The order is the destination. Tell me about it.

1. If one day I disappear, who will suddenly wake up in the middle of the night thinking of me and cry?

Every night when I want to sleep, I can't help trying to stay awake. I don't wait for anything, and I don't know what I'm cooking.

Time is as honest as a pig iron fence. No one can cross it, and no one can come and go except the wind trimmed by dead branches.

4. The distance is probably that you know that I didn't sleep, and I know that you didn't sleep, but you can't say a word while watching the other party's updated news.

I'm afraid I won't get it completely, and I'm afraid I'll lose it too thoroughly.

I can tolerate your selfishness and your personality, but I'm not mature enough to forgive betrayal.

7. I watched a movie I didn't understand, looked around and found that others were absorbed and intoxicated, and suddenly understood what loneliness was.

I can't give you the happiness you want, so I choose to quit. Because I love you, I let you choose a better home.

9. Life has changed us, but it can't change the sensitive and fragile heart under the strong exterior.

10. Some people are not stupid, but their hearts are not hard enough.

1 1. You won't know where your heart is until you love someone deeply.

12. Waiting is not for you to come back; But let yourself find an excuse not to leave.

Sentences that express a person's bad mood, sentences that express a person's bad mood.

1. Time and freshness prove how fragile our relationship is.

2. Being single is just to wait for someone and the right person.

I used to have white hair, but now I am in my prime. Being mean, bullying, and afraid of hard work used to be white-haired, but today's elegance is completely transformed from the past.

4, a flower party, flowers bloom and fall are fate, there are always some emotional stories in the world, which are constantly complicated. However, we didn't miss it after all. Meeting the right person at the right time is the most beautiful kindness in the years. One meeting is a lifetime, just for the gorgeous flowers.

Once upon a time, I naively thought that everything you said was true, that everything you said was poetic, and that I had memorized everything you said. The silence of your parting that day buried the wedding in my dream, and my heart broke all over the floor. .....

6. Tell a love story and write a love picture. Open a love flower and cover a blue tile. * * * Drink a cup of green tea and grind a bowl of green sand. Roll up the veil and look at the crescent moon in the sky. Love is like blue and white ink, why not be afraid for a while. Time goes by like running water. But I still didn't leave crying or complaining.

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

8. Everyone has at least one heartbreaking secret behind them.

9. Don't worry, don't cry, don't be afraid, believe in time, believe in yourself, and believe that God will treat every life well. You must wait, one day, there will be a pair of hands holding you gently and taking you out of your memories. In fact, life is very simple. Fight for what you like, cherish what you get and forget what you lose. Life needs some moments, slow down, calm down, listen to the sound of flowers and watch the beauty of leaves blooming.

10, you are like milk in my mouth. I'm thirsty, hungry, sleepy and tired, but you can't help me, only for a while.

1 1, waiting may not be easy; Destruction is easy.

12, I will see your smiling face, hear your thoughts and smell your breath in my other world.

13, it was autumn, the last time I went out was autumn, and the first time I met a man was autumn. I don't believe in love at first sight. I think my short love and parting are over. If only that day had ended, it would have ended long ago. I want to add seeing him to the autumn sky, the autumn park, the autumn puppy and all the words in the world.

14, what disappoints women is not that you have no money, but that you can't see hope in you; Never underestimate a girl's determination to share weal and woe with you, as long as you exchange your heart.

15, one girlfriend at a time, when I really need you, the shadow is gone.

16, the biggest difficulty is to know yourself, and the easiest thing is to know yourself. Many times, we don't recognize ourselves, just because we put ourselves in the wrong position and give ourselves an illusion. Therefore, I am not afraid of the bumpy road ahead, and I am afraid that I will go in the wrong direction from the beginning.

17, the heart of a fool is in his mouth, and the mouth of a wise man is in his heart.

18, I told you everything I wanted to say before. You should take good care of yourself.

19, many people are too fragile to imagine tomorrow.

20. The farther apart, the deeper you miss; The longer it lasts, the more I miss it; The night is long, when will the lovesickness pass?

