People who use WeChat to express their opinions.

Last weekend, Huan Zi and I went to the ancient town to play. She was very excited. She went to pinch the small clay figurine made by craftsmen and went to see the beam architecture in the Republic of China. When she is in the mood, she rents a cheongsam and lets the rickshaw master take her around and take a beautiful photo.

At noon, when we stopped to find a special restaurant for lunch, Huan Zi was still fiddling with her mobile phone.

During the whole meal, she retouched dozens of pictures with Meitu Xiu Xiu, and then selected 9 pictures and sent them to her circle of friends. I told her to eat quickly, and it's not too late to deliver it after eating. She said it would be ready soon.

I thought it was time for her to eat when she finished sending it. I didn't expect her to pick up her cell phone every few seconds and shout hungry to see if anyone likes and comments. I accidentally saw the bottom of the message and received rave reviews. I said, you should be satisfied now.

I didn't expect Huan Zi to say that he was unhappy. I guess this set of pictures really doesn't mean much. At first, I didn't understand why she said that. Because many people praised her. Why is she unhappy?

Later, I learned that there was a favorite person in Huan Zi's WeChat, and she sent a circle of friends just to get his attention.

I didn't expect others to praise her, but he was indifferent.

Have you ever had such a moment, perhaps you occasionally send a circle of friends, in fact, just for the person you like, want to get his response. But no matter what you send in your circle of friends, how you send it, and how often you send it, you will never be recognized by the people you like.

In fact, you have sent so many friends, even if you get the praise and long comments from the whole world, it is not as good as a trivial praise and a few comments from the person you like.

Someone once said that I didn't send a circle of friends to please anyone, just to be happy for myself.

But there are still a few people who will send friends to please.

I got together with some friends yesterday, and then we talked about Meiya. A friend of mine said, I think she seems a little abnormal recently? Because her circle of friends always deletes her hair repeatedly, she also deletes it again and again.

In fact, I have already discovered this problem. According to our understanding of her, Meiya is a particularly mature, rational and insensitive girl. Why does she seem to be a different person recently?

On one occasion, she sent several sports photos of getting up early and running in the morning, which made people feel positive energy through the screen. On another occasion, she read a classic book and wrote a long feeling after reading it. Everyone praised her.

But every time I send a circle of friends, some are separated by half a day, some are separated by several hours, and some are even deleted within 10 minutes.

Once I asked her curiously why.

She told me helplessly that every circle of her friends is actually for the people she likes.

Because when she sees him, she always praises another friend like them. Girls take selfies, and he wants to praise them. He wants to praise the chicken soup that has been silent for a long time and send some irrelevant life insights. He is also the second comment.

So she thought that he would like it as long as he sent the same type of circle of friends. I didn't expect that even if she sent 100 friends circle in turn every day, even if she told the girl the same title and picture, he would only interact with that girl.

In fact, many people send friends circle just to brush their sense of existence with someone. You think you can get his attention as long as you often send a circle of friends. But in the end, you find that no matter how hard you try in your circle of friends, he still turns a blind eye.

He never takes the initiative to contact you or comment on your friends. You think he is caused by his personality, but in fact he just doesn't like you that much.

Too many people care so much about the circle of friends, just because there are people they like in WeChat. You love making friends so much because you still have a glimmer of hope for him, and so does deleting. No matter what you do, people who don't like you still don't like you.

Tingting is a "fake friend" in my circle of friends, because she almost never participates in any group chat and comments, even the last circle of friends was six months ago.

Recently, she actually sent a circle of friends every other day, and the content was really spicy.

For example, I don't want to get up in the morning, for example, I ate Sichuan-style pork stir-fry at noon, for example, I watched a movie at night. Sometimes when I am in a good mood, I will send a few puzzling words in the middle of the night.

What was my first reaction, Tingting? Because if these contents were replaced by others, I would feel normal. But Tingting is obviously not this style.

You know, Tingting at ordinary times is the kind of person who will behave airily tonight even if the earth collapses tomorrow.

But now she can't grasp what's in her heart. She likes to make friends immediately because of a little trouble, a little cold and a little emotion.

Finally, I heard someone say that she was in love, so she behaved so abnormally. It is said that girls in love are compared, especially from the circle of friends they send.

There is a joke on the Internet:

When there is no one you like, even if you break your leg, you are too lazy to do anything. Put your leg back calmly. But with the person you like, even if you gently bite your lip when eating, you should send a circle of friends: my lip hurts!

There are always a group of girls in life. They really aren't too bored and don't have much time. More importantly, they don't just make friends all day. Even though they are extremely busy, they have to take some time out of their busy schedule to make friends. Not only because they want the person they like to know more about her, but also because they want to find clues that he likes her in his praise.

Some people even say that my circle of friends is only for people I like. As long as he notices, the whole world can stop watching my circle of friends.

In fact, a person likes to send friends, which has three meanings. The first one was sent to myself, just to record my life. Second, share things with friends and family. The last one is for people you like.

When you have a favorite person on WeChat, more people send a circle of friends just to show them to the people you care about.

You sent a circle of friends in the middle of the night just to tell him that I couldn't sleep. You can really talk to me.

You are lazy at the weekend, just telling him that I have plenty of time and you can ask me out at any time.

You occasionally send virtuous photos of cooking, washing clothes and doing housework just to remind him that I can be a very competent girlfriend.

But no matter how many friends you send, he will not encourage you, care about you, or even praise you casually. You can't arouse his emotions at all.

And besides having a platform to contact him in the circle of friends, you will never have a reasonable identity to tell you that I like you aboveboard, but why can't he understand?

It's not that he doesn't understand. You don't know that if a single girl always deliberately expresses her feelings to a single young man, she is always free, always unrestrained, gentle and considerate, generous and decent, and has almost all the requirements you have for a girlfriend, that is, she indirectly shows her mind to him, but he just pretends not to understand.

Maybe he didn't know that you really don't like making friends before you met him, but in order to get close to him, you have to constantly refresh your circle of friends in an attempt to make him notice you.

Maybe he doesn't know that you are trying to retouch the picture, just to get his praise and comments, even if you stay for a few seconds.

Maybe he doesn't even know that since you have someone you like on WeChat, your heart is as uneasy and chaotic as your circle of friends.

Sometimes love is like this. I have sent countless friends who seem to have nothing to do with you. In fact, after it bypassed the earth, the last meaning is to tell you that I like you.