There is a kind of husband and wife life that makes people extremely chilling. Why?

Because of widowed parenting, widowed marriage. "Marriage is a besieged city and a grave. Some people buried their love here, and some people buried their lives here. " Every day after work, Li Mei's eyes are full of endless housework, and her husband only has a mobile phone to let him take care of the children, and the final result is to make the children cry. Then Li Mei had to put down what she was doing and coax the children quickly.

Up to now, Li Mei and her husband sleep in separate rooms. She feels that the relationship between herself and her husband is getting weaker and weaker, and she doesn't want to chat with him. She even hates him at home. Li Mei was angry when she saw that he was a shopkeeper, but when he was not at home, he was out of sight and out of mind. After the death of her spouse, Li Mei was not angry when she did housework alone.

Li Mei said that it is really not easy to be a woman when you meet an irresponsible man. You have to take care of the baby, do housework and take care of the elderly, and you can't delay making money. A person experiences widowed parenting and widowed marriage. Obviously they are husband and wife, but they live like roommates. Obviously, my husband is not dead, but it is a marriage of two people, but it has become a one-man show.

Li Mei sometimes really hates that she married the wrong person. She married the person who thought it would bring her warmth with her desire for marriage, but she didn't expect that she didn't get warmth in the end, and it was really hopeless. If she could do it all over again, she said she would choose to be single, which is better than this.

No matter what they do together, such a couple is the most loving, and the most failed family is a mother who does everything and a father who cares nothing. In China's traditional thought, men's escaping from housework is actually a rhetoric. In today's society, some people are married, but they live a widowed and lonely life.

Some men are the same whether they are present or not, which is the true portrayal of "widowed marriage". This widowed marriage is the status quo of most families in China. Once married, many women are both mothers and fathers, nannies and housekeepers, but even men are not considerate at all. The terrible thing about widowed marriage is that although you are married and have a family, you are not relied on and sheltered.

Because the man you marry just treats you as a nanny, a roommate and a hotel. They don't understand how boring and hard it is for their wives to buy food, do housework and take care of their children every day. A wife is also a woman, and she will be tired, and she also needs her husband's care and care. Marriage was originally a common life for two people, but widowed marriage has become one person, and it takes more to complete the tasks of two people.

A good marriage must be that two people face the trivial things of life together, and a marriage that fights side by side is healthy. If one party is left alone and the other party is too tired, this marriage will come to an end one day. What is home? In fact, you are standing under the light at night, there is a warm place, and someone has been waiting for you on the tired road.

"I think the worst thing in the world is to die alone. Actually, no, the worst thing is to die with those who make you feel lonely. " Marriage is a matter for two people, not one person. I hope men can understand women's inner grievances and physical fatigue, take the initiative to assume family responsibilities, and give women warm consideration with men's generous shoulders.

I also hope that married couples can cherish each other, understand each other, manage their marriage together, accompany each other, manage their marriage well and have a happy family.