If it was a bad childhood, probably no one thought of the past! The reality is that when you grow up, no matter whether your childhood is good or bad, you can save your future life with your own hands as an adult!

Why do you want to grow up when you are a child and want to go back to childhood when you grow up?

This has to start with my story:

Why do we say that we are tired of childhood?

First of all, at the beginning of life, people are born with good nature, and the material world of the spiritual world is blank. As I grew up and came into contact with new things, I especially remember being educated by my parents when I was a child. At that time, my mind was forced! At that time, I thought adults were too good to go to school, and I was free every day! Especially in the rebellious period, I found the outside world so good. Why should I be controlled by adults? I want to grow up and get rid of the control of adults! I remember discussing with my family as soon as I started my business in society. They say you're young. Wait until you are old and have accumulated experience!

Want to go back to childhood when you grow up?

In fact, when I grow up, I find that the outside world is not so beautiful, but whenever I encounter a little setback, I will think of my childhood, just like the failure of my first venture. It's good to think about childhood memories, so don't worry about anything. Every day, my mouth is open and my clothes are stretched! In fact, it's not just us, but also the old people who are half buried in the soil. Once they had dinner with their grandmother, thinking that they could eat whatever they wanted when they were young. However, now they can't eat rice, meat, food, fruit, mouth, body, brain, hearing and vision if they are a little harder! Who doesn't want to go back to childhood?

My grandfather left in August of 19.

Although my grandmother is old, she is very healthy.

Hello, everyone, I'm Yu Duan Jiangnan, and I'm glad to answer this question. When we were young, we were disciplined by our parents and wanted to grow up quickly. When we grow up, we want to go back to childhood for various reasons.

Happy childhood, just don't know that time is gone forever. No matter where we are now, please cherish what we have now, cherish the present time, and don't recall that today is a blank in the future. We write our own chapters every day and cherish what we have!

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Childhood is the truth in dreams, the dream in reality. Watching others grow up slowly and bid farewell to childhood. I hope I grow up, and when I grow up, I know that this world is not as real as childhood!

When I was nineteen years old, I met a girl who claimed to be Anhui at Shaoguan Railway Station. She kept yelling at my brother, crying and crying, saying that she had lost her money and had no money to go home. Please let me give her twenty dollars. I gave her twenty dollars without saying anything. A few hours later, at a food stall in Nanhua Temple, I ordered a five-dollar snack. I'm not satisfied after eating. Suddenly I saw that Anhui girl ordered a sumptuous dish to eat with her companions, talking and laughing. For the first time, I feel that the adult world is too fake and complicated. I was at a loss at that moment.

Grow up slowly day by day, grow old slowly, suffer losses and be cheated. I feel that time flies, a lot of things have not been done, and a lot of things have not been learned. Suddenly want to go back to childhood. As a song goes, "If I can make a wish, I will go back to my childhood ..."

When we were young, we were tired of childhood and longed to grow up. There is a simple reason. Children who grow up in the countryside will have this idea when they are young. Children who grow up in the countryside can't compare with children in the city in childhood. We wear new clothes once a year, have no toys and seldom eat snacks ... Let me give you an example!

When I was a child, my family was poor, my parents divorced and went their separate ways. If you want to go to school and have no money, you can only watch others read books at the door of the classroom (I still remember the eager eyes)

Finally, I have the money to go to school, but I am afraid to leave school, because I have to do farm work as soon as school is over, and my grandparents have to go back to cook early. If you don't have time, you will be scolded or even beaten, and you will go to the fields to help, dig sweet potatoes, pick peanuts, pull corn, and herd cattle. Weekends or holidays! At that time, the action was not very good, and the basket was still full, otherwise it would be scolded.

When I was a child, everyone else had money to buy snacks. I dare not have them. I don't even have the money to buy a notebook. At that time, I envied the children of rich families. Pick up a mineral water bottle and sell it yourself when you want to buy a book. At that time, I could sell for tens of dollars at a time, and then I went to buy vegetables and books, and I went to the supply and marketing cooperative classroom to sell spicy strips, and the teacher sold spicy strips in class (so I didn't have the heart to study and finally became illiterate). All the children like Chinese New Year, because I have clothes to wear and lucky money, but I don't. ...

So when I was a child, I wanted to grow up quickly: growing up at that time was very simple: when I grew up, I wouldn't have to do farm work, I wouldn't be beaten, I wouldn't run out of money, I would buy whatever I wanted, and there were lucky money.

Then why rush back to childhood now? Maybe it's because I've been working for a long time, I'm tired of intrigue in the workplace, and I regret not studying hard at the beginning, so I've been out of society for more than ten years and still have nothing to do. After coming out of the society, I can no longer feel the feeling of visiting relatives and friends when I was a child. Nowadays, people are very selfish, and their demands for material things are becoming more and more obvious. They don't talk about feelings, only about money. There is only one reason why I want to go back to my childhood: I want to study hard, no matter what. Grow up slowly, slowly look at the society, the workplace, and humanity, step by step.

