Sentences in a bad mood in married life

39. Only by giving true love can you be innocent: if you are worthy of love, you have no regrets. (_ Shen Ying waiter _)

40. People in love are like people in dreams, and they don't know where they are. But if this is a beautiful dream, I hope I won't wake up one day. This is our wish, just as everyone wants all lovers in the world to be good! ! ! (Ice and Snow Yiren)

4 1, time will dilute all your pain! Everyone will have different experiences, which will enrich our lives. (quietly)

42. Learn to be moved by people and things around you. Only with a grateful heart can you know how to love, and life is meaningful. (naive 1976)

43. At that time, the light was shining and China was gone. When the initial passion returned to dullness, I suddenly realized that the safest relationship is not a pledge of eternal love, not a thousand turns, but a mutual affection, and one will accompany me to the end of my life. (Lenglian)

48. Men are sometimes very fragile and lonely inside. Tell him your loneliness and vulnerability, and walk through this journey together. Sometimes they are just children, so be tolerant. Who says men must hold their heads high, and who says men must do their best? Give him a space and time, and also give yourself a sober space and time. (misty rain tea)

49. Women need men's appreciation \ A woman's career is an emotional journey \ A woman's life hut needs men's strong support \ Women usually get love while waiting \ A woman takes taking what she wants before marriage as a rule, and returns the investment after marriage \ In a world of love, the world will become smaller \ A woman's heart is often touched by a man's heart \ It is most difficult for a woman to control a man's sex and heart \ A woman hopes and worries that a man loves clearly. (Floating autumn leaves)

50. In the face of marriage, in the role of family, no matter how to explain, women always sacrifice more than men. People always like to describe it in one sentence: behind a successful man, there must be a good wife. If a man is bored outside, he can go home and vent. It seems natural that people will say that he is under great pressure at work. However, what about modern women? They should do the same work as men, take care of family life, honor their in-laws and parents, and teach each other. The heavy burden of life makes them premature aging and lose the brilliance of youth. At this time, the man succeeded. When he was still outside, there was a big gap between men and women. People began to cherish him. I just want to say that if one day, when you find that your wife is far from you, please think about it. What have you done for her these years? (Ice and Snow Yiren)

5 1, in fact, whether it is pain or sweetness, it is an indispensable experience in the journey of life. No matter whether the road is difficult, happy or sinful, don't forget that the scenery of life is here. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Those who see the rainbow should not forget that there are more beautiful scenery in the distance, but the road will be more dangerous. Go well all the way and cherish every feeling with your heart. This is the real wealth of life. (My address)

52. Women should live a noble life. Personally, I think the strength of an attractive woman is definitely not as simple as attracting a man! As long as you have shining light, men will be attracted. Therefore, women must first be confident, independent and insightful! (Bamboo in the core of the lake)

53. Don't mix sand in your eyes. This is an idealistic idea. When we love our marriage as much as our eyes, the feeling of entering the sand is of course very painful. (Meiere)

54. Marriage is on earth. Marriage is progressing now. It is impossible to simply define heaven or grave. Today is heaven and tomorrow may be grave, but it is still the longest time on earth-that is, plain life! (thousands of words)

55. Marriage is a classroom. If you were an ignorant child before entering the classroom, you will gradually mature after you come. If you have learned luck before you come in, you can play freely here. If you are still passionate before coming in, you should learn to face it calmly after coming in. If you still have flowers and roses before you come here, you should know the daily necessities when you come here. If you are always sweet-talking before you get married, you should know that there are quarrels and forbearance in your life after you come in. If it's just a concern before marriage, then you still have the responsibility and obligation to come here. It is not only a sentence of I love you every day, but also a reminder before going out. Is it still cold in a faint sentence? Some people say that marriage is boiled water without passion, but passion is created by yourself, depending on how you understand it. There is no such thing as a siege. Marriage is the effort of two people to manage marriage. Your efforts may not be rewarded, but people around you will always see and understand. In the classroom of marriage, we still have to learn a lot, such as tolerance, such as giving up, such as indifference. (Slight warm air)

