Talking about doing things with your head down

You can bow your head, but you can't bend over.

Bow your head to avoid meeting or tripping. Bow your head to be a man, bow your head to live, and converge to avoid troubles in life, but if you bow your head beyond the bottom line and hunch over, you will lose your dignity as a man.

Look, mature seeds bow their heads, and so do we humans. Sometimes we have to bow our heads because of the pressure of life, but when we bow our heads, don't forget that we are still carrying the dignity of being a human being behind us, that is our most important thing.

People should never be too snobbish, don't treat others' patience as stupidity, don't treat others' concessions as cowardice, and don't treat others' caution as mental retardation. They are not real fools.

The architecture of Miao people's homes is the most distinctive. A small house can have dozens of eaves and thresholds. On weekdays, the villagers in Miao village come in through these eaves and thresholds from the outside with heavy baskets on their backs. What I don't understand is that although there are so many obstacles, I have never seen any of them bump into the eaves or trip over the threshold. You know, for a foreigner, even if he walks into such a room empty-handed, he will often encounter stumbling, not to mention carrying such a heavy basket behind them. Later, I consulted a local resident, and the old man told me that if I want to walk freely in such a building, I must remember one sentence: I can bow my head, but I can't bend over. Bow your head to avoid the obstacles above and see the threshold at your feet. Not to bend over, but to have enough strength to carry the basket on your body. After listening to the old man, I was lost in thought. You can bow your head, but you can't bend over. Isn't this the attitude we should have towards life? Isn't the Miao family's house just like our life, with eaves and thresholds all the way, and the small space is full of bumps and bumps. And the big basket on our shoulders is full of our dignity as human beings. Walk on the ups and downs with dignity, and always be alert to the dangers around you. In order not to kowtow or stumble, we began to learn to bow our heads-bow our heads to be human, bow our heads to live, converge our abilities and bow our heads carefully.

There are too many eaves and thresholds in our life. From a very young age, we kept meeting and stumbling. Later, when we grew up, our parents told us that we must bow our heads, bow our heads in advance when we meet people, and be patient everywhere. Just for less trouble and less pain. But we forget that there is a basket behind us, a basket full of human dignity. In the process of constantly bowing, the dignity behind it has been shaken. Once we bow our heads at the bottom line, or even bend down, how can we carry back the dignity of being a man and the dignity of life?

In order to avoid unnecessary trouble, we have been bowing our heads. There is nothing wrong with bowing your head. The mistake is that your head is much lower and you even bend over. When the waist bends, the basket can't keep its balance, and its dignity will fall out, scattered all over the floor and smashed to pieces. What you get is not respect from others, but endless contempt and fooling. Facts have proved that life is a snob, and he only sees people with high status. If you want him to hold his head up, you have to stand up straight and be a man. Mature seeds always put their heads towards the earth, and we bow our heads deeply for fear of fate. But don't forget, when we bow our heads, we still carry the dignity of being a human being behind us, which is our most important thing. Once we bow our heads, we will not be able to bear the dignity of being human. Stand up and tell the world: we can bow our heads, but we can't bend over.

Extended reading: be a man in advance and have a good character.

Being a man in advance is an unchanging truth since ancient times. How to be a man not only reflects a person's wisdom, but also reflects a person's accomplishment. No matter how smart and capable a person is, no matter how good his background is, if he doesn't know how to be a man, his personality will be poor, and his career will be greatly affected.

As the old saying goes, you have to be a man before you can do great things. Our ancestors have long emphasized the importance of being a man first. Our ancestor _ Confucius, whose thoughts can be said to be the precipitation of China's cultural heritage for thousands of years, told us that "if a son wants to achieve something, he should be a saint first", "have both ability and political integrity, and be led by virtue", and "virtue is the source of water, which is the wave of water". Therefore, it can be seen that the history of the Chinese nation pays attention to the sanctity of being a man.

We have been familiar with the truth of being a man since childhood. But the quality of personality varies from person to person, and the result of doing things is also very different. No loser is accidental. Similarly, the success of any successful person is inevitable, and one of the most important factors is how to be a person.

