What maintains a relationship is not confession, but taking care of each other's feelings and having reservations.

If you invest in a man in a woman's most important years, you will keep begging him not to leave you for the next few decades. If you invest in yourself, then in the remaining decades, you will successfully harvest the love that truly belongs to you. Only when you are at your best can the best people love you.

1, live a carefree life with a willing attitude.

2. In life, there are always some things that you know are wrong, but you always insist on; Obviously not good, but always guarding.

3. Spiritual happiness comes from spiritual richness; Simple happiness comes from the satisfaction of the mind.

Wherever you go, remember that the past is false, memory is an endless road, and the past spring is gone. No matter how tenacious and fanatical love is, it is just a fleeting reality in the final analysis.

5. Time will tell us-simple love lasts the longest; The company in the ordinary is the most reassuring; People who know you are the warmest!

6, some things, you really didn't see clearly, see clearly, heartache; Some people, you really don't understand, understand and hurt. Life is a kind of confusion, a vague, unclear, confused and vague. There are so many things in life that you can't get used to. It's all asking for it. Look at it. It is not self-deception, but self-protection to cast a fog over life. Everything is too serious, bitter heart, tired of themselves.

7, perhaps, life is like this, half confused, half awake, sometimes confused, sometimes awake.

8. Some happiness is inseparable from persistence; Some happiness depends on letting go. Nothing is absolute. The young heart is an old plow, working silently, only for harvest. However, not every seed will sprout. How many mountains and rivers do you have to cross before you really understand that letting go and persisting are pursuits. Pursuit does not mean going forward bravely. The wisdom of water flowing around the stone and the indifference of orchids are all pursuits. Chase if you want, and release if you can't find it.

9, when, let go of casual, give up wishful thinking, perhaps, is also a kind of happiness, a kind of happiness.

10, the heart is like a lotus, and life will be fragrance all the way. We often get lost in our own hearts: when we are inferior to others, we will be jealous and lose our composure; When an accident happens, you will be flustered and lose your composure; When you lose a loved one, you will lose your mind and despair. Only when the heart is quiet and peaceful will it not be influenced by the outside world. Heart like lotus is smiling in quiet years, abandoning inner struggle, evil thoughts and vanity and living freely.

1 1, how much a person can achieve depends on how he treats his time. The relationship between you and time forms yourself. You make time more valuable and time will make your life more valuable.

12, let it be, pay attention to the cold and warm, the sun is good, and I am also very good.

13, the highest state of life: forget the past, satisfy your present and be optimistic about your future.

14. Missing is as exhausting as love. I have no choice but to separate two places. At first, I missed you so much that I couldn't wait to run to your side at once and never be separated from you again. Later, I didn't miss you so much, not because I didn't love you, but because I missed you so much in no way back. No matter how much I miss you, I still can't see or touch you. I just tortured myself with my own thoughts. So I know I must learn to live my own life.

15, I don't know, it's human; What I can't figure out is people.

16, true love is not love at first sight, but long-term love; The real fate is not the arrangement of heaven, but your initiative; The real inferiority is not that you are not excellent, but that you think too well of her; The real concern is not that you ask her to change what you think is good, but that you first discover her change; The real contradiction is not that she doesn't understand you, but that you refuse to tolerate her …

17, people often give up their life just for some small emotions, and sacrifice their happiness at a certain sharp point in their emotions.

18, happiness is, two pairs of eyes, looking at a future.

19, we are all birds with one wing, and we can only fly if we hug.

20. The world is really small. It seems that I don't know who I will meet when I turn around. The world is really big, as if turning around and not knowing who will disappear.

2 1, walk quietly and watch silently, no matter the wind and rain, no matter the bumps.

22. Tomorrow will be a brand-new day. Forget quickly, think deeply, raise your mouth and regret less.

23. When you meet a bald man, choose a city to die.

24, there is a kind of love, obviously deep love, but the expression is not perfect; There is a kind of love, knowing to give up, but unwilling to leave; There is a kind of love, knowing that it is suffering, but it cannot be avoided; There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way out, but the heart can't be redeemed.

25. Don't wait for my tears, you will understand my sadness. Don't wait for me to disappear before you know I exist.

If you don't understand my silence, how can you understand my sadness?

