Classic Zen: If you want to be happy, you must see it.

1, if you keep expanding your desires and chasing external material desires all day, then you will never be happy! When we are no longer tired of fame and fortune, no longer chasing distant goals, and satisfied with what we have, we should always observe our feelings with a clear heart. Seeing through now is happiness, letting go is happiness, and it is a calm and sincere sunny life.

2, everyone's life is on their own track, even if they walked together for a while because of good or bad karma in the past, they actually went their own way. In the process of life, what we should do is to grasp our own career and let ourselves have a good relationship with each other. In addition, all comparisons, jealousy and persistence are meaningless and harmful to one's life.

3. It's better to miss each other than to meet each other, and it's better to climb by fate. Everything is like this. Gradually learned to be strong, learned to be tolerant, and calmed the restless heart. I like holding a cup of tea and feeling the life behind glitz in that faint fragrance. Go out for a walk, see different scenery, meet different people and things, and you will find that your troubles are so insignificant.

4. People yearn for and seek happiness. Actually, happiness is a kind of mood. Once the original simple heart becomes complicated, happiness and happiness will be far away. Life is the source of happiness. If you care less, you will be happier. What life lacks is a happy heart.

5, when one day, you can face the wind and rain indifferently, as if everything is flat. You are no longer afraid and pessimistic, you are no longer surprised and abnormal. Birth, old age, illness and death are regular. Life has become a blueprint in your heart, so you should work hard. When life matures, when many people and things come out of life, they gradually learn to cherish. Love with your heart and achieve with your heart. This is the magic weapon and key to all success. With this magic weapon, you will be fearless and write it to all those who are struggling in confusion and to all those who are struggling in hot water. I, on behalf of myself.

6, giving can plant one and receive ten; Keeping precepts can purify the three realms; Endure humiliation can benefit from him; Diligence accomplishes nothing; Meditation can settle the body and mind; Wisdom can see through everything. Know karma, know how to follow karma, learn to cherish karma, create good karma, put out the fire in your heart and light the lamp of human wisdom.

7. It will be a blessing if we can spend this day safely. How many people today can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today.

8. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

9. Being angry is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself.

10, I would rather be poor and enjoy it, but I don't want to be rich and worry.

1 1, a person is not infected by bad habits, and happiness is around him.

12, forgiveness can be put down and real happiness can be obtained.

13, seeing that everyone is a good person, seeing that everything is good, seeing that everything is good, this is liberation.

14, follow the fate and be smooth. When you want nothing, you will have everything.

15, people suffer because they pursue the wrong things.

16, you should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you have to let go to get real happiness.

17. Never waste a minute thinking about people you don't like.

18, if you have a good attitude, happiness will last forever. The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop. What can truly redeem yourself is not the flowing time, nor the help of others, but your good attitude. Time has passed, old wounds have gone, and perhaps new scars have come again; Others can help you for a while, but not for a lifetime. Only when you really figure it out, will your heart disease be eradicated. The enemy will block you and the water will drown you. If you let your heart calm down and relax, happiness will always be there.

19, life-long cultivation is accompanied by fate, and rough tea and light rice are also calm. Quiet heart, an elegant man, calm, not happy for things, not sad for himself. Life longs for an elegant life, but it often loses itself in reality and goes with the flow. If you want to find yourself and be an elegant and calm person, you must first calm down and learn to be tolerant, kind, gentle and humble. Life is quiet and calm, because it is calm and elegant.

20, hope, happiness will come to you; If you have a dream, then the opportunity will cover you, and the best mentality is calm; The best state is simple. There are two destinations in life: one is knowing and the other is satisfaction. Knowing makes people live clearly; Contentment makes people live in peace. Indulge in fame and fortune, you will be bound by fame and fortune; If you care too much about honor and disgrace, you will suffer. The more desire, the more bondage; The less desire, the more freedom.

A classic talk about comforting yourself (107 sentence)

First, if you can't be together, don't give each other any hopes and hints. This is the greatest responsibility; Separated, not to disturb each other's safe life, this is the last gentleness.

