I've always wondered. How does a child feel his mother around?

How do children feel the mother's first newborn baby and tell who is the mother and who is the relative by smell? When he is hungry, only his mother will hold him, won't cry, and will always drill into his mother's arms.

When the second baby sleeps, his mother sleeps well around him, because he can smell his mother and feel safe, so he sleeps soundly.

Third, some babies are full and fall asleep. When you put them on the bed, she will wake up soon. This is because she can't smell her mother and won't wake up until she feels safe. (It may also be urine. )

Fourth, some children sleep when they are full, and sleep soundly in bed without company. How can I put it? Everyone's personality is different, and so are children. Their personality and early environment are different. If the child has been brought up by the mother since birth, and others rarely touch the child, then the child will rely on the mother. And after some children are born, the whole family is mobilized. Grandpa and grandma will come to see the hug today, and uncle and aunt will come to hug tomorrow, aunt? Mom, there are always different people hugging him all day. I'm used to it. Anyone can hug him, as long as I have enough to eat and drink.

Fourth, people will wake up after a certain period of sleep. This is what the biological clock does. For example, adults get up at 7 o'clock every day when they go to work. If you suddenly take a long day off, you turn off the alarm clock and wake up at 7 o'clock the next day. This is the role of the biological clock, adults and children alike. Of course, I don't know much about babies, but when adults get up in the morning, the baby wakes up soon. This is the smell of my mother mentioned above. She woke up without smelling her mother. This is a safe reaction in infancy.

To sum up, the way to identify people in infancy is smell. They can tell who is the mother and who is the father from the smell. Therefore, when the baby sleeps, the mother is around, not around. She analyzes the smell and then passes it on to the subconscious. When he doesn't smell his mother, the subconscious will force him to wake up.

Children, after birth, begin to establish conditioned reflex. Generally, many synaptic connections were successfully established in 15 days, and the synaptic connections at the full moon were 20 times that at birth.

15 days established many conditioned reflex. But some conditioned reflex has been generalized.

For example, every time he wakes up, someone picks him up and feeds him. 15 days, he didn't know if his mother was hugging him, and kept looking for nipples with his mouth open. No matter who hugs his parents, uncles and aunts, he is the same.

Usually three months, conditioned reflex differentiation, that is, know your mother clearly. Only when mom hugs her will she go to the chest to find nipples to eat. Don't look for nipples when others hug you. Don't eat other people's milk. I knew it wasn't mom.

I have no milk. I'm not holding it to feed it. As long as he puts the nipple of the bottle in his mouth when he is lying down, he will suck.

Every time I wake up, I change diapers, lie down, wait a while, and then feed.

Sometimes deliberately ignore him, he probably thinks that no one cares about him, so he closes his eyes and shouts, that is, there is only sound, no tears.

Turn your head, lift your mouth, cry if you can't find it, and look for it again. Today is the full moon. Please be patient when you hear my voice.

Before the full moon, you can distinguish sounds. Usually after the full moon, I don't cry when I hear familiar voices! Just wait patiently for a while!

So, it doesn't matter whether mom is here or not. If you feed milk powder, it makes no difference to anyone. But from birth, it is best not to change it casually. No replacement or milk powder. Changing people for milk powder will lead to inadaptability. So in the second month, the mother will feed it after the full moon, and the child may not adapt. The children are noisy, the mother is tired, and everyone is uncomfortable!

Speaking of complementary food, if the mother was born without milk. Milk powder can also be regarded as a complementary food.

People's growth, development and repair can generally be said to be a cycle of one month. For example, ordinary surgery can remove the incision in seven days and grow it in one month.

So when the child is full moon, he will eat milk for one month. If he sleeps well, all organs, including the digestive system, will grow well. Add egg yolk and completely absorb it normally. So my child adds an egg yolk every day when the moon is full. Also add water, fruit juice and puree, and it will become egg soup and rice porridge in four months. At the age of one, it was basically meat porridge and vegetable porridge.

Note that if the child doesn't sleep well, that is, he wakes up every 3-4 hours in the next month and sleeps for two hours or less at a time, such a child belongs to sub-health. There may be something wrong with the yolk!

Four months of egg soup for dinner. I am weaned. Weaned, this weaned, don't even drink milk powder. Eat only egg custard and rice porridge. Fruit juice, fruit pulp. At that time, he lived in a single dormitory. His father buys some small fish every day, stews them in the laboratory and feeds them to the children. Sleep for eight hours at night! Children's good sleep is beneficial to the development of their nervous system.

Egg custard should be more nutritious than milk powder. Because it contains protein, cephalin and lecithin which are more and more easily absorbed. It is easy to make. Stir and steam eggs with water. Adults are not tired, children grow well!

In the second month, as long as the children are full, they will sleep for a while after filming. I can hardly hold it. The child fell asleep by himself. It's full moon, so I played by myself for a while, and then I fell asleep by myself!

So it's wrong to sleep only after hearing the heartbeat! It's just that some people are used to hugging and don't sleep without hugging. One is a habit problem, which may be a sub-health problem! .

Someone saw a couple in Xinjiang who added various complementary foods as soon as their children were born. Results There were many stones in the children of several months old.

Xinjiang couples added various complementary foods when they were born, but did not say whether they had egg yolk. I didn't say anything, and I can't prove that the full moon with egg yolk is right!

But my experience in feeding my son proves that children who eat egg yolk at full moon are healthy and smart!

Some people say that they dare not add egg yolk to the full moon, but they don't deny that a baby is the same. How to feed it is appropriate, as long as the baby is healthy and smart!

Scientific feeding is very important. Adding egg yolk, one is to promote defecation, the other is to promote the development of nerve fiber myelin sheath, which is beneficial to the development of nervous system and is beneficial and harmless from physiology and nutrition. Full-moon children of normal healthy people are fully capable of digestion and absorption!

