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How about choosing your own job?

Just choose your own job. It feels good. I finally have time to spend with my family every day.

In the past, soldiers served in the army, working 24 hours without rest, and there was nothing at home to help. When a little guy was born prematurely, his family was admitted to the hospital early to protect the baby. I don't think the little guy has lived enough. What should I do if I come out early to see the world? I had to rely on my parents to take care of me, took a leave in a hurry, and hurried back to see me. I will return to the team in a few days. There is really no way.

Also, my father had a heart attack and was sent to the People's Hospital for cardiac angiography. All three are blocked, either a heart stent or a heart bypass. My mother and daughter-in-law called to inform me. What should I do? I am organizing military training, and I know nothing about the specific situation, which is beyond my power. Fortunately, the daughter-in-law and cousin helped, invited experts to consult and made a conservative treatment decision. I had to wait for the troops to finish their patrol, pack up their personnel and equipment, and then go home and have a look. what can I do?

Since I have chosen my own job, I have plenty of time to take care of my family. Get up in the morning to make breakfast, wake up the son who used to live on campus, have breakfast together and send his son to school. Come back to clean and wash clothes. Then turn on the computer to surf the internet, watch the news, write mood articles, or go to the vegetable market to buy them. Go to lunch with my parents at noon, mainly to eat, and occasionally cook, that is, when the whole family is at home, make a big meal. After lunch, I chatted with my parents and went home to take a nap. After a nap, drink tea, read books, start exercising at four o'clock, which usually lasts for nearly two hours, or go for a brisk walk or jog to sweat and detoxify. I basically don't eat dinner, just eat a little fruit. Watch your mobile phone at night, watch your circle of friends, talk nonsense, pick up your son from school at nine o'clock, go home and wash and sleep. Over and over again, my son will take the college entrance examination in two years. I hope my son can do well in the exam then. I also hope my parents are healthy.

Since I started my own business, I have done several things, such as being an assistant to the boss of a private enterprise and being a vice president of a personal company. Now I'm training with a friend, because the epidemic hasn't started for half a year. No matter how much money there is, after all, the national government still gives retirement money after choosing a job independently, so the basic life is not a problem and it is quite free.

At first, I chose my own job in order to have time to take care of my family. Now I got what I wanted, and I feel good.

The newly promulgated "Protection Law" (draft) protects the title of demobilized military cadres who choose their own jobs and become people who receive retirement benefits every month. Kind of like a nameless teacher. It is conceivable that the road to independence will be very difficult in the future. Please face the comrades who have not yet made a choice, and try to choose resettlement as the best policy!

I am independent, and my brother has changed his job. Through these years of experience, I can only say that there is no best, only the best!

Economically speaking, having your own house, independence is better than job-hopping, and your economic ability is better! If you don't have a house, you can use the civil servant's provident fund to buy a house after job-hopping, or you can buy a cheap house in the civil servant's community, which not only saves a lot of money, but also makes up for the shortcomings of low wages!

As far as social status is concerned, don't think that changing jobs will raise your social status! A unit has only a few core positions and real power positions. Why should I give you a new demobilized cadre? A position without power, the social status is actually like that!

From the perspective of children's education, job-hopping is not necessarily beneficial. In this case, it may not be realistic to solve the problem of children going to school through unit welfare!

From the perspective of personal future, there are job-hopping, but very few, most of them are waiting for retirement in relatively leisure positions!

It is difficult for civil servants to do it now, and many positions have to be cancelled, which is uncontrollable!

The military turned to entrepreneurship guidance to answer this question. The policy of starting one's own business was biased by two things this year, which made independents uneasy at once, and many people began to regret their original choices.

As a policy of demobilized cadres, self-employment has been implemented for nearly 20 years. In fact, policies are not absolutely good or bad. It can only be said that if the policy is unstable, it may hurt those who believed in it at first.

In recent years, due to the military reform, a large number of cadres have changed jobs, and the resettlement pressure has doubled. Many demobilized cadres have also fully considered their choice of resettlement methods. In recent years, more than half of people have chosen to choose their own jobs.

Then why have many people recently begun to feel that the policy of autonomy is not good? Mainly two things this year, many self-employed cadres are not so calm. One is the adjustment of retirement pension this year; The other is the draft law on the protection of veterans, which was recently announced.