Second, four clean sentences: sentence 1, health is the greatest interest; In the second sentence, satisfaction is the best property; The third sentence, trust is the best fate; Fourth, peace of mind is the greatest happiness.

3. Life is a journey. You are your friend and your enemy.

Fourth, many times alienation is not annoying, but because I like it too much and I am helpless. I don't want to wait for failure with expectation, so I have to pretend to be generous and go first.

If possible, I just want a glass of water, a piece of bread and a flower. If it is more extravagant, I hope you can pour water, cut bread and send flowers.

6. The best life is that someone loves you, has something to do, and the rest is unhappy and can be cured by themselves.

Seven, everything is enough. If you are kind enough, you will lack your mind. If you are humble enough, you will become weak. If everything is too generous and tolerant, others will not appreciate you, but will intensify. Being too kind is also stupid.

Don't drink when you are in a bad mood, and don't look back when you leave.

Love is like two people pulling a rubber band, and the injured party is always unwilling to let go.

Ten, a lot of trouble stems from not being ruthless enough. Always consider the feelings of others. You always take care of others, so who will take care of you?

XI. Remember to be patient when life is in adversity; When life is good, remember to converge; When life is proud, remember to look at people and talk; When life is frustrated, remember to follow the fate; When in a bad mood, you need to cultivate yourself; When you are in a good mood, you need to dive.

Twelve, no one will know what tomorrow will be like, maybe it's a replica of today, maybe it's a paste of yesterday, but since you have chosen a distant place, share joys and sorrows.

Thirteen, don't take others' comments too seriously, as long as you have a clear conscience, you don't have to care too much.

Fourteen, a person is happy in front of you, but not necessarily happy behind closed doors. No one leads a particularly easy life. You may not understand others, but please respect others.

In fact, nothing can't be let go. As time goes by, when you look back on the past, you will find that what you thought you couldn't let go was just a springboard in your life, allowing you to grow.

Turn on the light if you are afraid of the dark, and contact if you miss it. No matter how big things are today, tomorrow will be small things; The biggest thing this year is the story next year.

Seventeen, people can only live once, don't live too tired: you should live comfortably and smartly.

18. Always keep the words in your heart, for dignity and for many stupid reasons.

Nineteen, temper, this thing, is a kind of disposition, and taking it back is a skill. A true master of life never lets his emotions control him.

Twenty, living a day is a blessing, so we should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.

Twenty-one, the heart is not big, don't recite too much. Yesterday's entanglement only imprisons today and tomorrow. Be sure to learn to release!

22, comfort others, but cry alone in the middle of the night. That's what people do. Truth always convinces others, but it cannot convince itself.

Twenty-three, there is only one kind of success in this world, which is called "living your own life in the way you like".

Before finding the right partner, the only thing to do is to be good enough.

Twenty-five, not afraid of the long road, afraid of short ambition; Not afraid of slowness, but afraid of standing often; If you are not afraid of poverty, you are afraid of laziness; Not afraid of the fierceness of the opponent, but afraid of trembling.

Everyone has another side of human nature, please don't force his other half out. When a good-tempered person lets go of the bottom line, you don't even have a chance to kneel. To leave space for others is to leave character for yourself.

Twenty-seven, the people and things you missed, others have the opportunity to meet, others miss, you have the opportunity to have. Everyone will miss it, everyone will miss it, and what really belongs to you will never be missed.

28. The biggest worry of modern people is not what they choose, but what they lose because of their choice.

Remember this sentence: You can manage your emotions, you are elegant, you can control your mentality, and you are successful.

You are lonely because you want someone to care about you and don't want to be disturbed too much.

31. If you have something to say, don't wait for the other person to understand, because the other person is not you and doesn't know what you want. In the end, it can only be sadness and disappointment, especially feelings.

No one will be the safe haven you think of in this life, only you are your last refuge. No matter how shabby and humble, it is better than relying on others.

33. People don't have to be beautiful, as long as someone loves them deeply. People don't have to be too rich, just live a warm life.

