There are three things that can't be sent out in the countryside. Do you know what three things are? What do you mean?

Coffins, mourning clothes and hats can't be given away casually. It is nonsense to say that clocks, shoes and medicine cans cannot be given away.

Clocks and watches represent time, giving people alarm clocks and watches, so that people can grasp time more accurately; Shoes are the same as clothes. Old shoes can be given to people in need to continue to play its role. Kaki once picked up shoes worn by city people. It is not easy to buy medicine cans now, but the casserole needs to be pasted with rice soup several times to avoid leakage. Sending or lending medicine cans to others to boil medicine represents the hope that others will recover.

What three things can't be given away casually in the countryside?

There are three meanings of not giving away the coffin: first, it can't be given away as a gift; Second, people can't use it for free without collecting money; Third, you can't give away the coffin you prepared.

1, coffins Although coffins have the meaning of promoting to a higher position and making a fortune, they are funeral supplies after all, and the taboo should be taboo. Everything can be given away, except the coffin. Although giving someone a coffin makes people secure after death, it is tantamount to making people ascend to heaven early.

2. coffin shops are no better than ordinary shops, and they can't learn that other businesses send coffins for free for promotion.

3. Coffins are usually prepared by their children before they die, and of course they are also prepared in a hurry after they die. This is equivalent to a special person who can't give his spare to others for emergency.

Filial piety was difficult to handle after Dai Xiao wore linen. The side of the feather stem can be reserved for daily use, such as sewing into a cloth bag and steaming baba cloth. In the past, when wearing cloth shoes, they were all pasted into soles, and finally the soles were filled with hemp thread.

Although filial piety cloth can be reused, it can't be given away casually. The old man said it might bring bad luck to both sides.

In ancient times, hats symbolized power and status, including crowns and their jobs. You can't just give away your valuables. Of course, colored hats can't be given away for nothing, and others won't want them.

There are many taboos in life. In fact, if the date is really counted, there is nothing to send, and most things can't be sent away. Every place has different customs, so taboos are different. Many things have different meanings in different places. Some things can be given in some places, so they may become taboo in another place, so there is no absolute can and can't.

However, some things are universal and recognized by people in most places, and should not be given away casually. It's not that you can't send it, nor that it's bad for you, but that giving something you shouldn't send will cause misunderstanding and dissatisfaction of others. That's all that matters. After all, many things are unlucky symbols in traditional culture, which also shows that people now really have no solution and don't recognize some things, which is also the helplessness of some things in the world.

Anyway, in traditional culture, some things can't be given, such as clocks and watches. It is generally believed that it is impossible to send a clock. Sending a clock is to die, and it is to die. Many people think that giving a clock is to curse the death of others, which is a very unlucky thing. If you send them clocks casually, others will think that you are cursing their premature death, which will lead to the dissatisfaction and unnecessary trouble of the parties concerned, and even a little superstition will directly turn against them.

So the clock can't be sent After all, no one wants to be cursed by others to die young. The second one that can't be sent is shoes. Shoes represent homophonic evil. After all, many people are very comfortable with their luck now, and they are disgusted with things that they think they will be unlucky. They especially like things that are rich, happy and safe, and they are very disgusted with unlucky things. Shoes are evil words, and no one likes to send evil, so they are very disgusted with them.

The third one that can't be sent is an umbrella. The homophonic meaning of umbrella is scattered, so giving an umbrella to others is to hope that other people's family conflicts will break up. Giving an umbrella is also giving away money to others. Usually, it means gathering wealth and peace. These are all favorite things. Once you give these bad things, it's basically offensive behavior. Originally, these things are not so evil, but many times, whether they are really evil or not, they can be avoided as much as possible.

These behaviors and reactions are actually caused by some psychological and spiritual exclusion and anxiety. When you are upset, external things can easily affect your thoughts and subjective behavior. When a person has a good life, what he gives is actually auspicious. When everything goes wrong, he just gives bad luck. Of course, when something happens, it will make people feel that it will affect their fortune. In fact, it is all psychological factors.

There are many interesting things in the countryside! I remember that in the past years, there were many rural customs that people silently followed and passed on. Three things handed down from the older generation can't be sent, which is also one of the contents. Come to think of it slowly, remember!