56, optimistic about marriage, marriage is not a paradise, paradise is illusory. Marriage is not a grave, and a grave is lifeless. Marriage is the real life of men and women, and home is the shelter of men and women. Tolerance, humility, concern, humor and romance are all preservatives of marriage, and all the rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea need careful management by both men and women. Plain life, healthy body, stable income, lovely children, what are men and women not satisfied with? (Meiere)

57. How do you face the inevitable shortcomings in your life? You may not escape, you may not be the most uncomfortable face, you may be unhappy when you are alone, you may not get it for a long time, you may not lose it, you may not be the weakest when you turn around, don't rush to say that you have no choice, don't think that there is only right and wrong in the world, and there is not only one answer to many things, so we will always have a way to go. (A girl with a cold heart)

58. Find your own happiness in your own spiritual space ~ ~ Learn to comfort yourself ~ ~ If you think too much, it is better not to think about it ~ ~ Happiness is also a day, and unhappiness is also a day. . . (secular love)

59. Everyone knows that the family needs to run away. Then, the people who form a family should also shape each other. Forming a family is not only the life of two people in a small sense, but also a social responsibility in a big sense. If you can't adapt to and change each other, there is nothing wrong with choosing to break up, but you can't say something irresponsible because of some personal feelings. (Xiao Hanxue)

60. I have always liked Gone with the Wind, especially Ryder's sentence: If something is broken, it is broken. I'd rather remember what it was like before than stick together and stare blankly at those cracks all my life. (Meiere)

6 1, the proportion and mentality between gains and losses, only you know best, others will not understand. You know very well in your heart and you know what you want, so don't go against your heart and let yourself live happily. (tutu _mm)

62. In real life, what we appreciate is a brave man, a broad-minded man, a man who can let go, a man who is in decline, and the same is true on the Internet. (lilacs on rainy nights)

67, the feeling of home is sweet and warm, tired outside, home is a quiet harbor; Children's laughter is a beautiful note at home. I like to cook delicious meals for my family. It feels good to be at home! (Snow is silent)

68. In a beautiful and simple love story, he may not be able to give the girl the whole world, but he can give her everything. In his generous and warm arms, the girl is like a sleepy and lazy kitten, so sweet that she almost doesn't want to breathe. If they get married, he (she) wakes up in the morning, the curtains hanging in the room are slightly opened, the bright sunshine shines obliquely in the whole room, and a faint smell of rice floats in the kitchen. That kind of moist and warm feeling in my heart is called happiness. (My address)

69. Marriage is like a piece of land. It depends on what you want to plant and harvest on this land. It all depends on your labor and cultivation for this land. How can you get good results without hard work? ! (Floating autumn leaves)

It is indeed 80 years old. There should be secrets between two people. It is difficult to be transparent. What's wrong with a white lie as long as you can control yourself? (The world of mortals has grievances)

8 1, everyone is eager to have an eternal relationship, but it requires two people to keep paying and great patience and perseverance to care for it. Falling in love is simple, but getting along is very specific. (My address)

No matter whether others love you or not, you should learn to love and cherish yourself. We must live for ourselves first, so it is most important to live happily. (delicate inside)

83. People always like to use the word "fate" to comfort themselves. What is "fate"? What you hold in your hand is fate. Those who pass by and smile at each other and are thousands of miles apart should not regard it as fate. Fate means that we are still alive and can enjoy every inch and minute given to us by the world. Cherish is "fate". (Hu Yan disorderly feather)

84. I hope to bring happiness to everyone, but I am too ordinary and fragile for me. The only thing I can do is to save innocent people from harm and pain. Therefore, my choice is: give up what doesn't belong to me and shouldn't belong to me. (2 1 1.94.2 17.*)

85. People don't see the harm when they see the benefits, but fish can't see the hook when they see the food. Sometimes we only see the advantages of things and ignore their disadvantages. For example, some old people will exchange their gold jewelry for someone else's gold bars, and when they find out that they have been cheated, it is too late to regret it. Why? It is because of their obsession with money that they suffer. We have to ponder over such a lesson! The cold wind messed up my hair.