34. What advantages you use to win your life, you will also lose your life for the same reason.

35. Time without laughter is wasted. One day, when you know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.

Don't envy others, you have something better, but you don't know it yet.

Modern people live in illusion. He thinks he knows what he wants, but what he wants is what others want him to want.

Luck can never beat an idiot. You can only beat those who think they are smart.

Thirty-nine, people always have to find something to do to keep themselves busy. When they are busy, they know that life is not easy and that ordinary sadness is melodramatic.

Forty, there is a gap that you are not worthy of your own ambition and have failed your own suffering.

Forty-one, people cry when they are born, and laughter is learned later; So sadness is a low-level instinct; And happiness is a more advanced ability.

Forty-two, there are no perfect two people, only two hearts give in to each other. You change a little, I change a little, although everyone will lose a little self, but they can become a tacit couple.

Forty-three, it's time. We're finally going to put it down. The difficulties and confusions encountered in a person's life may be so unacceptable at present. At some point later, I suddenly felt that all this was the best arrangement.

Forty-four, the better the book, the more suitable for later reading; The better, the more suitable for meeting later.

Forty-five, it is compassion not to disturb the peace of others; It is kindness not to hurt others' self-esteem. When people are alive, they only illuminate their own light, and don't blow out others' light.

46. Every pain is a pillar of growth. Every blow is a strong backing.

No matter what happened in the past, the past has passed, and the best is always waiting for you in the future.

There are always so many disappointments in life, but we should stick to it with an optimistic attitude. Don't always tell our own sadness. Others will only listen to it as a joke and learn to bear it yourself.

Forty-nine, the stars don't ask passers-by, and time pays off. Probably, the place you haven't been to is called a distant place, and people who haven't been there will never forget it.

50. Growth takes away not only time, but also courage that is not afraid of losing.

If you don't work hard, no one will be fair to you. Only with hard work, resources and the right to speak can we win a fair opportunity for ourselves.

52. Suffering is a double-edged sword, which brings us pain and makes us grow up instantly.

Fifty-three, only 5% of a person's life is wonderful, only 5% is painful, and the other 90% are dull; People are often tempted by 5% of the wonderful, endure 5% of the pain, and spend 90% of the dull. -white

54. A good life means not dreaming, doing more, getting less, smiling forever and knowing how to be satisfied.

55. Is it useful to read so many inspirational words? Are you motivated? Do you insist?

56. If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease.

57. Don't mind other people's private affairs, don't interfere, and allow others' morality and lifestyle to be different from their own, which will eliminate more than 90% of the troubles in the world. Lian Yue

Fifty-eight, what I fear most is the strangeness after deep friendship, the pain after seriousness, the use after trust, and the indifference after gentleness. If you associate, please be sincere, if you leave, please be thorough.

59. The most taboo in the world is perfection. Look at the moon that day. Once perfect, you will soon get bored. Once the fruit on the tree is ripe, it will soon fall. Everything is always lacking in order to persevere. -Mo Yan

Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in the world, we are all independent individuals, and we all have to suffer pain and discomfort. No one can really understand you. If the stone hadn't hit his foot, he would never know how painful it was. On the road of life, we are all lonely walkers. If people know how to drink water, then the only person who can really help you will always be yourself.

Sixty-one, we will experience some setbacks when we are alive, but we are still strong enough to overcome every setback. As long as we are alive, we will be grateful!

Sixty-two, excessive consideration of other people's feelings is a kind of disapproval of yourself. When you think about "what others think" in everything you do, you are actually giving up on yourself. A person who lives in the eyes of others forever is equal to never having existed.

Sixty-three, gradually know that many things can be met but not sought, do not belong to themselves, why care.

Sixty-four, the cultivation of mind should be based on purifying the mind, and the cultivation of mind should be based on self-absence. The past, the past heart, can't remember; Now, now, you can follow the fate; Future, future heart, why bother.

65. When an enemy becomes a friend, it is more reliable than a friend, and when a friend becomes an enemy, it is more dangerous than the enemy. It's good to know something, needless to say. It's good that some people know each other. There's no need to be intimate.