The key to scientific feeding is not to think that the digestive system of healthy full-moon children is so weak!

In the eyes of some people, it is unscientific not to listen to pediatricians. No independent thinking, scientific flexibility! I have been talking about human physiology for 30 years. I have just been a teacher for three years. After giving birth to a child, think independently according to the specific situation, and form your own feeding method without milk. I didn't expect to be sprayed by many ignorant people. It feels ridiculous!

I remember watching a video in which a foreign boy died when he was a baby. Her mother donated her heart to a middle-aged man. The little boy has been crying because he lost his mother's care, and many people can't stop him from coming to comfort him. Doctors and nurses, the elderly, young mothers and pregnant expectant mothers can't bring a sense of security to the baby. It was not until the man who accepted his mother's heart appeared that the baby stopped crying and began to touch the man's face and show a happy smile.

It was the mother's heartbeat that calmed the little boy down.

When my son was young, he liked to be held on his chest by adults. Just make his body completely fit for an adult's body. In that case, he can sleep peacefully for several hours. You don't have to be hugged by your mother. As long as the posture of his family is right, he is quiet and enjoys it. I think it is the steady heartbeat of adults that makes him feel safe.

Since childhood, as long as someone sleeps with him, he can always lie quietly and make no noise. If an adult gets up and moves, he can't sleep well.

Now he has gone to school, but he used to sleep on my arm before going to bed at night. When he falls asleep, he will go back to his pillow. I wonder if the pulse has reassured him.

For younger children, the smell of the mother is of course very important. But after weaning, some subtle movements of the mother will also bring different psychological induction to the child. I think it's the same whether people or experts call for mom's emotional stability. When the mother's mood is stable, the heartbeat, breathing and pulse will be stable, and the child will feel safe and feel more concerned and happy.

No professional knowledge, just personal experience and opinions. I hope I can help you.

A child is just born, and then you hug him or you smile at him, he will feel good, and the child can judge whether you are happy or sad by your facial expression.

Every woman will be pregnant after marriage, and her body will change greatly after pregnancy. There will be nausea at first, which is a normal pregnancy reaction. /kloc-After pregnancy in October, the mother gave birth to the baby smoothly, so can the newborn feel the mother?

The newborn baby will also feel the mother's oh, when the baby is in the belly, the mother often talks to the baby, and the baby will feel it. Sometimes the baby is crying, and it doesn't matter how the rest of the family coaxes him. As long as the mother holds it, the baby stops crying, which means that the baby can already tell which one is the mother, and only the mother can give the baby a sense of security.

Some babies have guests at home, and they want to hug their babies, and they will show very resistant movements. If you hug the baby forcibly, the baby will cry immediately. As long as the mother brings the baby here, the baby will become very good. These reactions of the baby prove that he can tell which one is the mother, and the mother exudes a maternal love breath that others don't have.

The baby grows up day by day and changes every day. It is also a very happy process for a mother to accompany her baby. When the baby is very young, although he can't express it in words, he can also tell his mother in his own way that he knows the existence of his mother and whether she has a sense of accomplishment.

Hello, I'm @ Mi Bao's father, and I'm glad to answer your question.

Before studying preschool children's psychology, I thought that babies, even fetuses, have always been mysterious, but since studying children's psychology, I have understood the meanings of many babies' behaviors, languages and expressions, which is ok.

1. Can the fetus hear when the mother is in the belly? In the sixth month of pregnancy, the vision and hearing of the fetus have begun to play a role. The recording of fetal brain by magnetoencephalography (MEG) shows that the fetus can already respond to auditory stimuli. Even more amazing, Meg also found that the fetus can actually distinguish different sounds.

2. Can the newborn recognize the mother's voice? Studies have found that within a few hours after birth, babies' hearing can reach the level of adults' cold. This shows that newborns have the ability to distinguish the volume, duration, direction and frequency of sound. There are several studies that can prove how babies recognize their mothers' voices:

3. Can babies "smell their mothers"? Babies are born with a preference for smells. For example, the smell of bananas or chocolates can make babies look relaxed and happy, while the smell of rotten eggs can make babies frown. Four days after the baby is born, breast-fed babies prefer the smell of their mothers' breasts.

In short, babies can feel their mother's presence through smell and hearing. Therefore, we don't look at babies, they know a lot!

I'm @ Mi Bao's father, a Canadian father who focuses on children's psychology. I share the dry goods of parenting psychology every day!

I think there is a mysterious sixth sense or a unique smell! Tell me about my own real experience. When my son was four years old, he shared a bed with us. Occasionally wake up in the middle of the night, he will stand quietly at the door of our dormitory. Every time he comes, I will wake up at once, no matter how deep he sleeps. It's really strange!

I think it's a feeling, and it's also the unique breath of children to their mothers.

When a child is still in the womb, two lives are connected by an umbilical cord. When the child is born, the mother sleeps, the mother feeds, the mother hugs, and the baby snuggles in her arms, feeling the unique breath of the mother. This smell gives children a sense of security. No matter what the child is doing, as long as it smells like this, she will know it is her mother.

This is the unique breath of children to their mothers, and it is a magical existence.

Newborns feel the existence of their mothers through their sense of smell and hearing when their eyesight is not perfect. The sense of smell can be familiar with the smell of the mother, and the sense of hearing can feel the mother's voice and heartbeat.

When the mother is around, the familiar smell and sound will give the baby a sense of security, especially the baby who is with her mother most of the time will need her company more.

When the baby's vision development is relatively mature, that is, when the baby is about 4 or 5 months old, you can use your eyes to get to know the mother who is already familiar with it.

When the baby can distinguish the mother's face from other people's faces, the baby will begin to recognize strangers.