What's wrong with other people's perfunctory sentences?

1, I really hate perfunctory. Everyone is very clever. When I don't know what to say, I'd rather be silent forever.

2. I still remember this feeling, the result of being perfunctory, and the feeling of being left out.

3. Falling in love is to be happy, to feel loved, to be coaxed when angry, to be a child, a little princess, a little baby, not to be left out, not to be perfunctory, not to be stopped.

I can't understand my social status either. If I am perfunctory, I don't want to get close at all. I don't want anything. If I don't want to play with me willingly, I really don't need anything

I don't like being perfunctory. Even a little perfunctory feeling will make me take back all my feelings.