Life is always like this, and people cannot be satisfied everywhere. But we still have to live a passionate life. People live all their lives, and there are many things worth loving. Don't be discouraged because of one dissatisfaction. -Lu Yao

Sixty-seven, the first condition of self-love is to eat a good meal, sleep well, keep fit, and don't ask why. No matter what happens, be kind to yourself.

68. There is no unfairness, only unfairness. Don't complain, don't hate, don't care about everything, and the past is like smoke.

69. If you don't give up, the world will not be half black and half white to you. Some bottom lines must be adhered to. In principle, the more you lose, the more you lose.

It is better to change yourself than to complain. Mind your own heart and do your own thing better than anything else.

Seventy-one, every sensible and calm present has a silly and naive past; Every warm and indifferent present has a sad and uneasy past.

Seventy-two, people are thicker alive. This is embarrassing, and that is embarrassing. Then how can you be embarrassed to live? What's there to be afraid of when you make a mistake and laugh it off? When you are interested in this world, your growth will increase day by day.

Seventy-three, even if you don't meet, talk or send messages, there will always be a place in your heart, and there will always be a person safe and sound.

Seventy-four, never indulge yourself and make excuses for yourself. Be strict with yourself. After a long time, self-discipline will become a habit and a way of life, and your personality and wisdom will become more perfect.

Seventy-five, life is not perfect, there are always defects, it doesn't belong to you, then give up, the world is vast and gray, after all, what we can have is limited, don't let endless desires bury the original happiness and happiness.

Seventy-six, some things, not don't care, but care. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results. Maturity is to face all the little things with a smile.

Seventy-seven, while young, need to suffer more, will be truly humble. Otherwise, your self-righteous cleverness and contempt for all superiority will destroy you sooner or later!

Seventy-eight, people's recognized temperament is always the result of their own obedience to their inner likes and long-term persistence.

No one can understand how much happiness or sadness you have in your story except yourself, because that is just your feeling after all.

Don't judge others by what you see. Because what you see may only be what others want you to see. Don't care too much about what others think of you. Because, you never know how many versions you will have in someone else's mouth.

Sometimes, giving up is another kind of persistence. If you miss the splendor of summer flowers, you will definitely walk into the silence of autumn leaves. Anything and anyone will be a thing of the past. Don't get through it, no matter how hard it is, you must learn to come out.

Eighty-two, fitness and reading are the lowest cost appreciation methods in the world; Laziness is your greatest enemy when you become great.

Everyone will be tired, no one can bear all the sadness for you, and people always learn to grow up by themselves.

Eighty-four, comment on one thing, only put yourself in the shoes, can you speak with your feet and sigh; To evaluate a person, we must first measure others, and then measure ourselves, so that we can have virtue in our hearts and kindness in our mouths.

Eighty-five, life should not be full of discontent and hatred, we are all loved people.

Learning to enjoy loneliness will make you learn to think about yourself.

Eighty-seven, it is better to introspect than to chatter, and it is better to listen and forget than to complain. What can interfere with you is often your own concern, and what can hurt you is often your own obsession.

88. Having a car and a house is the foundation of stability, an opportunity to get ahead, and an opportunity to continue to accelerate.

Eighty-nine, the so-called reliable, that is, everything has an explanation, everything has a landing, everything has an echo, no tricks, honestly.

After 90 or 30 years, if there is still the word persistence in the world, I hope it belongs to me. After 30 years, if there is still the word moved in the world, I hope it belongs to you.

9 1. The saddest thing about people is that they have free thoughts, but they don't have the courage to break the fetters.

92. Don't tell anyone your secret without scruple, because every time you confide your heart, it may become a navigation for others to poke your weakness at some point in the future.

93. You should learn to cover your ears and not listen to those bustling voices. There is no one in this world who is not bitter. Only you can really heal yourself.

94. All the beautiful moments that can't be returned are incomparable beautiful times. Thank the past, cherish the present and look forward to the future. Crying at yourself and laughing at others, this is the so-called life.

You'd better learn something when you feel sad and miserable. Learning will make you invincible forever.

