Why give more love to the baby looked after by the nanny?

Because the child is mainly looked after by the nanny and sleeps with the nanny, the child and the nanny have formed a very close relationship emotionally, which is difficult to change at once. It's best to do it step by step. At first, let the nanny look after you day and night, for a week or two, at night, and then at night, and slowly cultivate feelings with him, and the child will turn to you. The child expresses fear of you and only wants a nanny because you seem to have taken away his "dependence" and made him feel insecure. If you want to change now, you must cooperate with the nanny. It seems that they are very close, and the child can find her or you. Never keep children away from nannies, but gradually alienate them. If we don't let him near the nanny right away, he will be in great pain. Besides, the nanny will take him anyway during the day. Give your child full maternal love and always care about him. Although there are nannies to take care of, they should still be the main ones. Don't go to extremes when dealing with problems. Let the child sleep with the nanny at once, and then pick him up at once to keep the nanny away from him. It is difficult for a child's mood to turn around at once. You should take your time, prepare your child psychologically, and then sleep with you with your child in your arms.