For those couples who sleep in separate beds, is it really necessary to make do like this for a lifetime?

Sleeping in separate beds is a common phenomenon in marriage and emotional life. Whether it is because of emotional disharmony or the lack of feelings between husband and wife, it is inevitable for many people. So what should couples who sleep in separate beds do in their lives? Let's listen to the emotional story of a friend around us.

My wife and I have been sleeping in separate beds for almost two years. I also wanted to adjust the contradiction between us at that time, but my wife's temper refused to follow me. I was helpless, so I just listened to her choice to sleep in separate beds. There are only two reasons why we sleep in separate beds: one is the disharmony between husband and wife, and the other is the lack of communication.

As a man, sex is indispensable, especially for his wife. When I want to live a husband-and-wife life with my wife, she is very cold and very resistant to husband-and-wife life. Her cold refusal is in stark contrast to my initiative. Every couple's life is a reluctant look. After a long time, I don't want to force her, and my life is cold. In the meantime, I also talked to her several times, trying to change her mind, but it didn't work. She still thinks that the life of husband and wife can be omitted, and her heart is very dirty.

My wife belongs to that kind of quiet woman, who is very quiet and virtuous. We've been married for years, and the number of times you've spoken to me can really be counted. Looking at what she doesn't like to say and getting used to hiding it in her heart, I feel distressed. Every time I try my best to make her happy and laugh, she always gives me the same response? Smiling face? She didn't communicate with me, which led to our feelings drifting away. Sometimes I think I don't know her.

After being together for so long, we can only sleep in separate beds. Every time she does her own thing, she washes and sleeps, leaving me alone. Later, she suggested that we sleep in separate beds so that we wouldn't be bound by each other. At that time, I heard strong opposition that it was unreasonable for couples to sleep in separate beds, but she insisted on sleeping in separate beds, and I finally had to obey. How to sleep without a bed?

Husband and wife should live in harmony and love each other. If the two sides sleep in separate beds, it means that there is a crack in the relationship between the two sides. At this time, we can't be indifferent and conform to nature. We must make effective solutions to change the situation of sleeping in separate beds, and we can't let husband and wife spend their lives in this situation.

First, open each other's hearts.

Open each other's hearts, open the door that closes the heart, and don't be silent. Husband and wife should be close and spend enough time together. At this time, we should make good use of this time, communicate more and talk about our feelings or inner contradictions. Everything will disappear the moment you say it.

Second, harmonious husband and wife life.

Husband and wife life is an indispensable part of husband and wife, and harmonious husband and wife life is also a way of communication between husband and wife. ? Bedside fights, bed ends, and ... There is no overnight hatred between husband and wife, and a high-quality husband and wife life can satisfy both sides. When there are obstacles in husband and wife's life, psychological counseling should be carried out in time, otherwise it will affect the harmony of husband and wife's feelings for a long time.

Third, don't rush for success.

The contradiction between husband and wife should be solved step by step, and we should not be eager for success. You can never eat hot tofu if you are impatient, and the result of being eager for success is often unsatisfactory, which may aggravate the escalation of contradictions. At this time, we need to be patient with each other, find out the root of the problem step by step, and solve the contradiction together.

Couples should not think that sleeping in separate beds is just a trivial matter, which will easily lead to more confusion and contradictions, even to the point of divorce, so it is necessary to interrupt sleeping in separate beds in time to save each other's feelings.