27. The best is not the future, but today. The sunshine is so good, why bother yourself?

28. Go out for a walk, see different scenery and meet different people and things, and you will find that your troubles are so insignificant.

29. In fact, there is nothing wrong with the road. What is wrong is only choice.

30. Smiling doesn't always mean you are happy. Sometimes, it just means that you are strong.

3 1, the most annoying irritability is that I don't know what I'm worrying about at all, and my whole body is bursting with negative energy for no reason.

32. She said that happiness is to find someone who makes her desperately want to lose weight for him, but that person always pats her head and says, eat more and don't be hungry.

Why does a woman attach so much importance to her work? I work hard, so that when I meet the person I love, whether he is rich or has nothing, I can open my hand and embrace him frankly. I don't feel aloof if he is rich, and we won't be down and out if he is poor. This is the meaning of women's efforts! ! ! Life without a princess must have a queen's heart!

34. If you think about your own mistakes, you will forget the mistakes of others.

35. What should be abandoned is helplessness, and what should not be abandoned is incompetence; Ignorance should give up if you don't give up, and persistence should not give up if you don't give up.

36. Sometimes, we are willing to forgive someone, not because we really want to forgive Ta, but because we don't want to lose Ta.

37. What keeps a relationship together is not honesty, but consideration of the other person's feelings and reservation.

No one looks down on you, because others don't look at you at all, and everyone is busy.

39. In fact, love is a sudden move. Many times, you think you won't fall in love with someone, but you can't get rid of it. Because love is such a thing, not because it is suitable, but because of the inner throb. The more you love each other, the harder it is to be together. Because the person you love is always the one who hurts you the most.

40. I dare not rely on anyone, because I am too aware of the impetuousness of people's hearts and the falsehood of vows, so that I only believe that I am the most trustworthy person in this world.

Editor's Note: Calm down and think about the past year. You will be happy and sad. Someone left, and everything changed. I stopped crying, and the tears I should have shed dried up. I just wonder what it would be like if we were still together, and whether we still love each other deeply. Some words hidden in my heart are not intentionally hidden, but not all the pain can be shouted out.

Talking about maintaining relationships

Talking about maintaining relationships

First, marriage psychology Usually, we are attracted by sharpness, and we are also injured because of sharpness. Start with personality and end with personality [ok]. If you want to maintain a relationship, are you willing to cut off half of yourself? Perhaps this is the sacrifice of love and the price of marriage.

Second, I always hope to have your participation and your company in my later life. Because you are the most important person in my youth and bring me light. The maintenance of a relationship always requires one party to take the initiative, so that both parties have the opportunity to work hard. So, if we still miss each other, then no matter what happened before, you will still be together. I firmly believe. Then. You can still spend every afternoon with me crazily.

There is no way to maintain a relationship by forbearance and forgiveness. Everyone should look forward to each other and see hope before they can go on. But it seems that no straight man around me understands this truth.

Four, when I grow up, I won't bite the bullet to maintain a relationship, because he taught me that a good relationship doesn't need you to try your best to please.

The sixth season of Friends is over. There are always so many unforgettable moments in life. It is not easy to maintain a relationship from meeting and falling in love to entering the marriage hall. May all lovers be well, and all lovers be well.

Sixth, to maintain a relationship is not to be frank, but to take into account the feelings of the other party and have reservations.

7. Donnie Yen Bubullet said in an advertising interview that in order to maintain a relationship, besides hard work and sweet talk, we should try to be better.

Eight, love is one of the few things that lies not in how much you pay, but in how much you return. Now I understand that what can maintain a relationship for a long time is reserve. Su Qin said, then love someone with all your strength. When love is gone, people are gone. Although I don't admire this view of love from the bottom of my heart, life is so realistic that I have to save my strength to be loved.

Nine, think about it or don't ask, just say what you want. If you don't want to talk, asking is not what I want. I suddenly understood a lot. I feel too tired to maintain a relationship alone. I don't want to take the time to contact actively in the future. I want to be alone and forget those people and things that are too complicated and tired!