2 1, walk on your own road, look at the past and think about the present, how many tears can appear in the lovesickness trip, how much time to accumulate yourself, change your dreams, how much analysis and judgment, let your starting point start turning, which road you have traveled, and what you have paid.

Don't lie, I can't forgive every time. Almost all love starts from hello, sublimates from hello or bad, enters passionate love from your greatness, ends from hello or bad, and forgets from hello or bad.

23. Love is precious until it is separated. Many people don't know how to cherish what they have. They didn't find it until they lost it. In fact, what they are most familiar with is the most precious.

24. There are always some irresistible things in life. For example, the dawn should be lit; For example, dusk is about to get dark; For example, fate meets; For example, the predicted departure; For example, destructive love; Such as health; Like death.

25. In fact, there is one person in everyone's heart that can't be forgotten. You always think about it when you are bored, when you eat alone, when you walk in the street at night, and when you listen to music. Later, you gradually found that this person will not change your life whether he is with you or not. It's ok to eat, sleep and play, and we should also talk about friends. At this time, you will understand that there are some people you will never forget, but they will not affect your life.

26. Money is the beginning and end of everything.

27, the heart is dying, and the affair is deep. I once wanted to leave, and I tied my skirt a thousand times. I will stick to my ambition alone, and I will return to my will early. It is better to tie your heart than to tie your clothes. Sit and settle, and settle for a hundred years.

28. Where are the sun, warm fog, silver moon and dew? After you left

29. You can't wake a person who pretends to sleep, and you can't touch someone who doesn't love you.

30. Time will precipitate the truest emotion; Wind and rain will test the warmest companionship. What goes far is just passing clouds; What is left is the love that is worth cherishing.

3 1, those things I thought I couldn't make it, it took me so long to find out, and they are all over.

A person's mood

1, to be a happy woman, you must be happy, and if you are not happy, you must create happiness. Smiling may not make the world blossom, but it can relax our tight chests. Laugh when you are happy, so that everyone will be infected, cry when you are sad, be beautiful, talk, and then everything will be zero, and it will be hearty. We will smile at our humble self, draw comfort and strength from it, trust and feel refreshed.

2, always need some warmth, even a little self-righteous commemoration.

I never know when this kind of youth will stop. When it's time to find happiness. I only see withered flowers, withered hearts and withered feelings.

If you take the initiative for a long time, everyone will be tired, not because you don't love, but because you are tired.

As long as you are simple, how can I have the heart to play tricks with you?

6. I just happened to be sad, just decided to give up, just forgot to cry, just met you.

7. The person who really loves you can't tell the reason why he really loves you at once, but only knows that he can't pay attention to others; People who really love you always make you angry, but you can't find out what he did wrong; The person who really loves you will only cry in front of you alone; The person who really loves you will teach you a lesson when you forget to reply to his message; People who really love you seldom praise you to your face, but they are sure that you are the best in their hearts.

8. In this world, no one can really feel the pain of another person. You were shot in the heart, and you were in pain. This is just your own business. Others may sympathize with you and sigh, but you will never know exactly where your wound is festering.

9. Being together for a long time will make you bored, but being apart for a long time will make you miss it. So, cherish the time together.

10. In dreams and love, nothing is impossible.

1 1. In love, there are always leading roles and supporting roles. Tired will always be the protagonist, injured will always be the supporting role; Sometimes, love is also a kind of injury: cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves; Life is a load, and we need to learn to support it. stay

Industry, supporting families and even supporting the whole society will have support, and there will be pressure if there is weight support.

12, you can get1130000000 results by typing "story" on Google, but you can only get 44900000 results by typing "ending". It can be seen that not every story has a result.

13, some things, some words, I didn't say, I didn't understand, I just saw them in my eyes and buried them in my heart.

14, some things, I pretend not to know, knowing, will only make myself more heartbroken.

15, there are some things that you know are wrong, but you have to insist because you are unwilling; Some people, knowing that they are in love, still have to give up because there is no ending; Sometimes, you have to move on knowing that there is no way out, because you are used to it.

16, some things are unbearable again.

17, some wounds, no matter how long, hurt when touched; Some people, no matter how long it takes, will still hurt when they think about it.