96. People's desires are endless. Even if they have good things, they will want to be better.

97. I suddenly feel that this sentence is quite overbearing: whoever likes me, tell me and I will chase you.

98. No matter how good the past is, the more times you recall it, the less everything will be.

Ninety-nine, people who look happy have unspeakable pains in their hearts; People who smile often have silent tears in their hearts; People who show off their lives may not be as beautiful as they seem. A person's happiness is only known to himself. So, don't be hard on yourself, don't dwell on other people's comments, and live according to your comfortable feelings. Happiness is like drinking water, and you know it very well. Your happiness is not in the eyes of others, but in your own heart.

One hundred, sleep every day, and leave everything like leaving; It's not too late to wake up every day as a rebirth.

10 1. When things happen, deal with emotions first, then deal with things. Things will get worse if you don't handle your emotions well.

102. Action is the best way to overcome anxiety. When you don't know what to do, do every little thing well. When you don't know how to start, do what is closest to you.

Don't forget your initiative, accumulate like fate, and spell out life.

104. Good luck is only a by-product. It will only come when you simply do things without any selfish distractions. Mark Andrews

105. The best feeling between two people is that they don't like each other on the surface and never give up in their hearts.

106. Everything you miss is a passer-by. There is no unfair fate, it is laziness that makes you incompetent.

No matter how difficult the road ahead is, as long as you walk in the right direction, no matter how bumpy it is, you are closer to happiness than standing in the same place. Miyazaki Hayao Spirited Away

Boys who want to get rid of the order quickly before 520.

Boys who want to take off the bill quickly before 520 (Part 1) 1. Actually, my deer is still very good. It's not that hard to get out of love.

There is something I want to talk to you about. What about falling in love?

I looked around counterclockwise in my memory.

It doesn't matter if I meet you in the future. I hope it will be you for the rest of my life.

My world doesn't allow you to disappear, no matter whether the ending is perfect or not.

6. Can't you take the initiative to find me? I have to send a circle of friends to get your attention.

7. Older girls don't deserve to fall in love, they can only find someone! The Ode to Joy

8. It's really hard for me to get rid of the bill at the end of each year. How come I have never met true love?

9. My future is very confused. Full of negative energy. I really want to fall in love. Don't want to die alone.

10. I have been single for 29 years. It's not that I don't want to take off the bill. Maybe God was too lazy to give me a girl.

1 1. I want to sit in this seat for life.

12. There are two reasons why people can't get rid of unrequited love, one is because they hide love in their hearts, and the other is because they get stuck in their throats.

13. It's not appropriate, but that you are insincere and Jane doesn't cherish it.

14. What's the appropriate water temperature for boys?

15. I have a little dream, and I will simply spend my life with you.

16. When I am so good that you won't leave me, I will no longer be yours.

17. I liked myself from 17 until I met you at the age of 18.

18. I'm sorry to break the contract because of the cancellation of the bill! But I took off the bill, I am happy, and we ordinary people are really happy today ~ ~ ~

19. I have a hunch that we will talk about a sweet love this year.

20. I used to want to take off my bill, especially in Christmas month, but now I especially enjoy being single. Thanks to Zhao Wuer and Zhuo Wei.

Boys who want to get out of the bill quickly before 520 (Part 2) 2 1. I want to be the most beautiful myself one day, and I have no regrets when I meet you.

22. When can I have a second cup at half price?

23. It's so hot that a secret love can become a secret love.

24. If there is any theme in my work, I think there is only one simple one: everyone is lonely and no one can escape. This is their tragedy.

25. In this life, I would like to be the third generation of rain, scattered in every tenderness I meet with you, in exchange for your happiness in the afterlife. Dear, every rain in this late autumn is my acacia. Every time I miss you, it becomes waiting.

26. liking you is the closest thing I have ever done to love.

27. Every time I talk to my little sister, a man always cuts in. What an interesting boy! I want to take off my bill for about a few minutes every month. Just a few minutes. Really sweet! I'm happy to eat.

28. When a person is carrying a lot of things, when a person does not sit unsteadily when riding a bus, when a person rides a bicycle, goes shopping alone and walks alone on the road.

