My fifth-grade child is tired of studying and feels bored at school. How can I help my child who is tired of studying and feels depressed?

Children are tired of studying and are already in a bad mood. If parents are still angrily demanding that their children learn to study, and use nagging, scolding, labeling, control, coercion and other means to make their children obey, they will only Make children more rebellious and hate learning. How to guide children who are a little tired of school and feel depressed at school?

1. Communicate more with children, guide and help them gain a sense of accomplishment in their studies. The sense of accomplishment is actually a positive emotional experience, which is the inner feeling of people realizing their self-worth and gaining recognition. When children achieve certain successes in learning and are recognized and praised, a sense of satisfaction will be generated, learning will be faster and more efficient, and self-awareness will be significantly enhanced, which will motivate children to achieve success. Success again.

2. Create more conditions for children to achieve "achievement". You can start from other aspects of your children, such as children who like sports or literature. Parents can give them more encouragement in this regard so that they can gain a sense of accomplishment in life and build self-confidence.

3. Start with small goals and then guide him to set learning goals. What children need most is their parents’ approval. You can try to give your child a small goal, such as completing homework and getting to and from get out of class on time, so that the child can taste the sweetness of learning, and then slowly adjust the goal upward in the future.

4. Give appropriate encouragement and praise to children for every progress they make. Whenever children make progress in learning, parents should encourage and praise them in time, so that children can compare themselves with themselves instead of blindly comparing them with others.

5. Parents should establish correct educational concepts - do not make excessive demands. The main reason why many children are afraid of learning is their parents’ high expectations. This is true, but sometimes, excessive pressure from parents will cause children to slowly lose interest in learning. Once a child fails to do well in a certain test, the child will easily give up on himself and develop aversion to learning.

6. Create interest in learning for children. Parents should always encourage their children in this aspect of learning. Parents should give their children some questions based on their own abilities, and encourage their children appropriately when they do something right. Because children are more vain when they are young, and they like to hear their parents say words of praise and give their children Build self-confidence in learning.