My girlfriend complains to me every day. How to feel depressed?

The old man used to be young, but now he is old and doesn't do things well enough. Mom did her best. We should understand her hardships and difficulties, accept the efforts and shortcomings of the elderly, reduce family pressure, relieve the grievances and misunderstandings of her mother-in-law, and let her wife and mother feel safe. Only in this way can a family be complete and prosperous, and a family can love each other and live a happy life! Don't you know how many relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are caused by "broken things at home" and have sown the seeds of contradictions? After that, it intensified and became out of control.

If this continues, your family will be finished. Because in the past, women were not economically independent and completely dependent on their husbands, the ethics of the whole social belief advocated "putting all virtues and filial piety first", and husbands naturally listened to their mothers. Therefore, it seems perfectly normal for a daughter-in-law to be abused in her husband's family. The biggest career in life is family, and it is a man's biggest failure to handle family affairs badly! No matter how much he or she has achieved in his or her career. The biggest problem in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not the problem of two women, but the problem of the man in the middle. Is that you didn't establish rules between them from the beginning.

They are the two women who love you the most. As people caught in the middle, we must adjust the contradiction between wife and mother. It's usually the little things in life, and their dissatisfaction with each other must be complaining to you. As long as you are willing to persuade them, they will certainly listen, depending on whether you are smart enough to let them both listen to your life. Don't hang your attitude on nothing, it will only deepen their contradiction.

First of all, don't be upset, be rational. Only when you keep calm can you clearly analyze and see how to solve the conflict between them. You should also persuade your mother to talk more about the advantages of her wife. On the contrary, you should communicate with her more and give her more love. I'm sure she will give in appropriately. You can't ask too much of your wife. After all, your wife was brought up by your mother-in-law.