88. Love is the eternal theme of works of art-because love is what everyone needs;

Every work contains one or even several vigorous and touching love stories;

Therefore, everyone is dreaming that their love can be unforgettable and unforgettable.

But most of the time, life is calm or even dull, with a pool of water, no waves, colorless and tasteless. ...

It is difficult for us to experience the love we are eager to experience, and that kind of loss is everyone's;

However, the love that can be realized from the plain is the greatest love! (Jinshanke)

93. There is no right or wrong in marriage itself. It always depends on your attitude towards her, what you sow, what you sow and what you bear. (charming young woman)

94. Isn't marriage like a tree in the valley? When the heavy snow of marriage comes, there are conflicts, such as the cedar on Dongpo, whose branches can bend down and shake off the snow on the branches of marriage, so that the tree of marriage can be preserved; However, some branches will not bend, and the tree of marriage will be crushed by heavy snow. In life, the same family often has conflicts. Why do some marriages break down while others are long-term stable? That's the truth. This is called flexibility. (Floating autumn leaves)

95. Love, even abandoned love, warms our hearts and makes our dreams sweeter. Why hate, why complain? The rapid changes in today's society make it difficult for us to recognize and persist in love and face that past love with gratitude. Life is not easy. In a hurry, in a hurry, there was such a wonderful time, and there was such a kind of care and sincerity that accompanied us. We once met and walked hand in hand through a long or short journey. No matter what the reason, we should be grateful. (Snow Day and Winter Love)

96. The love of this life, but not even a trace in the next life. Honey, hold his hand. In the next life, the person around you will no longer be him.

Friend, grasp your happiness, don't let it flow away easily! Know how to cherish and care! (Floating autumn leaves)

Cherish what you have, maybe what you long for will be boring after you get it. In fact, plain is also a kind of beauty. There is nothing better than having a happy and stable home, not to mention that your other half loves you. (Snow is silent)

98. You should learn to taste loneliness. Please remember: even if you are lonely, there must be someone like you in the dark night sky in the distance. Lonely people are different, but the starry sky you look up at is unique. (The Thorny Rose 2004)

99. In fact, happiness is around you! When you go shopping tomorrow, take a different road. It's best to let you walk for 30 minutes and enjoy the scenery on the roadside. I think you will feel the joy of buying food! Sometimes if you change your lifestyle properly, you will find that your mood will be very different! (Toothless Tiger)

100 Both men and women want to be friends with each other. How does the abandoned party accept it? Even if you accept it, you are only trying to deceive yourself. After all, you have paid so much, everything has changed at once, and life has completely broken the rules. Suddenly I don't know how to continue my life. The original beautiful vows are gone, how can people not hate them? Is the so-called love-hate relationship. Some people say that a person really loves only once, but I want to say that I really hate only once in my life. (resistance)

10 1, in the process of a relationship development, mutual supervision and encouragement become the help of each other's continuous growth, and this process of love is a kind of acquisition. This acquisition includes psychological maturity, intellectual temperament and outlook on life, which can give you a happy, safe and peaceful mentality. : (Gardenia 00)

102, everyone will breed irritability, melancholy and sadness. It is the most common but ineffective practice to rely on others for comfort every day. Only by adjusting the mentality can we activate the whole body's happiness. (Floating autumn leaves)

103, when you are helpless, you will give up everything. Incompetent people have no choice, ignorant people don't know what to give up and what not to give up, and persistent people will never give up what they pursue and deserve to be persistent (Aojia).

104, for some romantic women, a stable and happy married life sometimes becomes the bondage of silence and boring pressure on her. Once the passion factor is injected, she can't help but throw herself into it. The spark ignited by passion may light up her life, but it may also destroy all of her. Even after the incident, if you want to get peace by luck, the knot in your heart is often entangled. (It is better to be defective.