Are these two things that big? Let me talk about retirement pension adjustment first. Many people may not understand, but they have reissued retirement benefits. How many ideas do you have? In fact, independent people really don't care how much they can go up, but they go up in line with standards and regulations. Only this time, he completed the three major tasks of "merger, desertion and coefficient". These three aspects have brought more uncertainty to the future protection of autonomous people. The specific analysis is not in this article. If you are interested, you can read my previous article on retirement pension adjustment in May to find out. If you take a closer look, you will know that the independent people's thoughts are not idle, because they are more worried that the sense of security in the future can be changed at will. They gave up resettlement because they saw the national policy and believed in Document No.3. Now that the retirement pension adjustment has been separated from Document No.3, the protection behind it is even more unclear.

Let's start with the Veterans Protection Act. Since then, self-employment has been "erased", and the true job-hopping policy for more than 20 years has not been recognized. With the precedent of retirement pension, independent people are even more uncertain about their future protection, because retirement pension is a retrogression, and this surrender law is also a masterpiece of retrogression. Therefore, if the self-employed cannot be clearly defined in this law, there will be no basis in the future. The independent policy is based on Document No.3. If the relevant Document No.3 is written into the surrender law, the adjustment of retirement pension will be corrected, which is also a contradiction. To a large extent, lawmakers will also avoid these, which is even more unfavorable for independent people.

It is precisely because of the uncertainty of policy that people who choose independence are worried about their future security.

Want to live a normal life, want to be free, and want to make more compensation to those who owe their relatives and children. This is why Wu Ying chose his own job. So far, although there is a lot of bad news, Wu Ying has no regrets about the job he chose!

Now the draft for comments is in progress. In fact, everyone knows exactly what it is!

In this case, efforts are right. Only when you are strong can you make your family happy. As for whether your child will be a soldier in the future? Well, I don't seem to support it.

It depends on personal circumstances. If you want to find a comfortable job, please choose job-hopping. If you are not good at socializing and have no skills, please choose job-hopping. If you have no friends in the resettlement city, please choose job-hopping. If you want to maintain basic dignity in the next 20 years, please choose job-hopping. Changing jobs is like a time deposit in a bank. It doesn't have high profits and great prospects, but it is the first choice for middle-aged and elderly people. If you are tired of the shackles of the system, please choose to be independent. If you don't want to retire and want to try again, please choose autonomy. If your daughter-in-law is a civil servant in the system and has a position, please choose to be independent. If you have enough emotional intelligence or skills, please choose autonomy. Autonomy is a gamble, betting on your future life fate, winning the king and losing the battle, or being penniless at the bottom after 20 years, or making a blockbuster. Actually, there is no right or wrong choice in life. The only thing we have to do is to continue fighting and try to prove that our choice is correct.

Invictus is not in the sky, but I am the key. Let me express some opinions.

Self-employment policy is a policy that the state adopts a combination of planned distribution and self-employment to resettle demobilized military cadres, and the party Committee and government are responsible for arranging jobs and posts for demobilized military cadres who plan to allocate them; Demobilized military cadres who choose their own jobs are helped by the government to find jobs and given retirement benefits.

Because we are in the border area here, many of the border guards stationed in the army are mainland soldiers, who have been admitted to military schools and have been promoted to stay at the station. Because the conditions are not allowed and the troops are relatively closed, many of them are married to local women and stay in the local area, which is also considered a local. People have been talking about this policy since 2003. Many people also think that the local economic development is relatively backward and the party and government organs are more difficult to enter. Even if you become a member of the system, you will choose your own job because you have been in the army for a long time and are not used to being controlled by others.

Share the story of an autonomous person. He himself came to Xinjiang at the age of 16 after graduating from high school. He worked as an automobile soldier in Urumqi, and later transferred to the border guards. During this period, he was admitted to the Army School and was promoted. Later, he was assigned to the front line of the border and became a border guard. After 22 years of service, he retired from active service. Because he and his wife's family conditions are not very good, he chose to start his own business. It was like 2006. With the help of friends, he opened a small agricultural product processing factory. Because everything started from scratch, it was very difficult to operate for five years. When everything was normal, a small boss found that he wanted to buy it because he took a fancy to this enterprise. He thought about it for a long time, and felt that he was really hard, and there was no one around to help him, so he sold it, and paid back some loans and loans in the early stage, which was a bit late.

