On Cure 202 1: Why should we lose our present mood for painful regret?

1, everyone wants to be smart, and no one wants to make mistakes. Mistakes make people deeply blame themselves and repent, seemingly indifferent, but in fact their hearts are rolling. If you publicize each other's mistakes everywhere at this time, it will often make them angry and even turn against each other. So the purpose of reminding the other party not only failed, but also added a heart disease to himself. You know, a person's mistakes are always inevitable, and not making public everywhere is also a manifestation of virtue.

2. If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be carefree; If you don't set your life goals too high, you will always be happy; If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain; If you don't always demand yourself, you will live comfortably; If you don't always find fault, it will be easier.

I know my pain, I know my sadness, and I feel my happiness. Maybe the hell in my own eyes is the existence in the eyes of others; Maybe the heaven in your own eyes is the hell in others' eyes. Life is so funny. Don't always doubt that spring scenery is in others, the key lies in the adjustment of your own mentality.

4. People often sigh that living is really tiring. Tired, it is mental stress; Being tired is a heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired are always relative. If you want not to be tired, you must learn to relax. Life is to relax. Mental fatigue makes people fall into sub-health state for a long time; A tired heart will make you depressed.

5. If you look for something recognized by others all your life, you will lose your happiness forever. Vulgar comments will annihilate your personality, and secular suggestions will leave you at a loss. Money for money will make you disown your six relatives, power for power will make you bold, and fame for name will make you unprepared. In the deliberate pursuit, the real me will become fragments fluttering in the wind, and the secular me will become disgusting. Get kitsch, lose truth, strengthen confidence and own yourself.

6. Clear water makes no fish, and people have no friends. The shortcomings of others can't be tolerated everywhere, so everyone has become a bad person and can't live in peace. Look at the world with evil eyes, and the world is broken everywhere; Look at the world with a good eye. There are always lovely places in the world. The more you look at other people's merits, the cuter you will look.

7. Why do you want to lose your present mood for painful regret? It is also necessary to vent your grievances once in a while. But endless complaining will only increase troubles and let others see their incompetence. Complaining is a fatal negative state of mind. Once one's complaining becomes a bad habit, one's life will be dark, not only one's good mood will be gone, but others will also be unlucky. It's no use complaining, optimism is the most important thing.

8. Maybe I didn't mean to reveal it. Maybe I don't think I need to care. The more you talk about it, the more you should be alert to whether it gives people a condescending feeling. Especially among friends, it is very speculative. They tend to be too sharp and have no scruples. Excessive showing off will hurt others' self-esteem and keep others away for a long time.

9. Benign hints will warm people's hearts; Malicious hints will be hated. In public, under the eyes of the public, I often do stupid things unconsciously. An unintentional accusation may leave a permanent mark on people, and some may even hold it in my heart for the rest of my life. Make good use of benign psychological hints, and you will bear sweet fruits of life.

10, learning to appreciate yourself means having the golden key to happiness. Appreciate that you are not narcissistic, appreciate that you are not self-centered, appreciate that you are not narcissistic, appreciate that you are not complacent … Give yourself a little confidence, give yourself a little happiness, and give yourself a smile. Why worry about unhappy life?

Simple and philosophical cure: so arrogant, why bend over to survive?

1, time will heal all wounds, please give time.

2, don't hate the past, without it, you can't achieve yourself now.

Modesty If you are unhappy, don't pretend to be generous.

I can meet you and send you away.

It is the human heart that forces us to mature.

6. Every breath is a gift from heaven.

In fact, life grinds us so round that we can go further.

8. If you are so arrogant, why bend down to make a living?

9, not interested, don't want to know, don't want to talk nonsense.

10, just be yourself.

1 1. I am simple and extreme. I like a person, either 100% or 0%.

12, don't step into my circle and disturb my life.

13, the night on the earth, once less.

14, I have my pride, love, or not love, right in my mind.

15, since you have decided to leave, why wait for me to keep you?

16, don't always abandon me, then don't look at me, remember to see me later, please make a detour.

17, as long as you remember, you don't live for others, you do yourself.

18, the strong are not afraid of loneliness, and they are afraid to stay on the road of pursuing strength forever.

19, I don't want much, just you.

20, the sky does not give me the way, I will find my own way; The ground won't level me, I will level myself.

2 1, if you talk about me behind my back, it only means that I am better off than you.

The mood of the healing department says: pain is inevitable, don't lose heart, and firmly believe that pain will survive.

1, I hope this year will no longer be wasted, sad and angry about a little thing, and angry about some little people. Failure is not terrible. What I am afraid of is not trying my best, learning to be independent, bidding farewell to my weak self and facing life calmly. Be practical and you will get everything you want. Life is too short to regret. If it is good, it is called wonderful; If it is bad, it is called experience. Forget all your troubles and spend every day happily.

2, life is alive, no pain belongs to yourself, so there is no need to be pessimistic and disappointed. Living in this world, no one is not painful, and no one will not shed tears. For everyone, pain is just a passer-by, a test and a test. In the face of pain, don't just be sad, but cheer up Pain is inevitable, don't lose heart, and firmly believe that the pain will endure.

3. Travel alone, free from fetters and constraints. One day, carry a bag on your back and take yourself as far as you can. Time is always young, and we are getting old. Some people can only go if they don't come, and some things can only be given up if they don't want them. Some past happiness or pain can only be buried in the heart, and some hopes can only choose to forget the present or the future.

Give all unhappiness to yesterday, all hope to tomorrow and all efforts to today. On the road of life, some things are inevitable, such as fate; Some things cannot be changed, such as love; Some are indelible, so it is better to face them bravely than to bear them passively; It is better to work hard than to be weak and inferior. The harder the road, the greater the obstacles and the more risks. Go on bravely, and life will be more exciting.

