Interpersonal communication and gift giving

You give gifts. It's not like asking for help. Don't think too much. If she thinks too much, then you mean you don't think so much. Sincere conversation will solve unnecessary misunderstandings. It is common to send fruit. And ... attention. If she really wants to invite you, it must be an appointment, or she will ask you to go at once on the spot. If she doesn't say when and what, it's just polite.