18, I'd rather keep some words in my heart and never say them again.

19, sometimes I suddenly don't talk, and I realize that I am thinking about him.

20. Sometimes, I wish I could grow up quickly, only to find that I have lost my childhood. When I was single, I began to envy the sweetness of my lover. When I am in love, I miss the freedom when I am single. A lot of things always feel beautiful when we don't get them. When we got them, we began to understand: "When we got them, we were losing them."

2 1. Sometimes we are willing to forgive someone, not because we really want to forgive him, but because we don't want to lose him.

22. Sometimes, we feel that we have come to the end. In fact, our hearts have come to the end. No matter how deep despair is, it is a process and will always end. Escape is always not the way. Courage, go forward, maybe the opportunity is in the next second. Jimmy said, I always see the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair.

23. Sometimes, love is also a kind of injury. Cruel people choose to hurt others; Good people choose to hurt themselves.

I especially remember that we were all young, but now we are all grown up.

25. Face the complexity of life with a glass of water.

26. Because of you, I am serious, I have changed, I have worked hard, I am sad, I am stupid, I am stupid for you; I hurt you; Late at night, you are my habitual memory. I don't want to struggle for the past, I don't want to work hard for the past, I don't want to.

I'm worried about missing it again, but I don't want to and I can't. ...

27. No matter how busy a city is, it is empty without you.

28, some people, some things, lost and never come back, blame themselves for not cherishing.

29. One day, I finally stopped thinking about her, because she has been away for too long, and my habit is no longer a habit.

30. A person will cry because of pain; The reason why a person hurts is because he cares; A person cares because he has feelings; A person has feelings just because you are a person! So, you have feelings, cares, pains and tears, which is you.

Is an incomplete and complete person. When you are sad, forgive yourself. You're just one person. There is no need to see yourself as so indestructible.

3 1, I like to be in a daze when I am alone; I like to cry secretly when I am alone; I like listening to exciting music when I am alone; When I am alone, I like to open the window and look at the bright moon. I like to dance alone when I am alone; I am very happy when I am alone.

Happy thinking; I like to count countless stars in the night sky when I am alone. When I am alone, I like to wait for the falling of the meteor.

32, a person's loneliness, a person's loneliness. Accustomed to a person lazy listening to sad melody, accustomed to a person silently watching sad words. I always feel that the sky is so blue, and blue makes people a little depressed; The night is so quiet that people want to cry a little; C'est La Vie

Pale, pale to make people a little weak

It's night, you're asleep, you're awake, you're drunk, and you're still going.

34. How can I explain to you that when I love you without hesitation, my fears are equally boundless.

Love and love are not enough to walk into a woman's heart. You must understand her: understand her brave weakness and give her spiritual support; Understand the sadness in her happiness and give her spiritual care; Understand her rudeness and respond accurately to the expectations in her eyes; Know where her heart is going, and walk through the storm with her ... She actually doesn't want much, just wants to find a lover who fully understands him.

1, there are too many ups and downs in life. Since we met, how can we bear to miss it? The butterfly from a previous life came here, stopped in your palm and counted the warm silk threads. This is my eternal promise. That butterfly from a previous life has always been here, hidden in your heart, lighting the lamp of love. That's the soul I will always follow.

No matter how difficult the road ahead is, as long as you are in the right direction, no matter how bumpy it is, you are closer to happiness than standing in the same place.

The so-called "person" means that what you add to it is no longer a "person".

I don't contact because your indifference hurts me, and I don't take the initiative because I can't contact you at all.

5, the emotional line of love, there is only a thin line between you and me, we thought we could give each other more love, but finally found that you didn't want anything.

6. If you think the world is full of disasters, leave a pure land in your heart; If you are in trouble in life, comfort yourself with a smile.

7. The most successful people are often the ones who fail the most, because they are the ones who try the most!

8. Time is always old, and we all live in the past.

9. I would rather spend time cultivating my imperfect self than wasting time expecting perfect others.

10, don't think too complicated. If you hold it too tightly, things will break and your hands will hurt.

1 1, try to be the brightest person in the face of sunshine every day.

