As a boy, I am nervous to talk to girls. What should I do?

Generally speaking, as a boy, I am nervous about talking to girls, because I lack the ability to communicate with the opposite sex. Moreover, it may be because of study that I don't communicate much with girls. Therefore, it is precisely because of the lack of this necessary communication that I am nervous when talking to girls. Therefore, at this time, it is necessary to analyze specific problems. After knowing the reasons for your nervousness, you can change your life and communicate with girls actively, so you can change your nervousness. You can actively change yourself from the following aspects.

1, if it's because you don't have much contact with girls, you can participate in some club activities.

If you are nervous because you don't have much contact with girls, it is essential to have club activities at school. In these activities, you can get to know different types of girls, which is conducive to talking and communicating with girls of different women and understanding what they are thinking. Once you find the same topic this time, you won't feel nervous when you talk next time.

2. If you are nervous when you meet a girl you secretly love, you should calm down at this time.

If it's because that girl happens to be the girl you like, it's normal to be nervous at this time. Therefore, if this happens, you should repeat what you want to say several times, and then say it calmly, and control your speed and intonation. If necessary, you can speak slowly and think before you speak, so that you can be less nervous at this time.

3, specific analysis of specific issues, you can talk to girls who are good friends.

If you feel a little nervous talking to girls alone, you can also bring your friends or classmates to chat with your girlfriend. Moreover, at this time, more suitable people can ease the awkward atmosphere and enliven the atmosphere, so you can also find some boys who have a good relationship with the opposite sex and go to some activities together, so that you can communicate with girls more and you will not be nervous at this time.

Generally speaking, it's all about people. If it is because of the lack of contact with girls, it is necessary to join some clubs or activities at this time, get to know more friends of the opposite sex and improve your speaking ability. And I won't be nervous when I meet friends of the opposite sex. If it is because the other person is a girl you like, then at this time you can try to make your heart calm enough and adjust your speaking speed. Control your emotions and talk.