In marriage, what kind of "good man" can't get married, and whoever marries is unlucky?

Married life is a chance for a woman to be born again. If you can marry a man who is kind to you, you will be happy all your life, otherwise, there will be endless grievances and sorrows in marriage. Therefore, every woman expects to find the man who is sincere and good to herself when choosing a point. But in reality, there are some boys who look excellent on the surface and everyone praises them, but in fact, they just behave very well outside, and once they step into marriage with him, they will be particularly painful. Therefore, women must polish their eyes and recognize this boy clearly, and can't be confused by his appearance. In marriage, these three "good husbands" can't marry even if they lose, and whoever marries is unfortunate.

A good man who listens to you and never resists. For a woman, she likes to find a man who is kind to herself and makes way for herself. She thinks such a man is good to herself, but it is not. A good man can tolerate women's arrogance and obey women's distribution. What is needed more is a man who has an independent mind and can hold accurate ideas. After all, no matter how strong a woman is, she needs a man's gentle shoulder.

If a man always appears particularly obedient in front of women, always following women's ideas, big or small, you ask him, he is silent about everything, always following you, and never gives all advice. On the surface, he seems to really love you and spoil you.

In fact, such a man is more terrible than a playboy. Because her so-called letting you, in fact, is the main performance of his unwillingness to take responsibility. In order to avoid his responsibility, he depends on you for everything, and you can lead by the nose, so you can lie comfortably at home. When meeting such a boy, a woman must not marry, otherwise she will be particularly tired, not to mention all happiness.

Helping others, in the daily life of the male god, there will be such a group of men who are kind to everyone and will not refuse, as if he were Guanyin Bodhisattva. He will never refuse others as long as they signal help. No matter how busy he is, he will give up everything in his hand and go there to solve difficulties for others. To outsiders, such a man is a particularly helpful man and can be said to be a good man.

But as a woman, don't be deceived by the superficial appearance of boys. Because such a man has no sense of boundaries, emotionally, he will not refuse. Once a woman is in trouble and asks him for help, he will be enthusiastic to help, not knowing what others think and not knowing how to refuse. No matter which woman, it is easy to cheat him on a difficulty.

With such a good man, women will have endless vinegar, endless quarrels, special insecurity, always afraid of helping any woman, and have a particularly boring day. When you meet such a boy, you can't get married even if you fight, and happiness is not easy.

Filial piety, all obedience to parents' filial piety, although filial piety as our traditional virtue since ancient times, also needs everyone to inherit. However, filial piety is not blindly following the crowd, not everything should be done according to parents' wishes, we should have our own discrimination, and we should not blindly follow these incorrect positions of parents.

If a man does everything according to his parents' wishes, even if his parents ask for a lot of mistakes, he is not willing to say boycott, as if it is unfilial to disagree. Such a man is not filial at all. It can only be said that he didn't grow up alone, which is a reflection of immaturity. He doesn't have his own opinion, you and his parents don't think the same, and he will be dissatisfied with his variety show.

Following such a man, a woman's married life is also controlled by her parents-in-law, which will be particularly painful. When a woman meets such a good husband, she must never marry. Whoever marries is unlucky.

Married life is a lifetime thing. When a woman chooses a man, just like choosing a shoe, she can't just look at the surface, because some shoes are very beautiful and popular, but they may not be suitable or comfortable to wear on her feet, or even hurt her feet heavily. Therefore, if you meet the above three kinds of good men in others' eyes, don't be blinded by external good, and don't get married, otherwise you will be disappointed and sad.