So, what three things can't be given to others? According to our custom here:

First, the "fermented noodles" commonly known as (flour fertilizer) used to make dough food cannot be distributed. Especially during the Chinese New Year, people will try their best to have a brand-new atmosphere and a new vision for their future life, so as to pray for a more colorful life in the coming year! You will steam steamed bread with pre-stored "yeast powder fertilizer" and mix flour with alkali, and you will also put red dots on steamed bread to show that it will add festive atmosphere. Old people have consciously told you that if someone asks you for flour fat at this time, "it is best not to give it to others at will"! Because the word "fat" in "flour fat" means that life is rich or "fat", in order to fulfill this dream of "fat life", we must follow this custom in order to get lucky!

Second, during the Spring Festival, don't take red festive "red paper couplets" from home or give them to others. According to the old custom, only these "rich and auspicious" things should be welcomed into the house. If you need to give it to others, you can spend some money to buy it, so it does not belong to the category of violating customs. Only in this way can we appreciate the rural customs of "getting rich and getting rich".

Third, there is a "casserole" for boiling Chinese medicine, which cannot be given to others. This is also a custom that many rural people still follow now. Then, why can't "casserole" be sent to others? Because the rural people who used to polish their wisdom with sweat all yearned for a healthy and happy life, and they were particularly afraid of poverty, famine and disease. And "casserole" is a common tool for treating diseases. Therefore, giving others a casserole seems to be a sign of disrespect for yourself or others.

In rural areas, these interesting stories about local customs are endless. Although it is not as exquisite as before, it is not inferior in inheritance, which is exactly the beautiful life that our ancestors yearned for and prayed for!

I'm Sister Rong, from Shijiazhuang Village, Hebei Province. There are also three things that can't be sent here, that is, medicine pots, clocks and blessings. Why can't these three things be sent out? Sister Rong will explain it to you now.

First: boil medicine pot.

Here, if you are sick, you need to cook Chinese medicine, and you need to borrow it from someone who has a medicine jar. If you stop boiling medicine, don't give this pot to others until they get it themselves. Because if you give someone a pot for boiling medicine, people will think that you just want them to get sick. Therefore, in rural areas, don't send this medicine pot.

Second: clocks.

I once heard such a cross talk that I gave someone a clock and was scolded by others. In our country, there is also a saying that giving clocks and watches is a homonym of death, which means that people will die, so it is no wonder that they will be scolded, so people are not allowed to give them away.

Third: the word "fu".

I remember once, my cousin embroidered a blessing, but she didn't want to make a frame. Some people said that she would give it to others, but she said that the word "Fu" could not be given. She said that if she gave it away, she would give her blessing to others. Later, a few people said so. Only then did I understand that the word "fu" can't be given away for nothing.

Every place has different customs, so the three things you don't give are different. These are three things that we cannot deliver here. What's over there? Welcome friends to chat!

The above is my personal opinion, I hope I can help you!

There are three things that can't be sent out in the countryside. Do you know which three things are those? What do you mean?

Giving gifts is really a technical job. If you give it well, you can get the other party's reward. If you don't know how to give it away at random, it is easy to make a joke or arouse the dissatisfaction of the recipient. What is said here is that these three things cannot be given in the countryside. In fact, city people don't like to accept these three things, and they feel uncomfortable when they receive such gifts. For some young people, there is no harm in learning something unconsciously. Let's see which three are taboo gifts.

1. Zhong: No one can give it to him casually, especially the elderly. If you give it to him, you will get more than one bargained for. No matter how expensive your clock is, it will be homophonic. Anyone who receives such a gift will be unhappy. Many young people don't know this, so be careful and don't do bad things with kindness!

2. Cup: In some people's eyes, cups can't be given casually. They think that cups are "tragedies" and "tragedies" are homophonic. However, in recent years, a group of good idioms "cup" associated with "life" have appeared on the Internet. If you give a cup as a couple, you can get such a gift, and other people who are more particular can't give it casually. What you think is a small friendship, others think you will spoil it.