If fate breaks the sail of hope, please don't despair, because the other shore is still there. If fate withers the beautiful petals, please don't sink, because spring is still there. There will always be endless troubles in life, please don't be helpless, because the road is still there, the dream is still there, the sun is still there, and we are all there. No matter how good the time is, it will condense into history; Waiting in the distance, as long as you persist, will always come.

6. In fact, all kinds of people who speak ill of you behind your back are not as good as you, really better, more beautiful, more handsome, more advanced and more arrogant than you. People who don't know you at all are too lazy to know you, and they won't pay attention to your various developments every day, let alone talk about you. Those who speak ill of you are all envious and hateful for practical reasons, and can only be said to be very low-level people.

7. Don't blindly envy others' unique skills and skills. You can have them through persistent efforts. Because it is a trick to practice a simple movement to perfection; It is a unique skill to do an ordinary little thing perfectly. Man must be responsible for what he has done. When he takes a responsible attitude towards himself, he will look forward and see what he can do.

8. Life is never planned, but comes out step by step. Be brave to do what you like, even if you only do a little every day, you will see our growth over time. Whatever kind of life you want, you should fight for it. Life is learned by experience. Only after experiencing the hardships of life and many things, plus your own cultivation and understanding, can you be peaceful and indifferent.

9. Try to live the life you want. Anyone can live without anyone, but I can't live without you after all. Those who agreed not to be separated left in a familiar and quiet way. Quiet, left. Left, strange. Strange, it disappeared. Disappeared, stranger All your efforts will be a kind of precipitation, silently paving the way for you to become a better person.

10, remember to get up early and try to chase the first sunshine, which makes you brave. Even if there are dogmas and shackles, even if there is external pressure, don't let other people's opinions affect your inner voice. Don't be afraid of falling, hitting a wall and failing. Youth makes you brave. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. It is more of a burden and another loss.

Enduring lovelorn is persistence —— Emotional sentence after lovelorn

The pain of lovelorn is persistence, which means that you have never really loved, only desire, because you can't stand it because you can't get it. It is difficult to feel the sacredness and positive energy of love.

Sorrow is better than pain. Fierce love can't last long, and it is easy to cause trauma to yourself and others.

Relax a little, keep your distance from your lover, and leave a little possibility of change before you have surprises and expectations.

The most suffocating thing about love is to kill each other's freedom in the name of care.

The greatest happiness is to live freely, freely and happily, stay awake and awake, and feel at ease.

True love will never leave, and those who don't leave are not afraid of losing it and don't need to maintain it.

The most comfortable love is freedom, not expecting others and not waiting for yourself. Love doesn't need to wait for the other half, love is at this moment, and everyone is willing to live well.

Respect personal activities and thinking space, and maintain a certain degree of freedom. Whether it is a couple or a partner who vows not to get married, it is the happiest relationship between the two sexes.

Asking to enter someone else's country can be a form of violence.

To reserve space for the person you love is to reserve space for your relationship.

People who love pets need to express their love by manipulating another life more or less, but they are unwilling to let go and let their life return to freedom.

Freedom is willing to blow away your persistence.

I don't believe in love that I can't extricate myself, but what I see through is the beloved who prefers self-abuse and indulgence.

People are weak, so we should be conscious and settle down.

The problem lies with oneself, not others.

People who give up on themselves naturally give up on themselves

To cure yourself, we must first manage our greed, open our hearts to understand others, learn to distance ourselves from relationships, maintain positive energy, avoid dependence, don't bear other people's lives, and reserve conditions for self-love and other love.

You must have faith before you can improve yourself. You can heal your broken body and mind. With faith, there is hope.

Everyone has a past, but every day is new. There is no excuse to stay in the past.

Start from the inner transformation, cherish what you have with the power of gratitude, and don't cling to what you have lost.

Taking the mountain road is the best self-treatment, pure physical and mental exercise, beyond time, no room for thinking, and even forgetting life and death. The will to survive and continue is the only companion. It's good to love like this.

Love and ending are natural trajectories. Learn to accept and understand, cherish every moment when you are alive and around, and make the law of life and death noble.

There is never a doomed misfortune, only persistence that does not let go.

The pain never existed in my mind.

We always publicize our misfortunes and dare not admit how happy we are.

Most of the pain is the result of refusing to leave.

People's pain is often not stabbed by new pain, but the inertia of reading old memories.

People's greatest pain is that they can't let go of the past, whether it's happiness or pain, love or hate.

Women are born screenwriters. Only when she has suffered injustice and pain in love can she be considered as having paid. This is the poison of popular love songs, sad novels and movies. However, women subconsciously copy the same story, ignoring ugliness and looking for their own wounds.

The biggest trauma of the victim is not being hurt, but refusing to let go of the role of the victim, preferring to be immersed in the psychological inertia of pain and self-pity and being invaded by negative thoughts.

Memory is a big cage, which locks freedom and drives thoughts to the wall. It's hard to see how cunning love is now.

A thing of the past, become memories, suddenly became very clear, at least clearly be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, or clearly confused.

Still clinging to the lost, fragile relationship, afraid to remember, unable to forget, tears before words. Memories are always too heavy.

Because the wound has a scar, it can always be seen by you, reminding you that things have changed and the wind and frost have covered you, which has carved a depth for your life. So, you don't want to heal the wound.

It is human nature to be lovelorn and sad. No need to deny it. You should even be glad that you still have a lover. You can continue to love and cultivate yourself.