Ten, many times it is good to lose a relationship or a friend. It's not that we can't let go, but that we don't want a relationship that we have carefully cultivated to disappear like this, and a friendship that we have carefully maintained is so strange. That's why we should bother and care from time to time. Because with the growth of your age, you gradually realize that no matter how deep your feelings are, they will fade away if you don't contact for a long time, and familiar people will forget if you don't care for a long time.

Eleven, there is no flattery in life, only people who are not worth giving in. In the past, the sunset in the western hills was warm and pleasant. When one day, even if you disappear into the sky, there is no hope of seeing you again tomorrow, because all you are left with is a dark night. The same is true of people, and any relationship needs to be responded. I called Dashan, but Dashan didn't speak; I smile at you and you walk by. We are no longer serious about maintaining a relationship like the ancients.

Twelve, you said it is easy to start a relationship, but it is not easy to maintain a relationship. All right. In that case, there is nothing I can do.

Thirteen, to maintain a relationship, in addition to heart and sweet words, but also strive to become better.

Fourteen, whether it is marriage or love, once there is a problem, it must be that both people have a situation. It takes two to tango. Therefore, if a relationship wants to be happy, it must be maintained by two people. Only when they pay the same amount at the same time will they reap together. Don't say that you want the other person to love you more. How can you make another person pay unconditionally? Don't be silly, earthlings.

Fifteen, whenever you make up your mind to maintain a relationship, there are always all kinds of things! But when you don't care, people always care! I really can't even love!

16. I'm really sorry. Feelings are this thing. I haven't touched it for a long time now. It may be a long period of emotional emptiness and I don't know how to maintain a relationship. Maybe my sudden enthusiasm and indifference make you think I don't like you at all. Causing this misunderstanding will actually make you feel that my character is problematic. I'm confused now. It's hard, too. I know you don't want to talk to me But I hope you can accept my apology.

Seventeen, a relationship must be maintained very hard, then delete each other, thank you. After all, life is so hard, but also tied to people, in order to maintain a favorite relationship, very tired. Although often misunderstood, I never care. Anyway, some people didn't leave when they came. You can leave if you want, and I won't stop you. Whether it's love or friendship, as long as you feel uncomfortable, break up early, which is better than two people playing opposite each other.

At the age of eighteen, you used to be my favorite and most painful woman. I met you at home for five days, and then I had a relationship with you in five days. I just want you to live a good life, love you well and feel that you deserve to love someone. Being loved is very happy, but love will be very hard. Please remember that it is difficult to love someone and maintain a relationship. Keep your temper down and guess once every five days. I think it is worthwhile to do anything.

Nineteen, if the person you meet is right, you certainly don't need to spend so much skill and effort to maintain it. If a relationship requires you to be careful and work hard, you will eventually lose it. Don't make yourself too tired. Too hard love often loses its vitality too easily.

Twenty, you can't maintain a relationship just by relying on love. Besides, there is only one-way pity. Thanks to your determination, my IQ has improved a lot.

Twenty-one, if you want to maintain a relationship, you always need the cooperation and management of two people, and it is never what we think, just like love and friendship. But after being together for a long time, you don't have to ask why or why. Small tacit understanding is particularly interesting ~

22. Everything in the world is not absolutely static, but in relative motion. Everyone is changing. Two people, with different contacts and experiences, have different development directions. Without the original tacit understanding and feelings, love is broken and friendship is weak, which is normal. Two people are not at the same level, so it makes no sense to maintain a relationship.

Twenty-three, I have never learned how to love a person and how to maintain a relationship, so the definition of love is still very vague. I once missed the two best people for me because of my willfulness. If I am lucky enough to meet love again in the future, I will cherish it.

Twenty-four, many people contact you when they need you, and they will not maintain this relationship after contact. Well, I am willing when I think you are a friend, but I can only yawn by purely using the relationship. (I'm not really stupid)

Twenty-five, I have always been a person with high tears. I watched a clip of Say I Love You After Breaking Up. A mosquito's husband learned that mosquito had brain cancer, and a big man lost control and cried, saying that he didn't know how to live with his daughter, and he didn't know why tears rolled unconsciously in his eyes. Yes! No one is perfect. As long as you love enough, you can turn a blind eye to each other's shortcomings. Maintaining a relationship requires enough tolerance and love.

