Sister-in-law quarreled with her mother. What should I do?

Stop fighting and don't take sides. Talk to both sides afterwards and try to reconcile their contradictions. As an aunt, if you can do the following, I believe your family will get along well.

First, less competition and less jealousy. Many women want to have a brother, so that they can protect themselves and have a "opposite sex" who will never abandon themselves. But this idea can only be limited to before my brother got married. Brother was yours before he got married. You can be spoiled and cute, but you can't have this idea after your brother gets married.

You can't compete with your sister-in-law. I think my brother is better than your sister-in-law. It's not good for my brother to choose you or his wife if he has something to do! After all, your sister-in-law is the one who will accompany your brother for life. You should be coquettish to your husband. That's right!

Second, be less picky and worry less. At home, don't pick fights easily, turn small problems into big contradictions and finally get out of hand. Don't create conflicts if you have nothing to do, because it is not good for your sister-in-law. You know, you are actually embarrassing your brother. He has loved you since he was a child. Do you have the heart to embarrass him?

Third, less gossip and less comparison. Sometimes women just like to compare with each other, but they should distinguish between occasions. In my brother's house, we should pay attention to what we should say and what we should not say. Don't compare my sister-in-law with my brother's ex-girlfriend. My sister-in-law can't stand such injustice no matter how old she is. Don't just say that my sister-in-law's cooking is terrible, and the clothes she wears are not beautiful, and none of them are beautiful.

Fourth, less fanning the flames, less ignition. Be measured when you meet something, and don't forget your identity. When brothers and sisters even have conflicts with their parents and sisters-in-law, don't fan the flames, it will only make things worse. You either ignore them or try to calm them down. This is the "wise move".

Five, less interference, less trouble. It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. It's good to handle things in your own home. Don't always reach into other people's homes, even your own brother. Less comments, less comments on the right and wrong of elder brother's sister-in-law's family. Don't bother your sister-in-law every time you encounter a little problem.

Home is a place to talk about love, and you should be good at convincing people by reasoning. The best state is the independence of a small family. Usually, the young couple often take their children home.