12. If you look farther, you won't be sad.

13, there is a kind of love, called growing old together, and there is a kind of happiness, called being accompanied by you.

14, remember, you can cry and hate, but not be weak.

15, as long as you choose your goal, don't think too far, keep your feet on the ground and work hard every day. Life is endless, and fighting is endless.

16, the so-called living people are those who constantly challenge and climb the peak of fate.

17, I am ready to spend my life with you, and I am ready for you to leave at any time. This is probably the best view of love, affectionate but not entangled.

18, don't promise when you are happy, don't answer when you are sad, and don't make a decision when you are angry.

19, I don't know if I can meet you in my next life, so I'll give you the best in this life.

20. Time is really precious, just one second before the toilet was taken away by others.

Tell me if you hate someone. Hating someone can make you feel better?

Victim complex

Friend c jun is a strong and good man. No matter what kind of conflict occurs, she always occupies an absolutely rational position. In short: I am so nice, so accommodating, so wronged, do you still want to do this? ! You are a naked mistake, so I can do whatever I want with you, because you are a sinner and I am a victim!

C lives with her parents-in-law when she needs someone to take care of her children. Of course, there are frictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Husband is a person who is not good at dealing with the contradiction between two women, which often makes her feel very dissatisfied. Slowly, the contradiction between C and her in-laws became more and more fierce. Of course, they are bored with each other, and everyone thinks the other is wrong.

When they got married, my father-in-law promised that the young couple would invest in buying a house in the future. However, when their children were born and needed to settle down and buy a house, my father-in-law stopped paying for various reasons. Of course, parents have no obligation to sponsor their children to buy a house, but after all, they promised to go back on their word temporarily, which made C and her husband very angry. Helpless, they owe a large amount of foreign debt, which makes C's husband completely chilling and firmly draws a line with his parents, feeling that their parents are too cruel.

Sometimes, love is deep and hate is strong. The closer you are, the higher your expectations are, and if you are slightly dissatisfied, you can't help but hate it. C relieved: I have long said it was your parents' fault, but now I believe it. Anyway, I don't have to associate with them in the future. Stay away from them. Because they are wrong, we are victims, so we can ignore them with peace of mind and treat them as we want. Who told you to do something wrong?

However, on holidays, C's husband no longer receives phone calls and greetings from his family, and he hasn't been home to see his parents for a long time. C can see that he is very sad. Hating someone can't make things simple, let alone make both sides feel better. Just use one thing to punish each other, the time is uncertain, because I am an absolute victim, I will not forgive.

Once, C told me these things, and his face seemed to be enjoying Roewe as a victim. Yes, you hurt me. You are very unreasonable, and you continue to be unreasonable again and again. I have absolute public opinion and moral commanding heights. Although I am a victim, I have the advantage of blaming, and I can constantly scold your mistakes. All my dissatisfaction and complaints have been satisfied in this repeated reprimand.

When I started to explain something from the perspective of Mr. C's parents-in-law, Mr. C immediately panicked and stopped me from continuing. Yes, she doesn't want to accept any of their reasons and difficulties, because once they have a reasonable excuse, then I am not a victim, I have no right to continue to blame, I can't just ignore them, I can't shirk all my responsibilities, I need to accept my own problems and learn how to get along with them.

Obviously, this is what C doesn't want to do, because she can't learn to get along with her parents-in-law, and can't face her own problems and change herself. She wants to cover up her mistake, so she would rather be a victim, so she doesn't have to do anything. It is much easier to hate someone than to change yourself.

Sometimes, the victim seems to be in a weak position, but it is a shield that you unconsciously wear and can be used repeatedly. The subtext is: it's all your fault. You are so miserable. You did something wrong. Then you have no reason to ask me for anything, so that I refuse to grow and change. After all, it is too painful to admit that you are not good.

It's your fault.

Little d had a car accident in high school. At that time, his face was scarred. He was depressed for a time, stayed at home and never went to school again. He was admitted to the county key high school, but because his father didn't solve the hukou problem for him, he could only go to an ordinary high school, so he has been suffering. It was in that ordinary high school that he had an accident. Although there are scars, I can't see them now. The brain has been traumatized and has healed.