Just as he was preparing to rest at home for a while, one of his friends introduced him to a medium-sized enterprise as the vice president. Because he has been in the army for a long time, his friends admire his work ability, management ability and self-discipline ability. He was really capable and did a good job, and achieved a substantial increase in sales in less than half a year. However, he ended his career because of a dinner party. Because of my personality, I don't like to join in the fun with unrelated female friends while eating and drinking. Seeing that many bosses did something unacceptable, especially through this platform, I chose to let myself leave.

The beginning of the third stage of the workplace is also a coincidence, because I usually love to exercise in the street. On the way to exercise, I met a foreign car that broke down in the street. Being unfamiliar with the road conditions, the driver was in a hurry and didn't know what to do. He happened to meet him and came forward to help. While contacting the car repair, I also helped to settle the foreign boss in the hotel. The boss left contact information for the other party with gratitude. Who knows that the boss from Zhejiang cooperated with the local government and insisted that he hold an important position in the enterprise. Because he was engaged in two projects: garden seedling planting and real estate, he really declined the position of director of the comprehensive office in the enterprise, which not only gave him a high salary, but also provided telephone subsidies for car repair. He also tried his best to guide enterprises from the initial relevant procedures and enterprise-related system norms to normal. Later, because his son had settled in the coastal city, he chose to leave.

He is helping his friends to do some free consulting services. When communicating with him, he said that the time he spent in the army was his most unforgettable. It is very important to walk in the society and find your own position, whether it is your own business or working in someone else's business. In particular, his life experience has helped him a lot, enabling him to face problems and difficulties calmly.

So from him, I saw the brightest side of a qualified soldier. No matter what position and occupation you are engaged in, you must have your own principles and bottom line. It is the independent choice that gives you many choices in your life and enriches your life experience.

Although this story is just an example, I hope it can be used for reference and help for independent friends!

Autonomy is risky, and the choice needs to be cautious.

Let's talk about who wants independence first: the main regiment is full, there is no position, and the rank cannot be adjusted, accounting for the majority. Of course, some sub-regiments or military reforms 18 have expired. In this group, some people don't want to step by step within the system, but simply cut off their own on the spot; There are only a handful of people who really have ideas and abilities. Whether they are in enterprises or starting their own businesses, they have turned decisively; Another group of people, who didn't know what they wanted, went with the flow and became independent.

The dilemma after independence: wages are a dead knot. After the active capital increase, the autonomy has been delayed. At present, the independent wage system is a hurdle in front of independent soldiers, and it is reasonable to say it is not clear. In addition, without economic security, the quality of life will not come up. After some people return to their own places, it is difficult to adapt and integrate, all kinds of contradictions accelerate and intensify, and life is a mess.

Item, everyone is familiar with it. Typical of the whole army, it was a big "fire" in previous years. A few years ago, he chose to jump ship. Because Xiang's post was decided by the local authorities, he chose independence. Nowadays, with the help of celebrity effect, he not only started an online school, but also registered a startup company, making new achievements in the environmental protection industry.

Another example is a female cadre in a certain department. The regiment has just been transferred, and the Ministry has informed us of the number of posts to be transferred, so we must go to one. After the meeting, the quota fell on her. Female cadres simply choose to help themselves directly. The first thing after independence is to implement the second child task. Now at home, I take care of my husband and baby. She has not been idle herself, and has opened a WeChat official account in her spare time, with hundreds of thousands of fans. Have a good life!

Personally, if you want to jump, you can try to jump. If you are not persistent in your career, forget it and help yourself!

What will happen to demobilized military cadres after they choose to choose their own jobs? Because when I jumped ship, I took the initiative to choose my own job. So, I choose I know. It feels good!

1, since the off-duty income is 200 1, a considerable number of demobilized military cadres have actively chosen the resettlement method of self-employment among the two resettlement methods of government resettlement and self-employment.

These demobilized military cadres who choose to choose their own jobs include battalion-level cadres, regiment-level cadres, a few divisional cadres and technical cadres at corresponding levels.

