Gillian's recent photo exposure: only divorced 1 year. How could she be like this? what do you think?

Seeing this evaluation, I suddenly feel that the discussion about female physical anxiety in recent years is very meaningful. People will stop spraying when they see actresses gain weight, and they will be more tolerant of their bodies. This is a development. But I don't want to talk about physical anxiety. I just want to talk about Gillian's situation after her divorce. Some people say that divorce makes people depressed.

But some people say that they think Gillian left once in her marriage, and now she is more relaxed because she wants to understand. Personally, I prefer the latter statement. After all, Gillian has been famous for more than 20 years, and her appearance has always been very good. But no matter how beautiful her face is, it has not removed that timidity. Naked makeup is still very beautiful when it is taken, but I am worried about being seen by everyone.

Everyone was upset before. They have grown into beautiful women. Why do they feel less confident from body language to language movements from beginning to end? Now once people reach middle age and gain weight, they dare to take part in variety shows and present their less beautiful side to all audiences gracefully. I think Gillian has changed and become more and more confident.

Why is Gillian not confident? Just look at her past development and emotional experience. Gillian was born in a divorced family. Her father died when she was 1 years old, and her mother was only 19 years old. She has no idea how to take care of her. After remarriage, she left her pets with different families and friends. Helpless daily life is not sad. In kindergarten and primary and secondary schools, I transferred to school seven times.

Being punished and bullied by relatives and friends, she found an opportunity to tell her mother that her mother didn't believe it at all. In the long run, Gillian feels that it is useless to say it, and she is used to doing things in her heart. Constantly changing residence means separation again and again for children, and marriage with others will also endanger her when she grows up. This experience led to Gillian's lack of security and self-confidence since childhood. Getting along with people also brings a little timidity and worry.

Many people say that she can't chat, is difficult to get along with and has a withdrawn personality. If she is an ordinary girl, maybe she can gradually heal herself in a dull life. But God gave Gillian a look of picking up the ball and put her into the entertainment circle that attracted much attention. Her words and deeds, every move, will be cared for and amplified by others. It was not until the later knocking at the door that she suffered another near-devastating blow.

Wherever she went, she kept apologizing when she mentioned it. In fact, in retrospect many years later, Gillian was also the victim of this incident. Because of lack of self-confidence and timidity, we will try our best to please each other when we are in love, regardless of whether we meet each other's rules or not. On the one hand, this self-confidence is one of the reasons why she left something "black" at the beginning, on the other hand, it is also the reason why she has been unable to walk out all these years.

At the beginning, many people, including many people from Edison Chen, moved forward gracefully to create new homes. But Gillian was trapped inside from beginning to end, which further increased her self-confidence. At one time, everyone asked her what she thought of marriage, and she all said that it was not that she didn't want to get married, but that "no one wanted to marry her" and "no one wanted to marry her" was a kind of self-confidence and dwarfism.

It was not until she met Lai and said that she wanted to marry her that Gillian finally felt that she was "wanted". Therefore, even if Lai Ai is dating a beautiful girl, and even some netizens want to see that two people are not suitable, Gillian is desperate to get married. Gillian is full of gratitude for this emotion and puts her attitude very low. If you are lucky, the lover you meet is a kind-hearted, responsible and dynamic person, which may cure your self-confidence in long-term communication.

On the contrary, it may be a tear on the original regret, which once again consumes its confidence and kinetic energy. Gillian is still unlucky in marriage. Lai Guo Hong didn't make Gillian more confident and have a sense of belonging. Instead, he took advantage of Gillian's humility and played around after marriage. Gillian is still the one who lowers himself in order to be better to each other. In order to give birth to a baby and better prepare for hormonal imbalance during pregnancy, Gillian gained 9 pounds.

However, Lai should not be like a child for the time being, and Gillian later worked hard to improve her figure. I used to joke in the video, and my own exercise was to better him. Gillian said that she didn't want to pay for her own wedding, and the wedding reception was mainly under pressure from Lai. Their wedding reception, among the big-name stars, is also a very humble minority. On the one hand, Lai agreed, on the other hand, he complained on the variety show that he almost shut himself down by paying for the wedding banquet.

Lai gave Gillian a overdraft card without a credit line in order to better show her overall strength, and let her spend it casually. As a result, Gillian went to a large shopping mall for a long time. Lai was scared by the credit card bill and asked to swipe home. Gillian swiped Guo Hong's card, but she just bought them a watch. On the one hand, because of male chauvinism, I am afraid that Gillian will give everything and lose the face of being a husband.

On the one hand, I don't have the ability to work to reach Gillian's consumer market, so I only ask Gillian to save a little. In the long run, even if Gillian earns money and spends it herself, buying a bag depends on her face. In front of the camera, Lai mainly behaves like a husband who devotes himself to Gillian diligently, and Gillian is like a little princess with her head held high. However, behind the camera, Lai had several affairs. He complained about the peach news about online celebrities, complaining that he was too hard with Gillian, and he never really cared about and valued Gillian himself.

The concept of consumption and love is contradictory, the economic strength does not match, and after the emotional passion fades, there are differences in daily life. The marriage of two people ended after two years, and no one was allowed to be surprised. After the two announced their breakup, Lai soon had other beautiful women around him, who looked very free and happy. But Gillian didn't rush into the next relationship, and there were a group of friends who had known each other for many years. Judging from her social media, although she lost her marriage, she is surrounded by a group of friends who have been close for many years.

She was not badly hit by the divorce, but got rid of her paranoia. She had been looking forward to getting married for a few years before, and really realized the past, which was nothing more than that. There is still a long way to go in life. Just keep going. Even if you don't meet the final marriage and feelings, you can gradually smile at life and love yourself in repeated setbacks. These insecurities caused by not loving deeply will eventually be cured by time. what do you think?