How do you understand the happiness in your heart?

Seeing the first sunrise on the horizon every day is happiness, pushing open the door and smelling steaming rice is happiness, handing me a glove on a cold snowy day is happiness, and what is happiness after being disheartened? Is it a pursuit or an opportunity given by fate? Is it rich material or pure and transparent spirit? Happiness is a very common and abstract word, sometimes it can be felt, but it can't be described, and sometimes it is impossible to express it.

If there are cheats, I think the most crucial step is that you should learn to read them. Because happiness is not given by others, but discovered by yourself, you will find that when your mother is lying in the ward, you will understand that those nagging voices day and night are happiness. When your lover disappears with the fog, that kind of complicated persuasion and useless concern is happiness, and you will hate yourself for not seeing it when it is clearly in front of you. Sometimes happiness is more like a contrast, a high difference between expectations and facts. If expectations are higher than reality, it is a loss, and vice versa. In this way, happiness is more like a scheming liar, which always makes people angry. Alas! I was cheated by it again. At that time, I was happy, wasn't I Why do you cherish it? Whose fault is it? Of course, I blame myself. I always ignore the beauty around me and get used to the luck around me. You won't realize it until you lose it.

Then the key second step, I think, is to learn to love. Our time is an era of more and more understanding of love. Compared with before, we don't know how to express it and think it is shameful to care. Now we gradually learn to care about the people around us, know how to care and feel happy. You know, there are not only fame and fortune, intrigue, achievements, key universities, but also many human feelings here. Since it is cold, it will be warm. Maybe a greeting from you will give others some warmth. Why give others warmth? What about your own happiness? If you learn to love those around you, happiness will come. Many things are the same, such as respect, honesty and chivalry. They are mutual. No money, no feedback. As for what happiness is, there is no need to say anything. You can see everything from the smile on your face. Your heartfelt smile is the happiness printed in your heart.

We can't discuss what happiness is. Space spirit, too abstract, too subtle. Sometimes it will turn into hell if you are not careful. The throb of first love, he held you in his arms for the first time, you think, this is happiness. In a blink of an eye, you are familiar with it. He is still very possessive. The happiness he gave you in the past has become a bondage. Has happiness changed? Has happiness changed from hugging to letting go? Did it change you? Did you go from longing for a hug to longing for freedom? Maybe nothing has changed. Our world is so fantastic and unpredictable, but there are traces to follow.

Happiness is not one thing, but like the wind, like a wild horse. You must harness it and control it. This is the challenge of life and the pleasure of life.