Whether the mother-in-law is really good to her daughter-in-law, you will know after giving birth to a child. Why do you say that?

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Before getting married, many women always say: "I am good to my mother-in-law. If I show my feelings to my mother-in-law, she will be good to me. There will definitely be no conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."

It wasn't until they got married and had children that they realized that what they said slapped themselves in the face. Whether a mother-in-law is really good to her daughter-in-law will be known once she gives birth to a child, and she cannot deceive others.

A narrow-minded mother-in-law will think that since you marry into my family, no matter you are a rich lady or a princess, you will not be able to escape the death order of passing on the family line. What's even more extreme is that if you don't give birth to a son, your mission will not be completed.

The old woman who has been a daughter-in-law for many years knows all too well the suffering she suffered from her mother-in-law when she was young. Therefore, now it is her turn to be the mother-in-law, and she will also take care of her daughter-in-law according to the methods of "ruling the family" that her mother-in-law "taught" to her.

Whether your mother-in-law is good or not, family tradition is very important.

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After Li Qing married into her husband's family, she worked diligently to help with housework every day, buying food, cooking, and mopping the floor. Everything was her responsibility. Before getting married, her mother-in-law did all these things. Now that she has a daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law has given up everything and left everything to Li Qing.

Li Qing became pregnant three months after her marriage. People say that October is the queen, but Li Qing has never experienced queen-like treatment. On the contrary, it was her who should have done it, but she didn't need to mop the floor. After all, the floor was slippery, and my mother-in-law was still worried about any accidents, so she had some conscience.

Ten months later, Li Qing gave birth to her son successfully. I originally thought that after giving birth to a son, my status would be improved and my mother-in-law would treat me better.

However, whether a person is good or not, and whether he or she has empathy, is something that is developed over a long period of time and cannot be changed overnight.

While Li Qing was in confinement, her mother-in-law still went outside to play mahjong. After Li Qing had breakfast in the morning, her mother-in-law received a call from a poker friend. Although the mother-in-law said: "I'm not going, I'm not going, I still have a month-old mother-in-law to take care of at home."

Waiting for the other end of the phone to say: "Oh, it's still early now, until lunch We still have a few hours to play, it’s okay.”

So the mother-in-law was moved and said to Li Qing, “I’ll go out to buy some food and I’ll be back soon.”

But Li Qing knew clearly that her mother-in-law went to play cards again. I didn't come back to cook until after 12 noon. I went out to play cards after dinner in the afternoon.

After giving birth to a child, the mother’s body is originally weak in energy and blood, and she is easily tired. In addition, taking care of the child provides nutrition for two people. After eating breakfast in the morning, she feels hungry soon.

After a while, the baby woke up and had poop. He had to change his feces and urine by himself. In the afternoon, he had to give the baby a bath himself. It was really tiring.

What kind of good mother-in-law is a mother-in-law who puts her own pleasure first and puts aside her daughter-in-law and grandchildren at home? Anyway, I don’t believe it.

People's hearts don't get colder in a day, and leaves don't turn yellow in a day.

The confinement period is when a woman needs help the most, but the mother-in-law would rather spend time playing instead of taking good care of her confinement period. Can the daughter-in-law feel comfortable?

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The first hurdle a woman needs to overcome in her life is to have children. In this most difficult and helpless stage, she cannot get her husband's family. Basically, women will bury their resentment for people's help.

Ten years to see my mother-in-law, ten years to see my daughter-in-law.

Many women say, how you treated me back then, I will treat you the same way when you are old.

The woman who was chilled had an indelible resentment in her heart. This resentment can accompany her life for a long time, and they will not let go of their resentment until their mother-in-law passes away.

Women are originally a vulnerable group and bear the important task of having children. Why can't we help each other?

Whether your mother-in-law is good or not, don’t rush to make a conclusion before getting married. Let’s wait and see when the daughter-in-law gives birth to a child and is in confinement. The human heart will be exposed. It is very accurate and cannot be deceived by others.

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