I can get by, but I can still leave! This is the best state of marriage.

My answer is: I can make do, but I can't leave it behind!

This is no joke, be smart,

This sentence, inadvertently uttered by a simple northeast old man, actually tells three important factors of a good marriage:

First of all, make do

Although the love in film and television works and literary works is so beautiful, the reality is often very skinny. It is too difficult for a person to meet the really ideal MR/MRS who has a soul mate with him. Although in the early days of love, high concentration of hormones will help your partner put on a "filter" to make you look pleasing to the eye, but as the passion fades, two people gradually understand that there will always be some unsatisfactory places in each other, which is commonly known as the "seven-year itch". Some people will choose to be harsh, while others will leave directly. My suggestion should be to calm down and think about what attracts you, whether it is true or not. If the answer is yes, "make do" should be the best attitude to face those flaws. Intimacy is a process in which two people adapt and change each other. An inclusive heart is very important, and love is sometimes difficult to be confused.

The second is also

"Passing" means "living". A marriage that lives entirely in "love" and "dreams" is hard to last. After all, on earth, we can't live without tea, rice, oil, salt, ginger and vinegar, and we can't live without careful calculation. If a marriage wants to be long-lasting, both of them must be able to survive, and both of them are willing to "live" as the goal. This is not just talk. If you are willing to live, you can't just covet your own comfort. You should pay more for this family, work hard to make money, and take the initiative to do housework, wash dishes and sweep the floor. Maybe it's not romantic, maybe it's tiring, but this is the feeling of home.

Third,? How can I leave?

How could you leave? This sentence is a very important attitude, we can never be apart! This seemingly casual rhetorical question is more affirmative than the declarative sentence. If it is unfolded in an elegant way, it is the Book of Songs Shang Xie. "If you want to know each other, you have to live a long life. I long to know you, long live, this heart will never fade. Unless the towering mountains disappear, unless the raging rivers dry up. Heaven and earth are one, but dare to separate from you. " A good marriage should be a stable relationship, and two hearts are United with each other. This inseparable confidence is the best adhesive between hearts.

To sum up, in marriage, we should adhere to "one center and two basic points", take never separation as the center, be more tolerant and pay more.

May all lovers in the world get close to each other and say to others with a smile, "I can make do without it."