I don't want to take my grandson. Now that my grandson is in kindergarten, my daughter-in-law has no plans to go to work. What should I do?

Generally speaking, in a normal family, children are the most important one, and all the people in the family will think of children. Open-minded old people take the initiative to take care of their children in order to reduce the burden on young people. For these old people, because they don't need to work, taking care of their children can not only enjoy family happiness, but also reduce the burden on their children. This is the best of both worlds. Why not?

In fact, not all old people think so. Many old people think that children are your children. Although I am the child's grandparents, I don't want to take him. Because the old man feels that he was brought up by his own children and now needs to have his own life. You may want to go out for a walk, travel, or live a relaxed life alone. The requirements for children's self-care are not so high, because although they are 50 or 60 years old, they are still in good health, far from the age when they need children's care. We also understand this kind of old man. I spent most of my life worrying about my children. Now that the child is married, I can relax myself.

You don't want to bring grandchildren. I can understand what you are doing, because bringing grandchildren is not inevitable. The law does not stipulate that grandma must bring her grandchildren. If you don't want to take your grandchildren, you can take them away. The grandson is going to kindergarten, and the mother doesn't want to go out to work. I don't know what you are struggling with on this floor. He also said that he didn't want to bring his grandson, who has already gone to kindergarten, which means that my mother has always brought him. Since you don't want to bring your grandson, don't interfere with everything about your grandson and mother. Be an old man, do what you want, and don't think about being a demon.

It's not up to you to decide whether the mother will go to work or not, because although the child is in kindergarten, she still needs someone to pick her up. The traffic problem is that children come back from school to help them study. These are all people, and because you don't want to take your grandchildren, if your mother goes to work at this time, who will pick up the children and help them with their studies?

In this case, I have two suggestions.

First of all, considering that you don't want to take care of the children, whether the children go to kindergarten or the children's mothers have no plans to go out to work, you can't intervene. To put it bluntly, although you are the child's grandparents, you are not related to the child's mother. You have no obligation to take care of her children and don't want to take care of her grandchildren, so she has no obligation to support you and doesn't want to listen to you ramble here. In this case, don't interfere and let it develop.

Then another situation is that you want to step in and you want to be the boss. If you want your child's mother to go out to work, then you can communicate with her. Because her mother is at work, you have to pick her up. When the child is out of school and the mother is not off work, you tutor her. In her normal life, you also need to try your best to take care of her. Let the child's mother rest assured that she can safely give the child to you.