Why do boys say rude things after breaking up?

You can swear, only boys? It's all wet. Whoever wants to get rid of each other and stop pestering themselves will say something particularly rude, ugly and harmful to each other, because in our hearts, as long as you say something particularly ugly, but have face and self-esteem, the other party will not pester themselves, so rude words can be described as a weapon for breaking up.

First of all, since breaking up is proposed, it shows that there is something wrong with the feelings of two people. Generally, there is a quarrel accompanied by emotional problems and contradictions, and the amount of kidney hormones has soared. This means that everyone's mood will become very excited. In an emotional situation, they will naturally call a spade a spade. Because they are very angry and don't want to make each other feel better, they will also say some particularly unpleasant words to stimulate each other, because it seems that only by making each other more painful can they alleviate their own pain.

Secondly, everyone has self-esteem, and everyone has a bottom line that cannot be touched. And if two people have emotional problems, one of them asks the other person to stop pestering himself, but he speaks softly. The other party thinks that he has a bad temper and can't achieve the purpose of breaking up. He can only "turn his back", stinging the other party's self-esteem, crushing the other party's extravagant hopes and making the other party realize that he has broken up.

It's not just boys who swear. Sometimes boys love face, and they may be afraid to speak. On the contrary, when girls break up, what they say is more painful. A boy's swearing is nothing more than two people's inappropriate feelings, or falling in love with someone else, or the girl's shortcomings are unacceptable to her. But when it comes to girls' mouths, the height of the other person's family is the target of attack, and they will not take into account other people's self-esteem and bottom line at all. The reason why girls think what boys say is rude and unacceptable is mainly because in the world of love, boys care and tolerate girls more, so once boys turn against each other, girls will feel a huge gap and he will feel unacceptable.

In fact, it is better to be heartless than those who have stepped on n boats or played with you. Love is love, and not love is not love. Make it clear, make it clear, at a glance.