29. I regret knowing you. You made me feel pain when you left me.

30. I want to talk about a love that never breaks up. Even if we quarrel, even if we are angry, even if we are separated, we will be together again.

3 1. It turns out that I am too timid to fall in love. Now I just want to try to be with you.

32. Universities don't want to take off their bills any more. Single dog is used to this kind of thing, and it doesn't suit me.

33. Winter solstice, oh, no boyfriend, no dog food, I want to be slutty and take off the bill! I didn't eat jiaozi or go out to play, so I stayed up late at night in the dormitory, got up to eat porridge, caught a cold and had difficulty breathing, and had to do my homework. I was very unhappy and tried to smile.

34. If you lose it, you will know how to cherish it. If you don't lose it, you will know how to cherish it?

35. Who wants to be my rubber band bracket? I have tens of millions of rubber bands, and I can give them to you as long as you like.

36. It's like shouting a word at the valley. After many years, someone finally responded.

37. The first time I rented a house outside, I bought a cloth wardrobe online, and I struggled for a long time. Finally, I didn't spell it well and sat down on the ground.

I really miss you. In every rainy season, what you choose to forget is the last thing I want to give up. There are too many ripples in the story. My stories are all about you.

39. Because of you, I can smile and shake my head to reject all MengMeng and ambiguity.

40. Damn, my heart was stolen. But it also means that your "wife" sentence has begun.

You must be very happy.

Is everything really a dream? Why do I wake up so depressed and lonely? I can't hear your voice, I can't see your figure, and I can't even keep a little memory of you. In the middle of the night, I was the only one left. I am waiting alone at the dark and desolate intersection, looking for your trace with helpless eyes and crying silently in your direction. Dear, such loneliness and heartbreak are not what I want. I wanted to lie quietly in your arms, touch the wrinkles on your forehead, listen to every flower with you and spend every morning and evening with you. Sharp showers beat on the doors and windows, washing away the restlessness in late summer. No, don't. It's raining. Would you please be gentle and slow? Please don't be in such a hurry to take away the temporary happiness flowing among the clouds and grass. Let me, let me touch the meticulous care again, and feel the warmth of bone marrow again, okay? I don't want to, I don't want to lose those beautiful past so early and so quickly.

Where are you, my love? Did you hear my whisper? Did you hear that? Is it really safe to turn around? Will I really leave you in summer? I have been in love for just a few tens of days, but I have shed more tears for you than in the past few decades. However, I didn't cry on the night of parting. I keep smiling. You said, save this last time. I love you, I want to leave you the most beautiful smiling face, I want you to walk away without guilt, I want myself to abandon it calmly, I want you to be happy from now on, and I want you to live better than me. Honey, promise me that you must live better than me.

As long as you live better than me, remember this song. Yes, as long as you live better than me, nothing is difficult. To love someone is to make him happy. I love, please forgive my innocence and ignorance. I believe you will be happy and sweet with me. I used to think that my tenderness could warm and suppress the dark boils in your heart. The joy of firm hand in hand can crush your tangled past. I once believed that my love and I could bring you coolness, calmness, calmness and relaxation in summer.

Perhaps, love is sad and love is shrinking. I can't let myself drift with the wind like water, because countless repeated contradictions and disputes will devour our love and passion. When I occasionally concentrate and detect the sadness in your eyes, I realize that I can't give you anything. I turned out to be so incompetent.

I love, I want to say too much, but I can't. You said that we all know each other, so you don't need too many words. Because of love, I know. You know, at this moment, how much I miss you and how much I want to let you go and let you fly freely.

Honey, do you really have to say goodbye forever? If only there was love. However, the fate of blooming is a pain that cannot be taken care of. In this life, perhaps, there is no chance to hold hands with you to enjoy the flowers and listen to the rain.

Rain, not stopped by my prayers, is still contagious. Close the window of the rain, close the heart of the flower and let the tears flow to the bottom of my heart. Give you a smiling face, dear, as long as you live better than me, as long as you are happy in this life.

Goodbye, love and lover!