How to communicate with people who can't speak?

People who can't talk are usually shy and self-abased, or people who easily offend others are defined as people who can't talk. How to deal with such people, how to communicate with them, let them open their hearts and get the information you want from them is an art.

First of all, for the timid. If you are a strong person, please put away your sharp hedgehog thorns first. If you want to get close to a person's heart, you must first have a gentle attitude. Although you are usually the superior leader, please be approachable for the time being. The right attitude is the beginning of heart-to-heart. A domineering attitude is always a stumbling block to success! The speaking environment also needs attention, which needs to be illustrated by the following examples.

I remember a short story about a poor child's mother working as a servant in a rich family. One day, due to the host's banquet, my mother had to get off work late. But she is worried that her son will have no food after school. So she came with her son, but only dared to hide him in the toilet! Rich people's toilets are also spacious, where children wait for their mothers. He is a child of a single-parent family, so he can only live alone with his mother. The master was deeply moved when he learned about it. He didn't tell the children that he was the host, but said that he wanted to be good friends with him and let him attend their party together. Later, the child grew up and had a bright future. He said that he never knew it was a toilet, nor did he know it was the owner. But this is the most delicious meal he has ever eaten in the world and the kindest uncle he has ever seen! Therefore, knowing how to create an atmosphere and decorate the environment is also a powerful measure to open the speaker's heart, which is worth learning.

For this group whose words are easy to offend people, the key is to do their homework. I mean to know the background of this kind of person's growth and the topics he is good at, so as to catch his heart in the shortest time! It doesn't matter even if you are not good at the topic. No one can know everything. Please prepare carefully and start from many aspects. Many public relations personnel are like this. Even women from rural areas can learn piano, chess, calligraphy and painting for a few months, and they can get close to those highly educated and educated talents.

Everything depends on human effort. If you find a topic he is familiar with, there will be no obstacles to communication. Maybe we can still be good friends. Anything is possible. If he can't talk, let him love talking to you and have the same hobbies as you, so that he can talk about everything! Talk about it, take action, you can do it.