Don't marry a man whose children are awarded to his ex-wife.

Don't marry a man whose children are awarded to his ex-wife

Don't marry a man whose children are awarded to his ex-wife. In our life, many couples will divorce even if they have children, which leads to such a high divorce rate. Many men live alone with their children. Let me take a look at men who don't marry their children to their ex-wives. Don't marry a child to a man who married his ex-wife. 1

First, a man must have bad conduct and ideological problems.

In marriage and on the road of life, not everyone is a good person; Because of good and bad, after living together, you can be clear and clear; If a person's character is not good, then in marriage, he will definitely do something that is sorry for his lover; If a person has a problem with his thoughts, then he can't manage his marriage well; So in the end, it will cause the marriage to break down and the lover to leave; Women, in particular, must polish their eyes when looking for a life partner.

As a woman, don't marry a man whose children are awarded to his ex-wife; Because the child was awarded to his ex-wife, it is conceivable that the breakdown of marriage must be a problem for the man; A man must have betrayed his wife and done something sorry for his wife; This kind of man has a bad conduct and a problem with his thoughts; If a woman marries such a man again, it is conceivable that a man will certainly do something that betrays you in the future; Therefore, when a woman marries, she must understand clearly; Because marrying a man with bad conduct is a lifelong disaster for you.

Second, men are too selfish and only live for themselves

Divorce has become a very normal thing; Many couples will end up divorced if they don't speculate in three words; Divorce is normal, but in the process of divorce, you can see a person's character; Some people will not want their own children after divorce; Because I don't love my lover in my heart, I don't want the child that my lover gave me; Such people are not only selfish, but also hurt others mercilessly; All he thinks about is himself, and other people, he doesn't care at all, and he doesn't care whether others are hurting or not.

As a woman, don't marry a man whose children are awarded to his ex-wife; If a man divorces his ex-wife, there is nothing wrong with the man, but the man does not fight for the custody of the child, but lets the woman take the child away; Then it can be said with certainty that such a man has no ability to raise children, or he just cares about himself and lives too selfish; If a man is too selfish, it is impossible to treat a woman sincerely; Therefore, if a woman chooses such a man, then a man will calculate you all his life; You can't have a happy life, and you can't have a happy life!

Third, men are cruel enough to be cruel to anyone.

Every woman wants to marry a kind man and a good man. No woman is willing to marry a cruel character; A kind man, no matter what he does, can't be cruel, because he has a kind heart; And a woman, if she marries a vicious character, will live a miserable and desperate life. Because men can't give women a good life, and as long as women annoy men, men will treat women mercilessly and repair them.

As a woman, don't marry a man whose children are awarded to his ex-wife; Because a man doesn't even want his own children, it is conceivable how cruel he is in his heart; It is said that tiger poison doesn't eat children, but men don't even want children, which is more cruel than tigers; If a woman marries such a man, then the man will certainly treat her cruelly and mercilessly; This runs counter to the purpose of women marrying, because when women marry men, they want to be hurt, spoiled and loved by men; However, marrying such a man will only be painful for a lifetime.

Don't marry a man whose children are awarded to his ex-wife; First of all, men must have bad conduct and problems with their thinking. Otherwise, men can't even win the custody of their children in the end. Secondly, if men voluntarily don't have children, it shows that men are too selfish, and it can also show that men are unable to raise children, so such men are not worthy of women's entrustment at all; Finally, men don't want children, which shows that men are cruel enough. Men are so heartless to their children, so how can they treat women well? Don't marry a child to a man who married his ex-wife. 2

Some people say that a man who has been divorced once has experienced a growth. After the marriage is broken, you will know that it is not easy and know how to cherish it. Therefore, I will be more cautious when I enter the next marriage, and I will cherish my next wife more.

It is also said that some men who have been divorced once will be obsessed with their ex-wives, and some will be confused because of their children. Especially a second-married man who has children will not put his love on you wholeheartedly, and he will always be his child in his heart. Moreover, it is difficult for a stepmother to get along with her children, and it is not certain whether she can become a Buddha after going through eighty-one difficult.