However, he blamed the car accident on his father because he didn't solve the hukou problem. He was studying in a key high school, so he wouldn't have an accident. It seems that the reason is far-fetched Even in ordinary high schools, accidents can only be accidents or carelessness. You can't blame anyone. Even if you go to a key high school, you may not have an accident.

But the identity of the victim can make him constantly condemn his father, so he can not be responsible for himself. So, after the accident, although he basically recovered, he never went to school again and was parasitic at home. Up to now, men in their thirties have sound limbs, a clear head and no visible problems, but they don't go to work and are idle, treating themselves as a basket case, waiting for their parents to raise them.

A lie will become a fact if told a hundred times, so my father always thinks that he destroyed the child, so he bears the crime, thus supporting a disabled person with sound limbs without complaint.

The identity of the victim can make little D feel at ease to enjoy this compensation. He can always enjoy the preferential treatment of others when he was a child, without paying, taking responsibility for his laziness, growing and changing.

Lin's husband cheated her, but she chose to forgive and they continued their marriage. But Lin will get more and more angry because of some trivial things. Her husband retorted a little, and she angrily accused: you have done something sorry for me, and you have the face to ask me. I can forgive you for being very tolerant!

When they are together, there always seems to be a dark cloud.

There is a lingering resentment in Lin's heart, which may erupt at any time. All unhappiness will lead to accusations. I always forget to mend the knife in the end. You betrayed me! The subtext is: I am a victim, and nothing you can do can eliminate my dissatisfaction, so I can always complain about your mistakes with confidence. In this relationship, no matter what you do, you can't change your status as a sinner, but I can do whatever I want with you, because I am a victim and I don't need to face my problems.

This is an unbalanced relationship. Men may break their jars for a long time, and women may become more and more dissatisfied. Of course, the problem of marriage repair requires great wisdom. If you decide to forgive, you need to vent your resentment and ask for an explanation. Otherwise, mutual compromise is just torture to each other.

Hate, like an energy, will not disappear, either to yourself or to others.

It doesn't mean that when a person is very bad to you, we just submit to humiliation and don't resent it. But in the face of unreasonable treatment, when arguments and efforts still cannot be changed, choose to seek your own strength. After all, there are always some people who have no bottom line of morality and principle. If we want to hinder ourselves because we can't let go of our resentment against them, we will lose more.

I read in an article that nelson mandela, a South African hero who led the anti-apartheid struggle, was imprisoned and tortured in Rhode Island for 27 years. At his inauguration ceremony, he respectfully paid tribute to the three guards who had imprisoned him, which made all the guests present and even the whole world quiet. He said: When I walked out of my cell and walked through the prison gate leading to freedom, I knew that if I couldn't leave my sadness and resentment behind, I would still be in prison.

If you really can't let go of the feeling of hate, it won't disappear out of thin air, but it will grow in your heart, either attacking yourself or attacking people around you. Like a depressed volcano, restless.

In the end, it is just to turn yourself and others' lives into victims of hatred.

The scourge of being born into a family

We know that most of a person's problems are caused by his early family background. Parenting problems, early trauma and separation, family environment problems. Traumatic psychologists believe that children have formed a lifelong interpersonal relationship model and sense of security through interaction with caregivers (parents) before they begin to speak and acquire language and thinking skills. It can be seen that parental rearing patterns and family environment have great influence on children.

Many people find their own problems: lack of love, insecurity and bad intimacy, all of which are parents' problems, and then they begin to resent and blame their parents. Then I regarded myself as a victim and rightfully turned a deaf ear to all kinds of problems. Anyway, it's not my fault, it's all about my parents' early upbringing. I don't have to be responsible for it, and I don't have to make changes, that's all. I have no choice.

Is it easy to put the problem on others? Being a victim can make you feel better, but it's just a kind of self-deception, because it's just a reason for you to refuse to grow and change.

We can't change other people's attitudes towards you, our origins and parents, and the fact that others will always hurt your external environment, but that doesn't mean you can be depressed and give up on yourself. Remember, we are capable of making changes at any time.