3. Shoes: Many people think that shoes can't be given casually, especially young people in love. If a man gives a woman shoes, she will think that you have moved on, don't want her and want to break up with her. Sometimes men don't have that idea, but when they meet some unreasonable people, they will be self-defeating.

There are many lectures in the countryside, although old people often say: poor lectures, poor lectures. But a lot of attention has been passed down from generation to generation.

It should be said that most farmers are real. The more they care about others, the more meticulous they are, for fear of bringing bad luck or fortune to others.

It has long been known that there are three things that farmers should not give to others in rural areas. Giving these three things may make the recipient feel depressed and then very angry.

First, don't give clocks and watches to others, no matter what they are or how expensive they are. This clock delivery is based on homophones, similar to the final delivery. You can't send an expensive clock to your subordinates on the leader's birthday, and then say to the leader with praise: Leader, I'll give you a clock. It is estimated that the leader will not die on the spot. It will also make the leader angry.

Second, don't give shoes to others. In fact, in cities, many people, especially male and female friends, send shoes, but in rural areas, sending shoes is not advocated. If a boyfriend wants to send shoes, he can directly discount the money to his girlfriend, because sending shoes means letting people go and driving people away. There are also places that pay attention to the inside. Sending shoes is sending evil. Whoever is evil will be willing.

Third, don't give it, don't give it to others for life. Although life is a container of water, giving a cup means reminding people to drink water, in rural areas, the homonym of a cup is sadness, so not paying attention to giving a cup means giving a cup (tragedy), so this must not be given.

Regardless of this matter or not, farmers will try their best to restrain their behavior and pay attention to poverty in a responsible attitude towards others.

In fact, the country is so big that different places have different customs. Even in the same county, different towns and villages have different customs and habits. Just like where I am, the two villages are less than a mile apart, with different languages, different habits and different customs and cultures.

I take my local customs as an example. They are not representative and different from other local customs. They are for your reference only.

1: Don't send the clock if you live long.

There has always been a saying in my place that when celebrating other people's birthdays, don't give clocks and watches.

In China, everyone has the habit of having a birthday, whether it is a child or an old man. When we go to drink birthday wine, we usually send some gifts as a favor to congratulate.

It is very particular to give birthday presents to others, especially to the elderly. The implication is nothing more than wishing others a long and healthy life. Like something with a bad meaning, you can't send it. Such as clocks and watches. Giving someone a clock means giving someone away to die, which means cursing others for dying early.

The host family will be very angry. Swearing on the spot is light, and the gift-giving guests will be driven away. Since then, many people have stopped communicating with each other.

In 20 10, on my uncle's 78th birthday, a relative of my uncle's family gave him a gift, which was a framed welcoming pine. There is an electronic clock in the sun beside the pine tree. Anyway, this gift looks strange and gives people a sense of disharmony.

My uncle saw it and said that he bought a relative and left the gift outside the house on the spot. Persuaded by the people around him, the uncle did not drive away the relative.

My uncle's birthday was less than half a year, and he suddenly left, without illness or disaster. He suddenly left. A few days before he left, he was still full of energy. After the funeral, my uncle went directly to scold the relative and never spoke to him again.

2: Do you like giving umbrellas?

Others get married, or the new house is on fire, they will like to hold a banquet to congratulate the guests.

Guests usually come with red envelopes, just for dinner. Some guests feel that the relationship is good and will add some extra gifts.

Go to a party and give gifts casually. Generally everyone knows some rules. For example, if you send a red envelope, you won't send four words, 1 word, seven words, three words and five words. Because the meaning of these numbers is unlucky.

4, for death.

5 stands for meaningless.

3, stands for dispersion.

In terms of gifts, there are also restrictions, and umbrellas will not be sent. Umbrella means separation, which means separation. I just got married and want to grow old together. I only wish them to disperse and separate. This will definitely be scolded by the host family.

Some stingy people will even become enemies with you from now on.

3: send a hat.

Couples, or friends, will give gifts to each other on special festivals. Generally speaking, the principle of giving gifts is to give away special meanings, or to give them what they like or what they need. For example, a few days ago, many people gave gifts to their boyfriends and girlfriends.