Xiaowei's current boyfriend is divorced and has a three-year-old daughter who is raised by his ex-wife. When I first started chasing Xiaowei, I spent a lot of time, picking up and dropping off almost every day, and changing tricks to coax Xiaowei to be happy. Xiaowei feels that he has found a treasure, and men who have had a failed marriage know more about hurting people. But after a period of time, my boyfriend becomes less time-consuming. He often visits his daughter, which is understandable. It is strange that he is his own child.

But then things went further and further. He will often have dinner at his ex-wife's house to accompany his daughter. Many times, I clearly made an appointment with Xiaowei, but I temporarily broke the appointment on the grounds of accompanying my daughter. Xiaowei felt uncomfortable, and the two began to have some small disputes. Once Xiaowei was sick, and the whole person was very uncomfortable. I hoped that my boyfriend could accompany me. My boyfriend said that he had an appointment with his ex-wife to take the children to the amusement park and left without her.

What makes Xiaowei collapse most is that her boyfriend often contacts his ex-wife, and the content is not limited to children. Xiaowei peeked at her boyfriend's WeChat, and his ex-wife often asked him to be caring and attentive. He also responded enthusiastically. The two had frequent interactions and intimate words, revealing a tendency to renew the old love. Xiaowei questioned her boyfriend, and the answer given by her boyfriend was that it was all for the children. If she was not enthusiastic about her ex-wife, she wouldn't let him see the children.

In this relationship, Xiaowei was exhausted and exhausted because she found a boyfriend with an ex-wife.

So many people say, never marry a man with an ex-wife, let alone a child. But after all, the situation like Xiaowei is only part of it. Not all men with ex-wives have criminal records, and they can't handle the relationship with their ex-wives. Whether you can marry a man with an ex-wife depends on these points.

First, look at this man's attitude towards his ex-wife.

some marriages may be ugly when they leave, and the marriage relationship will be dissolved after all kinds of involvement and tearing. So the man indignantly slandered and smeared his ex-wife, complained as a victim, and put his ex-wife in an unkind and unjust position in public opinion. This kind of man is too narrow-minded and has no tolerance. If you look at his attitude towards his ex-wife, you can imagine what he will do to you in case you have conflicts in the future.

After a divorce, a man can maintain due respect for his ex-wife, and it is at least decent not to raise himself by slandering the other side.

In another case, some men cling to their ex-wife after divorce, comparing you with your ex-wife everywhere, and having an affair with his ex-wife under the guise of children. This is even more unacceptable. I've seen a case in which a man rekindled his old love with his ex-wife when his current wife was pregnant after his second marriage. Finally, the current wife couldn't stand the divorce, and the man remarried with his ex-wife.

Second, men's sense of responsibility.

Does a man actively help you to integrate into his family? When encountering difficulties, can he face with you? In dealing with family relations, will he think of you from your point of view and balance the previous family?

Can it serve as a good bridge between children and you? When there are contradictions and disputes, we can treat them impartially and fairly, rather than blindly maintaining them. Take the side of the child and accuse you of not caring about the child.

or just for your own convenience, find someone to marry and take care of your children. After getting married, I leave the responsibility of taking care of the children to you, regardless of myself, and I only know how to blame if something goes wrong.

this irresponsible man will only have endless grievances when he is married.

Third, your own tolerance.

Sometimes it is a thankless thing to be a second wife. Living among different relatives, the relationship is not easy to handle. For the previous family, can you be honest?

The biggest difficulty of the second marriage is that the traces of the previous emotional life are too heavy, especially if there are children. No child wants to have a stepmother, so they will be hostile and will contradict each other. Therefore, there must be many difficulties in getting along with children, so it is necessary to test your tolerance. Not everyone can overcome it.

also, when you two have children of your own, can they live in harmony, and can you treat them equally?

Marriage is not a child's play. You need to be cautious. Whether you can marry or not depends on whether this man has a heart and a pattern, whether he can take responsibility, and whether he will consider for you when something happens.

and yourself, can you accept his past completely and tolerate his past?