Thank you for inviting me! Let me answer this question.

Speaking of childhood, the first thing that comes to mind is Tayu Lo's "Childhood": "Waiting for class, waiting for school, waiting for the childhood of games ..."

The only two things I could get rid of in my childhood were playing games and reading picture books.

At that time, there were many games that little boys could play, such as playing origami planes, which could last for months. A dozen little boys fly paper planes together to see who can turn a corner, fly high, fly over the roof, fly the slowest and stay in the air the longest. Planes often fly to the end, and paper planes of all sizes stop on the eaves, tiles and rafters of the house without flying over the roof. Many times, adults tell our children to go home for dinner, and everyone is unwilling to go back. Because the plane I folded didn't fly above the roof. Only one or two people are willing to go back for dinner, because his folded plane didn't fly over the roof, but hung on a high tree fork. Because of this, he will become an idol that everyone worships. Everyone begged him to make himself a plane, please him with delicious food and make him happy.

Playing with glass balls is also fun. Squat down, draw a line, aim, pop up the glass ball with your thumb and hit the other glass ball. There are many people playing. Rock, scissors and cloth guess the boxing order, and whoever wins will go first. If people are too close to hit, everyone looks disgusted and scolds "stinks like shit!" Get up! Get up! Get out of here! Let me do it! " If you hit it from a distance, you must listen to the noise. The sound of two glass balls colliding, bang, was heard by everyone. The two glass balls collided and bounced off. "It's ringing, it's ringing, Mao Mao. You are so fucking awesome. You must have a good eye! " Everyone praised in unison. With this compliment, I forgot to feed the pigs and chickens because I was playing, and I didn't feel much pain when I was beaten by an adult.

There are also cattle hunting, now called gyroscopes, water guns, motorcycle chain guns, slingshots, sandbags, corn stalks, firewood stalks (cotton stalks), catching fish, trapping cicadas, stealing watermelons (children just want to satisfy their own desires, as long as they are not used to it, adults pretend to drive away and screw things up), sitting around and talking about the Flying Tigers and the journey to the West, and having a good time. It is always dark when you play, and adults chase you when you play. Because adults can't find anyone for a long time, either they don't pay attention to the high wheat pile, or they sit on the branches, or they can't see at all when they drill into the high and dense corn field.

There are many games and fun, but I also like reading picture books. Watch for a day, and sit still. The change given by adults, reluctant to buy food, has been bought into picture books. I like watching too much, such as Cowherd and Weaver Girl, Tiger Fighting, Seven Swords Down Tianshan Mountain, Red Sun, Ji Huo Yuanjia and so on. Looking at it, I can't help but enter the story situation. Sometimes I am afraid, sometimes I laugh, sometimes I am full of pride, and sometimes I cry silently. ……

I miss my childhood very much. Although I have painful memories, in retrospect, it is more of a happy game. Because there are troubles and pains, I am eager to grow up. I measure the height of the door frame every day. I really grow up day by day, but my troubles have increased. All the troubles and pains of childhood seem to be much less than those of adults. Therefore, the joy and pain of childhood have become beautiful memories.

Childhood is so short, the girl in the next class who hasn't passed my window has become a square dance aunt, and the teacher's chalk is no longer chattering on the blackboard. Teachers have retired or passed away, and the phrase "an inch of money can't buy an inch of time" has also sent me from childhood to middle age!

Recalling childhood is intoxicating, cherishing the present and not forgetting the initial heart of childhood will make life more colorful and better!

Remember that song "Childhood"? "Under the banyan tree by the pond, cicadas are calling for summer." What a quiet picture, as if it were yesterday. Childhood makes people feel nostalgic, especially when they grow up, especially when life is troubled.

When I was a child, I grew up in the countryside, quiet and beautiful. I remember there was a river behind the house. I didn't know its name at that time, but now I know it's called Diandi River (I wrote it in a poem and won a prize. Hehe). Too many childhood memories, not bitter, very sweet. In summer, I played with my big wolf dog, and my father carried me across the river to other villages to watch the warmth of the dam movie. Although I am poor, I am also full of longing for the outside world and want to grow up quickly, but I will never get tired of it.

Say goodbye to childhood and grow up. No matter where we are, whether our parents are around or not, we will face our lives independently. Maybe we will encounter a haze, maybe we will get into trouble. The more this time, the more the valve of memory will turn Wang Yang back to childhood. Back to childhood, back to that carefree state, we seem to be able to find the rare happiness now, and we seem to be able to avoid those tangled right and wrong. Childhood, the place where dreams set sail, has become a comfort to our hearts and an antidote to pain.

Although life is very tired, my bags are empty, and my memories are beautiful, the road still extends under my feet, so I don't need to be persistent. I should cherish it, including my childhood now and already.