109, my husband is the most beautiful person in the world. He knows how to kiss, love, beat and scold, and rely on him. Husband and wife are the most beautiful relationship and an unbearable luxury in life. The meaning of life is to appreciate happiness, suffering, dedication, love and affection, as well as having and getting. If there is an afterlife, I still choose to join hands with you for life.

1 10, from acquaintance to love to besieged city, from running-in period to habit, we should experience the shortcomings of both sides on the basis of family affection, tolerance and tolerance. Since everyone has changed for each other, why not let the habit continue? (Mulberry beard)

1 1 1, if you have feelings worth cherishing, please respect yourself. -Tell that girl.

If you can't dress the woman you love, please stop your unbuttoning hand. -Tell the boy (faint smell of tobacco)

1 12, love is really beautiful and great. If both sides love each other and are in the right place at the right time, then why don't we bless each other? (agricultural materials)

1 13, online dating can be said to be arrogance to unmarried people and longing for beautiful dreams; For married people, under the condemnation of responsibility, morality and conscience, bow their heads and lick bleeding wounds. Unless you seek your love regardless of morality and responsibility, your wound will still exist. Your heart will still ache faintly. (2 18.59.8.*)

1 14, human life is very short. As a woman, she can't just live for a man and her children. In order not to let her only life be wasted, everyone should show a little value in life, stand on their own feet among others, establish a little self-awareness, and put aside family, love, career and family when necessary. What do you want to do when you come to this world, what should you do, and what should you let go forever. If a person forgets himself blindly and is immersed in a meaningless pain and sorrow, he is so ignorant and stupid that all people can only look down on you. As long as you change your way of thinking and look at your present situation from the perspective of an outsider, what a despicable person you are. Your pain may afflict not only yourself, but also your relatives and friends, and you will feel sad, sad and regretful for your ignorance. (6 1. 178. 169.*)

1 15, life is a stage, once you get on the stage, you can't quit. We can make mistakes, but we shouldn't let them continue! The scene of life is too short, why let yourself suffer in this short life. The biggest hurdle in life is yourself and yourself! Have perseverance, but don't be paranoid! Women are not weak, but flexible! Where did you meet?

1 16, for a person's emotional experience, the most precious thing is of course love. But the kind of eyes that are not enough to be considered as love, hazy and unable to be fully understood by others, and the emotional band transmitted through subtle telepathy actually has a more permanent and beautiful luster than love. Love is something that begins to die once spoken, but once understood, it has no poetry; She is like a mist between two peaks, like a cloud in the blue sky. The fog is beautiful, the clouds are light and the sky is high. (Jinshanke)

1 17, what is happiness? Happiness is now, before everyone's eyes. For example, now, I am sitting quietly in my room, chatting with my favorite netizens, writing what I want to write and reading my favorite articles. Isn't it a kind of happiness? (Xin Yan)

1 18, love is a feeling, a feeling of seeing your heart beating and leaving your heart aching. Love is a beautiful dream, a dream that makes you in a daze. Everything seems to be true or false. Love is an experience, an unforgettable experience in this life. Love is fireworks, extremely gorgeous but short-lived. Love is a kind of responsibility, a kind of responsibility that makes you willing, but extremely heavy. Love is a wound, a deep wound, which will never really heal. Love is a kind of selfishness, a kind of selfishness that does not tolerate others and does not hesitate to possess it by any means. Love is a kind of happiness, a kind of heartfelt happiness that outsiders can never really understand. (Snow Mountain Flying Rabbit)

1 19, in the internet age, who said that id is not true? Id exists more truly in spiritual life than colleagues, classmates and friends around. The clash of ideas, the discussion of current events and the exchange of emotions are all pieces. When you are lucky enough to occupy the "sofa", express your opinion with "chance" and ask what "pork" GG "porridge" is. Congratulations, you are a firm follower of the Internet age, and backwardness does not belong to you, at least in form. People who have never met before gather here, as if to filter out 80% doubts in reality. "It's a bunch of soul whispers", soul collision, spiritual fit and emotional sharing. So what's wrong with trust? (A faint smell of tobacco)

120, only the most thirsty people know the sweetness of water best. Travelers from the desert know the taste of water best. At noon in the scorching sun, farmers are busy farming and sweating like rain. Water is the most precious thing for them. When a shepherd comes down from the mountain and is thirsty, if he can lie by the river and have a big drink, he is the sweetest person who knows water best. No matter who has never tasted thirst, he will never enjoy the sweetness of water.

