Boyfriends are always sad in the middle of the night. Tell me, what does this mean?

There are two possibilities. First, I have a strong sense of insecurity about my current feelings. Second, I have an inextricable knot in the past and miss the days when I was with my predecessor. At night, people will inevitably have some emotions that hurt spring and grieve for autumn. It's normal once or twice, but if you love each other like this all the time, it shows that boys have great emotional repression and unhappy life.

Let's start with the first one. In this case, the boy's character belongs to that kind of pride and inferiority. He is swayed by considerations of gain and loss in love, but he is embarrassed to say it, so he can only express his inner hesitation or dissatisfaction in this way to attract your attention. Behind these sad remarks, it is easy to find the crux. For example, I just saw it from a boy in a circle of friends? Where there is no water, it is desert, and where there is no sound, it is loneliness. ? Obviously, I am complaining that girls don't care enough about him, and they are always busy with other things and ignore him, so I feel lonely and I am asking for comfort and hug.

Let's look at the second one. It's a little disgusting. He was happy when he was with you during the day, but he made a sad dynamic at night, which shows that he is not happy now. Those happiness are all illusions. Wait until the dead of night, the past will jump out and torture him. I once met such a love rat, who just told me I love you, but sent one in the middle of the night? In the years to come, I will always walk in the scenery without you. ? Obviously, he is using girls to smooth his feelings. To put it bluntly, girls are spare tires. Once his negative emotions accumulate to a certain extent, it is inevitable to break up.

In short, girls should pay attention to this problem, find a relatively private environment during the day, talk face to face with boys, understand his real thoughts, and give comfort or substantive help. The knot must be untied in time, otherwise it will have a great negative impact on the future emotional development.