Gave birth to five daughters and finally gave birth to a son, but is it really worth it?

I was born, whether it was worth it or not. I keep one. I also raised five. I think you've got everything you want. Let it be. Stick to a certain path. Maybe everything is going well.

Worth it, worth it! Now someone has succeeded to your throne.

Even if your family has no throne, you still have five daughters. If you get married in the future, every daughter will get a bride price of 10 million. how much is it?

How hard it is to have a baby son. You should support him like your ancestors. In any case, spoil him to reach for clothes, to make a living, to be selfish and willful, and to be lawless. Otherwise, I'm sorry you gave birth to five daughters and finally gave birth to a son.

Work hard, and the future is bright. In the future, your daughter-in-law will be filial to you, afraid of losing it in her hand and holding it in her mouth. When you die, you will be in a golden coffin.

You will be immortal!

Ali personally feels that giving birth to a child can't be judged by whether it is worth it or not, but after giving birth, she will be responsible for him and support him to grow up. If you have to give a label: is it worth it, it depends on your son's promise! If this son grows up to be very filial and promising, it is undoubtedly very worthwhile to honor his ancestors. And if this son is a vagrant, he can't take care of himself, and he has to be raised by his parents when he grows up, it's really worthless.

There is such a family in Ali village, and the family is not bad. At first, I gave birth to three daughters in a row, eager to have a son. When the fourth child was born, I saw that it was still a daughter. The husband and wife were very disappointed. After discussion, although reluctant, I finally decided to give it to relatives in neighboring villages who have no daughters. Later, another daughter was born at home. After giving birth to five daughters in a row, they still haven't given up the idea of having a son. Finally, the sixth child is a son. If you have a son in the countryside, even if you have one, you can hold your head high in front of everyone.

In this way, this family raised four women and 1 man, and lived a colorful life. However, as the child grew up, the girl who was fostered at that time began to understand her life and knew that she was sent away by her biological parents, especially her sister, but she was sent away by herself, so she naturally complained. Because she lives close, occasionally people in the village will ask her about her parents. She says she hates her biological parents. When biological parents hear such words, they will naturally feel sad.

In order to make up for the girl who was sent away (the family conditions that raised her were not good), the biological parents took all the expenses of the girl's school life with the consent of the adoptive parents. Because of the small age gap between the children, when they were in high school, four children, including the girl who was sent away, were rented together and taken care of by their mothers. But biological mothers often say that girls who are sent away feel alienated from other children. Every time she mentioned this matter, she regretted giving her daughter away, which made the child lack the innocence and happiness that children of the same age should have!

Regarding this story, do you think this parent will regret giving up her daughter to have a son? Or do you think it's not worth having a son? Definitely not. In rural areas, the idea of "unfilial is the greatest of the three" is deeply rooted, and few people will regret or feel worthless because they have given birth to one child after another until they have given birth to a boy. In their view, a daughter can do without it, but a son must have it. Unless this son grows up to be a villain, the kind that everyone shouts. Otherwise, no one will really feel worthless. No matter how mediocre and incompetent their children are, they should be the best in their parents' hearts!

You have given birth to five daughters, and you have done your best to finally give birth to a precious son. Anyone who can evaluate will say: it's worth it, it's worth it, it's worth it.

If you want to judge the heroic mother, I believe many people will vote for you, but if everyone learns from you and has more children, it is estimated that few people dare to follow in your footsteps. Because, many people want to be born but dare not, and they are afraid that they can't afford to be born.

You have achieved the goal of having a son now, but it is still too early to say whether it is a blessing or a curse and whether it is worth it. Only after you get married and have a family can you judge whether it is worthwhile to have this son.

I say this because my friend's situation is basically the same as yours in real life. Later, it was because of this little son that his family was destroyed. To remind you, I want to tell you about yesterday.

Friends began to have their own careers and businesses, and they also had some money, and they were also famous in our local area. Everything can be said to be smooth sailing and flourishing.

This friend had four daughters before. In order to have a son, the couple vowed for life, and finally the wife became pregnant again. In order to prevent being discovered by the family planning "detective team", he let his wife hide everywhere and finally gave birth to a son. When I came back, I was caught by the "detective team" and fined 10,000 yuan. Later, he spent a sum of money on his son's account.

This son is hard-won, and he is really like a baby at home. Not only do the four sisters in the family have to let him go anyway, but even their parents have to spoil him every day. This son is at home to the letter.

As a result, his son has been playing truant and playing games in Internet cafes since elementary school. After being discovered, his parents just scolded him innocently and didn't stop his son from continuing to play games online. The teacher finally gave him up helplessly.

Finally, I didn't want to go to school until the second day of junior high school, so I went out to play. I have been mixed up in society for several years, and nothing has been mixed up. One day, I brought a girl home and said I would marry her. My parents couldn't help agreeing. Because they are not old enough to get married, I can't get a marriage certificate.