California Digital Imaging Co., Ltd. needs to recruit a technical engineer. A young man named Smith went for an interview. He waited nervously in the empty conference room. Soon, an old man with a plain appearance and plain clothes came in, and Smith stood up. The old man stared at the young lady for a long time without blinking. Just when Smith was at a loss, the old man grabbed Smith's hand and said; "I can find you, thank you so much! If it weren't for you last time, I might never see my daughter again. " "Sorry, I don't understand what you mean." Smith said with a puzzled face.

"Last time, in Central Park, you saved my daughter from the lake!" The old man said positively. Smith knows the whole story. It turned out that the old man regarded himself as his daughter's savior. "Sir, you must admit your mistake! I didn't save your daughter! " Smith said sincerely. "It's you, it's you, it can't be wrong!" The old man said frankly. In the face of this grateful old man, Smith can only make some meaningless explanations; "Sir, it's really not me! I haven't been to the park you mentioned so far! " Hearing this, the old man let go and looked at Smith disappointedly and said; "Did I admit my mistake?" Smith comforted the old man and said; "Don't worry, Sir, take your time, and you will find your daughter's benefactor!"

Later, Smith received the admission notice. One day, he met the old man again. Smith greeted him with concern and asked; "Have you found your daughter's rescuer?" "No, I haven't found him yet!" The old man walked away silently.

Smith told the story to a nearby driver with a heavy heart. Unexpectedly, the driver smiled; "Is he poor? He is the general manager of our company. The story of his daughter falling into the water has been told many times. In fact, he has no daughter at all! "

"Oh," Smith was puzzled. The driver went on to say; "We Yongan factory is through this matter to select talents. He said that a person with virtue is a plastic talent! "

Smith worked hard and soon stood out as the general manager of the company's market development department, earning 3500 dollars a year for the company. After the general manager retired, Smith inherited the position of general manager and became a wealth giant in the United States, which is a household name. Later, he told his successful experience. "A man who has been a sage all his life will surely win the eternal trust of others!"

There are countless skills in the world that only virtuous people can do. Things are unpredictable, only character can stand for a lifetime! This is an excellent quality that you should have as a successful person or want to be a successful person.

Specific to the above story, in the face of the old man's "mistake", Smith can "mistake". Anyway, this is a good thing. Besides, the old man voluntarily recognizes himself as his daughter's savior, and he can completely accept this reputation, which may also help him in his job search. However, honest Smith didn't do this. He denied this fact, and therefore conquered the general cultivation of the company with noble virtues, and finally stood out and continued to be promoted until he reached the highest position in the company.

It can be seen that on the road to success, the importance of being a man, morality and personality is great. If Smith had let Yimei wear his own clothes without conscience, he would not have set foot in that digital imaging company, let alone become the top leader of the company.

Zuo Zhuan was recorded and planted; "There is virtue in the world, followed by merit, followed by words, which have been circulating for a long time. This is called immortality. " It means; The first class is to establish noble moral character, the second class is to make contributions, and the second class is to write books. If these can be passed down for a long time, it will be immortal. The "virtue" mentioned here means being a man and having a good character.

Good character is the laurel and glory of life. It is a person's most precious property, it constitutes a person's status and identity, it is all the property of a person's reputation. Good moral character makes every profession in society glorious and every post in society encouraged. It is more powerful than wealth and ability, and it guarantees all honors without prejudice.

People with bad conduct will lose many opportunities in this world. There is a "golden mean" theory in management, which means; If any organization wants to develop steadily, it should be divided into three grades: first, it should have both ability and political integrity; second, it should be respected and respected; third, it should have medium ability and political integrity. The only thing that can't be used is talented people without morality, because such people are extremely dangerous. Just like Lu Bu in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, he is invincible in fighting, but his character is low. He first recognized Ding Yuan as the adoptive father and then killed Ding Yuan, then recognized Dong Zhuo as the adoptive father and then recognized his father Dong Zhuo, and was finally arrested by Cao Cao. He never used him again, so he had to kill him.

On the road of life, we should remember the motto "be a man first, then be a character" whether we choose people or do things for others. A good personality will help you to succeed.