I chose to choose my own job. Generally speaking, I made a lot of seats for the local civil servants, which relieved the local government's resettlement pressure.

From a small perspective, I think, mainly from the perspective of economic income, I am a colonel in the regiment and have changed jobs. You don't have to go to work every month, and you can get a pension of 10 thousand yuan on time. Although this income is not high, it is neither low nor rich, and there is more than enough food and clothing.

Just from the perspective of economic income, I don't have to go to work, and I have a fixed retirement income every month, which is a good way to relieve economic pressure. Plus, I'm in a good mood, and I don't want to be rich or expensive, so I'm content. It can be said that I have a key in my belly button-happiness.

Of course, we demobilized cadres who choose their own jobs can enjoy the monthly retirement benefits without going to work. It is not futile, hedonistic or cheap.

Because, in the past, we all devoted the best years of 20 or 30 years to army building and made due contributions to protecting our country and defending our country. At the same time, we should give up the status of cadres and civil servants, which should be guaranteed.

2. After no unit has the freedom to choose the resettlement method of self-employment, my biggest feeling is that people who used to have units have become free people; From the past, there was a unit responsible for it, and now it has become its own management; I used to have a job, but now I'm unemployed.

Although at first, I felt uncomfortable, uncomfortable and bored. However, those who choose actively have no regrets and no hesitation.

Most of the demobilized cadres who choose to choose their own jobs are over 40 years old, some old and some young. Once you are truly free, you really need an adaptation period and a transition period. Slowly, the environment adapted, the living habits adapted, and the social circle adapted. Naturally, my heart is relaxed and people are free.

Self-employment, no work pressure, no complicated workplace interpersonal relationship, no need to look at other people's faces, no need to be wronged.

Completely left the workplace, no unit, no colleagues, no leadership. When the relationship with the outside world is greatly reduced, there will be no troubles in the workplace, the nervous nerves in the past will be relaxed, personal thoughts will be simple, and people will be completely free. It can be said that it is free to enjoy, and you can sleep until you wake up naturally every day. Just like the monkey on Huaguo Mountain-content.

I want to go to work. After I chose my own job, I felt very idle and itchy at first.

So I made up my mind to find something to do. One is to live a full life, and the other is to earn some salary to subsidize the family. You can kill two birds with one stone.

So, I applied online and worked in four companies for more than six years.

Although I was engaged in political work and administrative management when I was in the army, I didn't have any skills and expertise, but I still had some work experience. Every time I go to the company, I am directly appointed by the boss as the head of the department or the leader of the company. This also shows that local governments still like to use demobilized soldiers.

With a job, there is naturally something to do and pressure. Where there is pressure, there is motivation.

During the part-time job, I basically go to work six days a week, and I can only rest for four days a month. Moreover, it is common to work overtime at ordinary times and there is no overtime subsidy. Sometimes you have to be criticized and wronged.

Even so, I still feel that it is worthwhile to have something to do every day, a class, an income, a little suffering and a little tired. Because, if you don't work, like a green-headed fly, you can't find your way.

After more than 6 years of work experience, the biggest experience is that life is full every day, and I have come into contact with new work knowledge and long experience in dealing with people and units from all walks of life, so I can earn tens of thousands of dollars a year and feel more practical.

However, cadres who choose their own jobs and change jobs for temporary posts should put their minds and positions right, lose the concept of "official", take the initiative to lower their posture and take the initiative to regard themselves as wage earners. To do this work, we must roll the wheels on the top of Nanshan-knock hard (stone to stone). To do things, a tailor must wear glasses-seriously (needles). Only in this way can it be done well, for a long time, and for a long time.

4. Have entrepreneurial ability Among my comrades who choose their own jobs, there are still some who invest in entrepreneurship, but not many. Investment and entrepreneurship are successful, or relatively smooth, or even less.

For example, one of my comrades-in-arms, who chose his own job earlier, partnered with friends to run the steel business. Now his net worth is tens of millions of yuan. His career is booming and his life is elegant and tasteful.

But a very successful person like this can be said to be an example, and most people can only envy it, but can't imitate it. Most of the comrades who invested in entrepreneurship ended in failure, and most of them stopped at a loss.