12 1, happiness is different in everyone's feelings. Husband and wife grow old together, taking Qi Mei as an example, is a kind of happiness; Two of a kind, mutual commitment is a kind of happiness; The ends of the earth, knowing each other and remembering each other, is also a kind of happiness. Love is just a word, but it needs us to practice it all our lives. If you and I have the heart, love will last forever (the love of my life)

122, ethics is always a rule that people should abide by! Since the world has its own civilization, it has been bound by morality and ethics! Although the world is not peaceful, it is an individual after all! However, it is undeniable that human beings have been advocating the moral concepts of the civilized world! Imagine that without ethics, the world would be more 9 1 1 and more cruel! And there must be no happiness in the ordinary! You can do whatever you want without wanting anything! (Jia)

123, women's life needs are rich, so women should learn to create many support points, not just men, but also their own things, friends and hobbies. Once one of them collapses, we can support ourselves from other parts, all in order to make our life better. (The soul is guilty)

124, it will be dull after every love, so it will be more difficult to give up. Give up, give up, and you will get it. For a woman, the most important thing is to find someone who loves you the most. Give up the same pendulum. Don't think it's because of his conscience that you waver. If you are really together, you will find out how your love was eroded by your previous marriage. Instead of becoming a stranger in the future.

125, the pursuit of life should be thought, ability and career, instead of wasting time on choosing the opposite sex, sending yourself into the whirlpool of feelings, hurting others and hurting yourself! You can choose whatever you like before you get married. Once you have it, you should try your best to stick to it until the end. In marriage, men are a part of life, not for comparison and choice.

126, trust is the deepest wisdom, but why don't people trust it? Because I don't believe in my wisdom, I am afraid of being cheated. Because I'm afraid I have doubts. Doubt comes from fear. A part of human intelligence feels insecure, so people have doubts, are not so sure that they can be trusted, and do not think that they can be trusted. Trust needs a lot of wisdom and courage, the investment of the whole person and the heart of the world of trust. (Snow Mountain Flying Rabbit)

127, there are many things to be thankful for in life, but we pay too much attention to the success of others and forget that happiness is in our own hands. Take a careful inventory, each of us is not poor, and we should embrace every ordinary day in life with gratitude.

Life is like this, you should know how to cherish and be grateful. (Floating autumn leaves)

128, the so-called love is just two lonely hearts, and the sparks that collide are just fleeting. What can last is only a responsibility, an obligation to be responsible for each other. Love is just a feeling, and her destination is marriage. If she has no home, then she is just a feeling.

The purpose of marriage is only for two people to live better. If not, they would rather choose loneliness. (Shimizu Yalan)

129, love is not only to give passionately, but also to understand each other silently. Only by pitying each other in our hearts can we keep our affection from fading. (Qingyanshu)

130, each of us is lonely sometimes, so there are so many complaints and feelings. In fact, the wonder of life is that it breeds happiness in dullness and frees it from loneliness; Give yourself a happy reason, an indifferent attitude.

Change the angle, change the way of thinking, change the position. In fact, life is wonderful everywhere, and we are all the happiest people!