Sometimes I really envy those who can maintain good relationships and think they should all be great.

27. If you don't really love someone and maintain a relationship, no matter how smart and rich you are, you will end up just an empty shell, embracing emptiness.

28. I always feel that I am mature enough to maintain a good relationship, but in the end, there is nothing. If I say that my heart is not empty, impossible, regretful and impossible, there are always some people who don't want to be in it. Maybe this is the love of my school days. It is beautiful and gorgeous, but it is easy to die. When the oath is broken, when the whole life is in the past, we don't even have a chance to smile.

Twenty-nine, you are like an obsession. You can't forget it until you get it. Obviously, you are not who you were then. Although you are still the shining and jumping you I like. I've never been able to maintain a relationship. I'm finding out more and more. So even if you were from the beginning, it's probably the same.

Thirty, maintaining a relationship is like walking on thin ice. I am not a cautious person, and I am not very shrewd. I won't accept and bury anything. It may be a bit difficult to maintain a good relationship, do your duty and do nothing wrong. If I still can't stand it, or complain that I shouldn't do that, I'm in no mood to argue any more. I just want to live a carefree life, I don't want to have a hot face and a cold ass, and I don't want to talk to me.

31. Does a relationship depend on only one person? As long as you like me, that's enough. Can you listen to it all your life?

32. I tried so hard to maintain a relationship that it didn't end well. I can't bear to see the second paragraph again. Suddenly I said I was thinking during the day and dreaming at night. You really left with someone else.

Thirty-three, how do you feel? I can't tell if I feel it. It took a year to maintain a relationship. When you put everything into it, I don't know how long it will take to forget this memory, maybe instantly, maybe forever.

34. I have always believed that any other relationship needs to be maintained except family ties.

35. Is marriage really a grave? A couple, I watched them fall in love and let nature take its course. The embarrassment at the dinner table caused the air to drop to freezing point. Sometimes marriage is not as precious as love. Love is a matter for two people. Marriage is a matter of two big families, involving too many other feelings. Sometimes a partner's negligence can really get a relationship out of that seemingly solid castle. I think responsibility is the best medicine to maintain this relationship.

Actually, I know a lot, but I will tell you very little. There are many things I won't tell you, at least I won't tell you voluntarily. Because, I think, the best conversation to maintain a relationship is me. Of course, I only do this to those who deserve it. I also hope that in your eyes, I am worthy of knowing.

37. No animal can separate two places, but it can maintain a relationship without meeting each other.

I don't have the energy to meet a new person, I don't have the energy to maintain a relationship again, and I can't tell my story over and over again. Any process that takes time to understand or be understood seems to me too tired.

I had a very angry dream. How strong is the relationship that doesn't need to be maintained? There are no feelings that need not be maintained.

Sometimes when a relationship ends, it's not that you don't love it, but that you are tired.

A touch of purple from Zhao Hui appeared in the sky, like a red rose in full bloom.

Second, the sun jumped out of the gray sea, and a small purple flame immediately lit up the dark sky. Behind the bright morning glow, there seems to be endless blue satin.

I said I would never leave in front of you, I said I would never look back even if I left, I said I would never try my tears with my hands again, I said I would never stay where I was even if you left, and I would never say anything again. Everything I said doesn't count, your arms are no longer a harbor in my heart, and those promises are just nonsense.

Some people think that they are being themselves and living freely, but such people are the most annoying. It is often this so-called true temperament person who can't afford to make jokes and is most likely to get angry because of being teased, because low emotional intelligence is often accompanied by low generosity, because it is difficult for them to digest other people's jokes, but they still feel like children, and others have to let them everywhere.

Is there a moment when I saw a familiar figure in the street, and my heart suddenly jumped out of tune until I found myself just a stranger, so all day, my mind was full of memories.

6. Do useful things, say brave words, think beautiful things, sleep soundly, and spend time on progress instead of complaining.

Seventh, I want to know why my Jinse has fifty strings, each with a youthful interval. Zhuangzi daydreaming, a saint, was bewitched by butterflies, and cuckoo crowed in the imperial spring. Mermaids shed pearl-like tears on the moon-green sea, and the blue fields breathed their jade to the sun. A moment that should last forever has come and gone before I know it.

