Mother-in-law is grumpy, bitter and always makes trouble, and her wife always stands on her side. ...

Well, every family has a hard time, brother. I think you should try your best to save your marriage for the sake of children. After all, the child is innocent. In fact, I don't approve of being with the elderly and living separately after marriage. Once we are together, there will be many things. Judging from your words, your daughter-in-law is a person who listens to her parents. To put it bluntly, what her parents said is always right in her heart. If so,

Civil mediation is generally useless. After all, only you and your wife know best. I think you should take your daughter-in-law back and talk to her. Tell her to think about it, too Don't talk about it in her house. She won't listen when her parents are around!

Attention, if you have something to say, don't swear and don't do it! No matter what she says or does, we are all gentlemen and can't be like them!