My personality characteristics: sensitive, strong, outgoing and stubborn.

A psychologist once said such a meaningful sentence: "A person's life's efforts are aimed at integrating the character he has formed since he was a child." This sentence means that most of a person's adult personality characteristics can be found in his childhood growth experience. His childhood experience planted a seed for his psychological development when he grew up and decided his direction. This may be like an old saying in China: "At the age of three, you hit 80."

Below I will make a simple analysis according to my own personality characteristics and personal growth experience.

My personality characteristics: sensitive, aggressive, outgoing, stubborn, sometimes stubborn, indifferent to feelings. ...

It should be said that everyone's comprehensive personality characteristics can not be summarized in a few words. Personally, I think the formation of my personality should be the great influence of my parents' divorce when I was a child.

Before I was born, my parents had bad feelings. Later, shortly after I was born, my parents separated. According to relatives, it is largely because of my father. Of course, there must be other reasons, which gradually increased the rift between the two, and then it got out of hand. Finally, when I was 5 years old, they embarked on the road of divorce. In this way, my mother wanted nothing but me and left the town where I was born to live in Liuzhou. Fortunately, my mother is an optimistic and strong person. She never complained to me about the fate of life and attached great importance to my education and training. I can still grow up healthily and happily. Besides, we soon started a new life. Although it is difficult, it is most important for mother and daughter to be together.

Let's talk about sensitivity first Like many children from divorced families, I have a certain degree of inferiority. Not only inferior, but also sensitive. Children who may have incomplete families are mostly sensitive and easily agitated. That's what I do. I value what people around me think of me, and worry that I am not good enough, or that I have offended others or something. If you are not sure whether you are good or not, you will never dare to highlight yourself. So on the one hand, I am strict with myself and try my best to do my own thing, but on the other hand, I am worried that I am not good enough in the eyes of others and that I have many shortcomings and deficiencies in the eyes of others.

About competition. This is a bit like the one above. I remember when I graduated from primary school, the class teacher told me meaningfully that you are all my mother's hopes, and whether you work hard or not determines whether her future hopes can be realized. This sentence didn't sound very emotional at the time, but it was only in retrospect that I understood the good intentions of the class teacher.