Some comrades, encouraged by so-called friends and classmates, invest in other people's projects in order to get the promised principal repayment and high dividends. Finally, one or two years after getting the dividend, even people can't be found, and their blood is gone.

Some comrades-in-arms, take money to start their own businesses and run economic entities. Such as: opening a restaurant, opening a specialty store, planting and breeding in the countryside, and so on. Finally, I worked hard for several years and invested a lot of money. I didn't earn a penny in the end, and I lost a lot. From then on, once bitten, twice shy. I don't want to talk about anything that mentions investment and entrepreneurship.

Therefore, investment is risky and it is difficult to start a business. It is still suggested that comrades who choose their own jobs should plan carefully and be cautious when planning to invest and start a business. Otherwise, it is very likely that a dead duck will end up on the shelf and pay back the debts.

Therefore, as demobilized cadres who choose their own jobs, they should be fully aware of their abilities when investing and starting businesses, and remember not to try to be brave and win people's hearts. Don't pick your teeth when you drink cold water-you have nothing to look for, you are poor and proud. Don't wear socks without soles-pretend to have a face. Otherwise, you will be proud of hurting yourself and suffering.

I have nothing to do with my interest. One of my comrades chose his own career and returned to China at the age of 43. He doesn't play cards, drink or work. His only hobby is traveling.

He and his wife spent more than a year and a half running outside.

They joined a go on road trip group in their city, which was specially planned by someone. Travel abroad and domestic tourism; Swim far and swim near. There are basically weekly travel activities.

The scenic spots I have visited include both famous scenic spots and little-known scenic spots. In short, it is to be happy, to be full of happiness, to exercise, to be happy and to be happy.

Another comrade-in-arms of mine, after choosing his own job, fell in love with beekeeping.

He has grown from three boxes of bees at the beginning to more than twenty boxes now. In order to raise bees, he built a shed on the barren hills in his hometown and set up a simple bee farm, which he enjoyed all year round.

Part of the honey he harvests every year is given to relatives, friends and comrades-in-arms, and the rest is sold. You can earn 30 thousand to 50 thousand a year.

According to his words, I played, earned pocket money and maintained the relationship between relatives and friends. It can be said that it is dancing with a pillow-having fun.

6. It is difficult to take care of one of my comrades. After choosing his own job and returning to his hometown, he shouldered the heavy responsibility of taking care of his old father.

In the past, all his four brothers and sisters, except him in the army, worked in southern cities for a long time to make a living. The old father is the only one in the old family in the countryside.

Now, he chooses to work instead of going to work, so the responsibility of taking care of his old father naturally falls on his shoulders. In fact, one of the reasons why he chose his own job is to take care of his old father.

His old father is 80 years old and can't take care of himself completely. So I took him to the home in the county and took care of him wholeheartedly. In addition to some necessary housework all day, the main energy is to take care of my father's daily life and diet, serve tea and water, take a bath and wash his feet, help him go to the toilet, take him for a walk in the park, etc., and do his filial piety. Although it is hard, he thinks it should be worth it.

After another comrade-in-arms of mine chose his own job, his wife gave birth to a second child, which disrupted his work plan.

So, he simply became a treasure dad at home. Get up every morning to make breakfast for the boss, send it to school, and then help his wife take care of his little son when he gets home. Busy all day.

According to him, I used to be busy at work, but now I am busy with my wife and children. Although it is harder than going to work, there is joy in suffering, sweetness in suffering, and hope in suffering.

Today, I finally got a "positive result" in the army, filled out a form and chose to choose my own job. Facing the upcoming journey of independence and career path, I think there are three theories that may help our "new self" make firm choices and enhance self-confidence.

First, the theory of diminishing marginal utility allows us to make our own choices without regrets.