What I never expected after marriage was that my friend's nightmare began. Son and daughter-in-law do nothing every day, and parents pay for food, clothing, housing and transportation. If they are slightly dissatisfied with their daughter-in-law, they will swear, and their son has actually helped her. Finally, one day, their son and daughter-in-law joined forces and openly quarreled with their parents. So far, the old couple and the young couple at both ends have often quarreled, making their chickens and dogs restless and their neighbors uneasy.

Finally, the son and daughter-in-law actually drove the old couple out of their home, obviously the old couple's home. My son and daughter-in-law insisted that it was their own and happily changed the lock, on the grounds that since you paid for my sister's room, the building should be mine.

Helpless, the old couple, who used to have unlimited scenery, are now homeless, their business has plummeted and their losses have been repeated.

Now the old couple have given up everything at home and moved away from home. It is said that they have taken refuge in their daughter.

Let's talk about such a son: Is it worth living?

I think you are showing off. You finally have a son! To tell the truth, no one here thinks it's great to have a son! I remember the year before last, a Jiangxi man did business with us. They just need to have their sons there, and even if they have ten sons, they will continue to have them. Last year, he finally gave birth to a son, with several daughters in front! That joy! When I meet an acquaintance, I show people his son's photo, which is dazzling every day. Everyone here thinks he is mentally ill. What's so cool about having a baby? But he thinks it's dazzling, and it's always dazzling, so different places have different ideas. If you have to have a son to succeed, it is worthwhile. If this is the case here, it's not worth it. Because I will always be poor, and life will be very difficult when I am old and have no money to support the elderly.

It's worth it It's a pity that all five daughters have been reincarnated in your home. There are still sons who prefer sons to daughters, so you should have five sons.

If you can raise your daughter and son, it's worth it. When a daughter has no education, her son is spoiled as a baiwenhang. Then you are a pig brain. Anyway, most people don't make trouble. Two is enough. You have given birth to so many children, which violates family planning. I didn't let go until I had two children.

Obviously, in the final analysis, son preference is really not worth it.

Having given birth to so many children, you can imagine the physical trauma. Not everyone can endure long-term pain and suffering.

Childbirth again and again, leaving countless pains and physical and mental fatigue. Life, how many decades!

Moreover, the age difference between the five daughters and sons is enough to make it difficult for you to go back and forth and take care of everything.

Care and education are the first major problems. Even if you have money at home, please take care of it and ask someone to educate you. This feeling is not very strong.

It is usually difficult to achieve with the big and the small. After all, they are all children, and my sister knows how to take care of her little brother and sister.

Just a little water, a hug and a little teasing.

The right to ease the atmosphere!

The responsibility still lies with parents.

It's relatively easy to have two or three children, and it's not bad for your health, but it's worth it.

Usually, doctors will advise women to have another child after two years.

Give birth naturally, and the time is shorter. It takes longer to cut a woman.

Now the cost of going to the hospital to have a baby is not low, and the prices of milk powder, diapers and baby products are also high.

Suppose you have five daughters and a son. These expenses are enough to improve your family's living standard and enjoy other life pleasures.

I have no choice but to prefer boys to girls. Even if I scrimp and save at home, I will try my best to have a son.

These feudal customs hurt many people.

Relatively speaking, you finally have a son. You are lucky. You got your wish.

In real life, some people want boys, but they have given birth to several girls in succession. After a long time, they can't give birth themselves, and there is nothing they can do about it. Even if some people change people, they must achieve their goals.

It's really scary, especially for the elderly, who have taken root and have high demands on men.

Future generations can only do this.

Otherwise, it is humiliation, disloyalty and unfilial.

Today, we still have to abandon these concepts and let everyone live more easily and freely.

Boys and girls are the same. Who is good to us is true!

Everything is so constrained that we can't laugh if we want to.

Gave birth to five daughters and finally gave birth to a son, but is it really worth it?

Worth it, so what. Not worth it, so what?

Anyway, you have already given birth, so live a good life.

Congratulations, you finally have a son and a daughter.

Leave the rest to the future!

I believe tomorrow will be better.

Worth it or not, he was born to you. If it's not worth it, can you still put the baby back in your stomach? No, don't ask this question. Don't fucking make me prefer boys to girls. Spoil your son to heaven and treat your daughter like grass, or you will regret it in your later years.

You were born before you asked this question. Explain that you always thought it was worth it before giving birth to this boy. I feel happy only one day after giving birth to a boy. Then the pressure of life weighs you down like a mountain. So, you start to think, is it worth it? Whether it is worth it or not is determined by your outlook on life, values and world outlook, and others can't answer you.