However, some gifts will not be given casually even if the other party needs them again. Such as hats, especially green hats.

The moral of sending a hat is to wear a high hat. And the cuckold husband is given to the couple, then this relationship is basically over. Giving a cuckold means you are going to cheat. Can the other person not worry about you?

In a word, gift-giving is a technology. We usually give gifts for the sake of human relations and deepening feelings. If you give the wrong gift, it will only make people's feelings more recognized. Might as well not give it.

As we all know, China is a country of etiquette. People pay attention to reciprocity in communication, and giving gifts has always been a very learned problem. Good gifts can enhance each other's feelings. Poor gifts are likely to be self-defeating, small ones will make jokes, and big ones may also cause misunderstandings and contradictions between them.

No clocks: Many friends should know that no clocks are given as gifts. When I was a child, I often heard adults joke about giving clocks and watches. I didn't know them very well at that time. Later, when I grew up, I realized that "sending the clock" and "sending it out" are homophonic, which will make others feel unlucky, especially on birthdays.

No umbrella: Umbrella is an indispensable daily item in our life, especially now many female friends like to take a sun umbrella when they go out, which can not only shade the sun, but also be beautiful. However, in the traditional culture of China, umbrellas can't be given casually. The homonym of "umbrella" is "scattered", which means scattered. If it is a wedding or other occasion, it is even more undesirable to send an umbrella. However, as we all know, it is rare to give an umbrella as a gift.

No shoes: Some places can find the saying "no shoes", but some places don't exist. Before, my sister's children's shoes were very easy to store when I was a child. Originally, I wanted to give it to my relatives' children, but my mother stopped me, saying that it was unlucky to send shoes, and it was likely that I would do bad things with good intentions, and finally the shoes were not sent out. Shoes are actually homophonic. The homonym of "shoes" and "evil" in shoes is not very good, so there will be a saying that shoes are not given in some areas.

In fact, in addition to the above situation, there are many people who pay attention to giving gifts, which is mainly related to local folk customs, and there is not much scientific truth in it. For example, the above examples are all based on the homophonic problem of Chinese characters, but everyone wants to make good luck when giving gifts. It is best to avoid these misunderstandings as much as possible.

Expecting courtesy is the basic etiquette. When visiting other people's homes or having a banquet, don't leave empty-handed. Be sure to bring some gifts. Even if the gift is worthless, it is better than returning empty-handed. Because of this, the so-called "courtesy is light and people are heavy." However, giving gifts to others is also exquisite. If the gift is improper, you will do bad things with good intentions. In rural areas, there are generally three kinds of gifts that cannot be given. Which three are they? Here, farmers talk about our customs.

A clock is a clock. This proverb means that when you give someone a birthday present, you can't give him a clock. Because "sending the bell" and "sending the end" are homophonic, and the bell has the meaning of ending, ending and ending. Only when the old man is dying, the younger generation will send the dying old man the last journey. This custom is also called farewell. However, giving clocks and watches on other people's birthdays will be considered as wishing to die early, which is not only bad, but also misleading. In fact, in addition to giving clocks and watches for birthdays, it is also a taboo to give gifts to elders at ordinary times. In some places, it is also taboo to send cigarettes on birthdays, because cigarettes are homophonic with "elections" and smoking is harmful to health. Sending cigarettes to others is also easy to cause misunderstanding.

It means that relatives and friends are forbidden to give umbrellas as gifts when they get married, because "umbrella" and "scattered" are homophonic. Such a big wedding is auspicious, and everything bodes well. For example, on this day, the bed should be filled with peanuts, longan and dates, indicating that you can have a baby earlier. Therefore, you can't bring an umbrella as a birthday present when you get married. Sending an umbrella is also "sending away". Although this is a superstitious idea, it does not mean that others don't believe it. Why bother others on a festive day?

When I was a child, my parents told us that we should not share pears and plums with several people, and we should not give pears as gifts, especially when visiting patients. This is because "pear" and "plum" are homophonic, and it is very bad to give people pears or plums. There is also a saying in rural areas that "the south is afraid of persimmons, women are afraid of pears, and sows are most afraid of watermelon skins", which shows that it is not good to give pears as gifts.