"diminishing marginal utility" is a very important theory in economics, which means that in a certain period of time, with the increase of consumers' consumption of a certain commodity, the utility increment that consumers get from each consumption unit of the commodity is decreasing. For example, when people are hungry, eating the first steamed stuffed bun feels delicious, and they think the steamed stuffed bun is very useful to them, and the second steamed stuffed bun feels good and delicious. If they feel full after eating the third steamed stuffed bun, the utility of steamed stuffed bun will be obviously reduced. If they eat the fourth or fifth steamed stuffed bun, they won't feel delicious, but they may feel worse as they eat it. At this time, the utility of steamed stuffed bun will no longer increase with the increase of quantity. This is the diminishing marginal utility of steamed stuffed bun. Due to the objective existence of diminishing marginal utility, it is necessary for us to rationally allocate existing resources and make the limited resources exert their maximum utility. For example, a person now has 100 yuan to spend, and it is certainly not a wise choice to spend all on buying steamed buns. Eat a few steamed buns and an ice cream, then buy a book or go to a movie. This 100 yuan may play a greater role.

Looking at our life with this theory, whether it is 70 years or 100 years, people's life span is always limited. In the process of consuming life, is it better to have a dull and single life experience or a colorful life? I think Bing Xin's words are very reasonable, "May there be more clouds in your life to create a beautiful dusk". From this point of view, life is to experience more different lives and different situations, to pursue more, to experience more, and to enrich and fill yourself with the passage of time, so as to truly regret this life and live up to it. Choosing a job independently gives us a valuable opportunity to enrich our lives. We have experienced the working life within the system for half of our career, and now we can use the rest of our career to experience the working life outside the system. Many industries and occupations can be tried as long as we are willing. There may be many bumps on the road to choosing a job, and the work unit and nature may no longer be "tall", but the life experience has become rich and colorful. I believe that when we sit and watch life go downhill, we will.

Second, the "10,000-hour law" helps us to strengthen our professional confidence.

The "10,000-hour law" comes from the book Alien. "The genius in people's eyes is extraordinary, not because of superior talent, but because of continuous efforts. 10000 hours of training is a necessary condition for anyone to become a world-class master from ordinary. " Later, this law was widely used in all walks of life. It takes about 10000 hours to become an expert in a certain field. In other words, if you can concentrate on working eight hours a day and five days a week, you will become an expert in a certain field in about five years. And if what we are engaged in is of great interest to us, then we will definitely invest more time and become experts in this field faster.

Autonomous people, who have been in the army for more than ten or twenty years, will inevitably have the ability to panic and lack self-confidence when they take off their military uniforms and face the society. Many people may think that they are experts in any industry, that those professionals are very powerful, and they all look up to them. In fact, these are just the gaps accumulated in time. People who work for more than 10,000 hours may have encountered the bottleneck of progress, but as long as we remain devoted and focused, we can make rapid progress, catch up quickly, and become experts from novices.

Therefore, people who want to do things after returning to society need not worry about their lack of ability, experience and age. The key is to find what they really want to do. 79-year-old male model grandfather, 83-year-old programmer grandmother ... There are many inspirational stories on the Internet. It is never too late to really want to do something. What we need to worry about more is whether we can put down our attitude and ask for advice modestly, and whether we can ignite our due fighting spirit under the protection of retirement pension.

Third, the "stone principle" guides us to be the best ourselves.

What is your best self? Inspired by Dr. Kai-fu Lee's point of view, I understand that the best self is "to change what can be changed with courage, to accept what cannot be changed with heart, and to distinguish the difference with wisdom". Because of this, individuals will exert their greatest value to society and family, and we will also have a life without regrets. On the contrary, there are many things that can be changed, but we don't act or work hard, but we complain, regret and regret those things that can't be changed. This forms a very bad living condition, which we should try to avoid.

The "stone principle" says that the highest height a person can reach when standing on a stone pile (which can represent success or the best state of life) depends on his own height (representing all unchangeable conditions) and the height of the stone he stands on (representing all changeable conditions). In other words, if we want to achieve a better life, we should focus on variables, not on quantifying the futility. Just like a person standing on a pile of stones, you should try to pile up the stones under your feet and choose to stand on the highest stone instead of always regretting that your height is not as good as others.

If you master this principle, you can better see the pursuit and direction of life. For example, if you have decided to leave, don't be too attached to it. How to better adapt to the new identity and new environment is what we need to consider more; For example, if you make your own choice, don't regret how good it was to choose a planned resettlement. It is an effort that should be made for a better life in the future. For another example, there is no need to chew and entangle the past time and years. How to set goals, strengthen actions, and how to grasp this moment, today and this year, are what we need to value most.