Eight, everyone will inevitably suffer some grievances, and no one can hold his head high forever. Life is not easy. Bow your head when it's time to bow your head. Give in when it's time.

Nine, I don't know what I am doing, and I am keen on it; Hate is missing, smile and disappear.

10. Disappointment has never let me down. Every time it is a serious disappointment, it is better to raise the sand than to hold it.

Eleven, sometimes ending a relationship is not love, but fatigue.

Twelve, we are all wondering whether the other party will miss us. We are all in our hearts, expecting the other party to take the initiative, so we have our own worries. Finally, we are drifting away. 9 beautiful words that are most suitable for friends to sign, each sentence is beautiful and moving.

Thirteen, some people are very happy and spend a whole eternity together in the blink of an eye. Some people are lucky enough to walk hand in hand for a hundred years. Some people work hard, but nothing can change.

Fourteen, there is a tacit understanding called tacit understanding; There is a feeling called wonderful; There is a kind of happiness that is accompanied by you; There is a yearning called longing. May every meteor in the sky shine for you.

Fifteen, I just hope that someone can know that nothing I say is really okay; When I try to smile, someone can know that I am not really happy.

Sixteen, nothing can't be forgotten. I will always forget you in the future, first forget your appearance, then forget your voice and forget what you said. Not now, but later.

Seventeen, if I hadn't met you, if I hadn't fallen in love with you, if I didn't believe it, maybe I wouldn't be who I am now.

Eighteen, it is normal to fall in love and quarrel, and it is normal to break up, but in any case, men should not be disgusted with you. If one day, he hates you for being fat, ugly and all your shortcomings and faults, then he really doesn't love you. Because love is disgusting, that's the end. Everyone's shortcomings have existed from the beginning, so why leave early? Since we love each other, let's tolerate everything.

I hope that one day, when I am lonely, sick and sad, I can miss you less. Well, goodbye. I love you very much. Although I am all thumbs, I have tried and done a lot, so I don't regret it.

Ironically, we pretend to be psychologists in front of our friends, but we can't even solve our own problems.

Twenty-one, you are my dream of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and I am your dispensable person.

Twenty-two, chaos, scattered, everything is over, about love, I am ignorant.

23. Life is like an echo. You pay what you give, you reap what you sow, and you get what you pay.

Twenty-four, everyone hopes to meet someone in the best years, but it is often when they meet someone that they usher in the best years.

Twenty-five, how many people are like fools, waiting for those endings without endings.

Don't confuse my personality with my attitude. My character comes from who I am and my attitude depends on who you are.

Youth is not a period of life, but a state of mind.

1. We should learn to endure the changes of everyone around us. No group is complete. Maybe some people will entertain you occasionally, some people will approach you occasionally, and some people will suddenly hate you. You must bear the inevitable, and you can't change it. Every group has its own life, whether happy or not, rain or shine, so do we. Only by perfecting yourself from time to time and being a good person can you have it.

Happiness in this world is always long-lasting. Yesterday, I vowed to hold a farewell banquet, but I didn't know where there would be a happy boat if I was sad. When Ran Ran woke up, he saw your back, like a sailing boat, making waves and drifting away until it was out of sight. What kind of sadness is that?

No one is a fool. It's just that sometimes, we choose to play dumb and feel the little thing called happiness.

If the person I care about is cold and hot to me, which makes me feel concerned, then I will choose to leave without saying goodbye, because I don't have much patience to taste the feeling of caring. There are too many things we can do in this world, things we can't go back to, things we can't predict in the future, and people we'll never see again. Some people just miss and don't contact; Just pay attention and don't disturb.

Many times, when people are vulnerable, they will become insecure. Without security, they will become sensitive, and then they will be whimsical, especially when they meet things they care about. Therefore, as long as you become independent and weak, you can get inner peace.

6. Girls must cultivate five things: self-confidence in the face, kindness in the heart, backbone in the blood, such as meekness in the breeze and fortitude in life.