As long as you live, there is no reason to be unhappy! (faint sadness)

13 1, no one has walked the road of life, and it is inevitable that there will be mistakes or wrestling. Men make women grow, and women make men grow. Only by experiencing each other can we grow up, but this is a painful price to pay. Look at your woman with a mature attitude, and you may find that women are actually the same. If you can't treat love maturely, no matter how many women you pursue, you won't get the perfect "goddess" in your heart. Look at your man with a mature attitude, and you may find that men are actually the same. If you can't treat love maturely, no matter how many men you accept, you won't get the perfect "prince" in your heart. (True love is rare)

132, as far as marriage is concerned, belongs to the category of social behavior. In this regard, there are many pathological ethical phenomena. Love and marriage have different meanings. The former represents happiness, while the latter represents responsibility. Is there any connection between the two? Many problems in social imagination, such as "extramarital love" and "keeping mistresses", are always inseparable from morality and ethics. So where does "morbid" come from?

It is normal to have the consciousness of "extramarital love", but what is morbid is to make behavior and this conscious recognition! This is the fall of human nature! Because when ethics and desire conflict, who is closer to instinct is often more dominant, so human beings often make a very pathological position on marriage. Just like the phenomenon that chopsticks bend in water, there is nothing wrong with sensibility. What is wrong is that we have made a rational judgment that chopsticks change from straight to curved.

In fact, how to control these declining and morbid emotional impulses requires the existence of "ethics". Although I mentioned earlier: instinctive desire is irresistible. But there are still so-called constraints, so there is a "split." Nietzsche once pointed out that it is a kind of' split' for ascetics to live in life but deny it. They suppress themselves to resist the pressure of instinct. It can be seen that "division" is produced in contradiction and confrontation, and Nietzsche's view is the principle of "looking in the mirror". The mirror can reflect the appearance of things, but not the image of life.

Zhuangzi pointed out the viewpoint of "freedom" in an article "Zhuangzi Xiaoyao Tour": "People and everything are not free as long as they are restricted." The concept of "free will" is also mentioned in the Christian Bible. These are in conflict with today's social ethics, which is the root of' division'.

Nietzsche also pointed out (time): "Time is the uncontrollable pain of life. The weakness of the weak is that the flow of time is a burden to them, because the weak separate themselves from time. So I feel that time has eroded and punished myself. " This is division, this is the decline of vitality!

When we don't believe in a thing or phenomenon, we just don't understand the reason for it. But why do we believe in the existence of pyramids that we have never seen before? Because others have witnessed it and we have never denied it. Augustine, the philosopher of God, pointed out: "I believe what you have not seen is faith. And the reward of faith is to let you see what you believe. " Indeed, what you understand and believe, such as the existence of the Pacific Ocean and the Himalayas. However, we believe in God, but do we know the existence of God? We don't know the existence of God, but we believe in God, so' believing' and' understanding' split, which is the decline of faith! We believe in the truth of Pythagoras theorem because we understand it, but we believe in the power of God but don't understand it.

In the chapter "Evolution of Eugenics" in Kurt Baltz's Gene Theory, Plato, Kampala and Nietzsche respectively put forward "National Eugenics Plan" and "Reproduction Strategy" which is almost utopian and lacks moral pedigree. In an attempt to unify the world into a militaristic world, superior races have always existed and inferior races have been eliminated. This is the dividing line between genetic ethics and inevitability, and it is the decline of natural existence and political system.

God gave human beings' free will', but human beings abused freedom, so they ended up trapped in' sin'! (Beijing Lao Xue)

133, marriage reality. Women should go out of the hall and into the kitchen. Not living in the air. ( 2 18.57.2 10.* )

If water lacks passion, especially for women, a mother's daily life is busy with her children and family besides work. Without my own space, my husband's sweet words are gone when he is in love After a long time, it seems that women should do this. In fact, there is a woman who doesn't love her family or her husband.

136, extramarital affairs are like a rich picnic in the suburbs, full of all kinds of delicious food, but doomed to be shattered by a little setback in real life. Although marriage is not the only purpose of love, leaving the harbor of marriage, love is just a set of vows, a farce composed of a series of tears, destined to end in tragedy. (Bodhi grass)

137, how many times can a woman suffer this kind of injury in her life? How many times can a person's heart be broken? Betrayal may be just a normal life need in men's eyes, but it is unfair that they base their happiness on the promise of always taking care of women's pain! (resistance)