Some people say that money can be willful, but it should not be willful. What is the nature of arbitrariness?

Don't be willful if you have anything.

Being rich is willful; If you are talented, you will be willful ... willfulness, a network language, quickly swept the country, and for a time the whole country was a wayward voice.

What is willfulness? Willfulness means being casual, being casual, doing whatever you want, and doing whatever you want. Wayward, just talk, but in real life, you can't be wayward about everything, money, power and appearance … I want to say, don't be wayward about anything.

Being rich means being willful. These buzzwords reflect an attitude towards life, that is, doing whatever you want. I am rich and good-looking, and I can do whatever I want. There is pride and arrogance here, as well as showing off and boasting. The person who said this may have made a name for himself, or he may be rich and stand out from the crowd. For example, Ma Yun, who stands at the top of the Internet industry in China, said that "having money is willful" is a kind of heroism and a kind of publicity and show-off.

In fact, there is nothing to be willful about. Not willfulness, but introversion and self-cultivation.

Qian Zhongshu, who is well versed in Chinese and western cultures, is indifferent to fame and fortune and is self-willed. A reporter from a certain country read Fortress Besieged and wanted to meet him. Mr. Qian declined politely: It feels good to eat an egg, so why do you need to know the hen of this egg? Mr. Jiang Yang, a centenarian, lived a simple life and read all the vicissitudes of life. Years have precipitated talent, cultivation and the truth, goodness and beauty of life. They are not unassuming and willful. Mr. Ji Xianlin, a master of Indian studies, devoted his life to learning and kept quiet. At that time, a newly enrolled Peking University student mistook Ji Lao (then president of Peking University) for an ordinary old man and asked him to look after his luggage. Ji Lao agreed and earnestly performed his duties. It was not until the opening ceremony that the students discovered that it was Mr. Ji Xianlin, the president of Peking University and a famous Indian master, who was guarding their luggage. Ji Lao is not arrogant and willful. He is not willful because he is famous, talented and powerful, and ignores students' demands. It's not willfulness, it's cultivation, it's character.

There are also some people in life who are willful with a little money and willful with a little talent. The female scholar who said the Analects of Confucius in the lecture room was called a scholar, and her scholarship was not rigorous. The Analects of Confucius is full of mistakes, which caused an uproar in academic circles. However, "talent" is wayward, and "name" is wayward. No matter whether this reputation is obtained by the credit of parents or by the nature of the times, "talent" and "name" are willful anyway. Lecturing in various places, fame and fortune, and sometimes arrogant words, no cultivation, only willfulness.

Being rich and willful, having the right to be willful, is not worth mentioning. Aren't Shi Chong and Shen Wansan very headstrong when they are rich? Don't people like Yan Song and Wei Zhongxian have the right to be willful? What is there to show off outside? What is there to abuse at will?

So, don't be willful about anything.