7. No one can control your life, but many times we need more courage to make a firm choice.

8. Whether you are waiting or confused, don't leave yourself in the same place. No matter what trouble you encounter, don't embarrass yourself. No matter how bad things happen tomorrow, you shouldn't feel sad. Tomorrow is the oldest day in your future. Because today, tomorrow is always the starting line.

9. Look at the person you love the most with the best person, instead of testing whether the other person can love you with the worst person.

10. If you take fewer detours, you will miss the scenery. Anyway, thank you for your experience.

1 1. The most beautiful emotion in the world is not how good you are, but how good you are to me; The strongest feeling in the world is not that I love you, but that I am used to having you; Mutual dependence is the deepest love.

12. No matter how good a group is, if it doesn't accompany you to the beginning, it is a passer-by. A group has more defects. If it can tolerate you everywhere, accompany you and be self-motivated, that is the best choice. Love needs more sincerity and tolerance.

13. If you really don't know what to do in the future, then do the immediate thing first. As long as tomorrow is better than yesterday, that is to improve. Over time, time will naturally give you an unexpected future. -to you who are confused and hesitant!

14. Do your best when you have time. Try to do what you want to do most, become the person you want to be, and live the life you want most. Maybe we have always been just a big shot, but this does not prevent us from choosing what kind of lifestyle. The world is always more wonderful than you think.

15. When you have the strength to be willful, you won't be willful at all, because you used to be annoying. Life is roughly like this.

16. Everyone is busy with their own joys and sorrows. How can they care about your loneliness?

17. Every time I despair, I do one less thing that I love you, until the initial remarks are changed to full names, I stop paying special attention, I don't automatically look for you online, I put away all your photos, and I don't secretly look at you anymore. It's time to say goodbye Many years later, will you still remember that a group tried to cherish you? -Despair accumulates over time, and parting is a long determination.

18. Yes, time flies and the years are silent. I think words are the only sound. Words are traces of time and a flower that will never bloom in my heart. In the time of Zhan Zhan, I embroidered a time in my life that can never be copied with words. Is to let me look back, let me wander, cry or rejoice at a certain time, and gradually piece together those scattered shadows.

19. Some pressures are always shouldered by themselves, and when they are spoken, they become complaints full of negative energy. Seeking comfort is a drop in the bucket and will only increase the troubles of others. And when you walk through difficulties and obstacles alone, you will definitely thank me for persevering without saying a word.

20. I used to feel that a group was too lonely to do anything, but now I gradually feel that sometimes it is good to be in a group. You can think quietly and do whatever you want without hitting it off. As a group, it is very safe and happy to be with good friends.

2 1. He likes drinking boiled water. You happen to be a bottle of Sprite, and you want to be his favorite, so you try your best to shake off the carbon dioxide in your body, and then look at yourself. You are just a bottle of sweet water without breath. Compared with boiled water, you are sweeter and more greasy, and you are more uncomfortable than soda water. You were not loved by him before, and you still are. As for the people who used to like you, you are not the same as before.

22. The biggest regret is that I can't even say it clearly in person. Maybe a hug can fix it. From the beginning, you are a stranger without any explanation.

23. The world is small, just like the scenery on the street. When we met, you shook your head and omitted all the past events and greetings.

24. It's good to have you. I am safe and warm with you. But your old gentleman called you back. I am an idyllic Hua Xian, and the Queen Mother coldly kicked me out of Chang 'an. You are in heaven, I am on earth, and we will never meet again. In this way, I was lonely all my life, and I was sad season after season. I spread my homesickness all over Chang 'an, and that brilliant red is my heart. Have you seen it?

25. Some training doesn't necessarily make you stronger, but makes you more docile.

26. The older you get, the more comfortable you feel about who you are. If you don't like each other, don't force it. After you don't like me, I have to like you, and I have less and less energy to please others. The same is true of friendship and love.

27. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how persistent you are, no matter how unwilling you are, you will eventually learn to bear it. From crying and complaining to smiling, in the final analysis, this is just a carefree situation.

28. Some people, who have only known each other for a while, seem to have thought about it for a long time and want to tell him everything. Have you ever met such a person?

29. Youth is not a period of life, but a state of mind.

30. The essence of a man is a child. If you think he is mature in front of you, I'm sorry, he doesn't love you.