There is an old saying in the countryside that "a big girl laughs at a little girl, a little girl grunts, and a baby calls her father for the first time". What does it mean? How to understand?

There is an old saying in the countryside that "a big girl laughs at a kannika nimtragol doll and calls it dad for the first time". What does that mean? How to understand?

"A big girl smiles at a little daughter-in-law, and a doll is called Dad for the first time" is an old saying in rural areas, and there are different versions in different places.

Shanxi: "The girl laughs, the little girl hums, the bride's bridal chamber calls her husband, and the girl calls her father for the first time".

Henan: "The eldest daughter waves, the younger daughter hums, the daughter-in-law gets up early to call her father-in-law, and the child calls for the first time."

Shandong: "The big girl blushes, the little boy shouts, the bride in the bridal chamber groans, and the daughter-in-law calls the old woman for the first time."

The big girl laughed

A big girl refers to a woman who is not married. In many places in China, people call her by different names. Northeast people call it Niu, Henan people call it Nv, Shandong people call it Ni, Wuhan people call it Ximeizai, Sichuan people call it Yaomei, and Shanxi people call it Nvwa.

In any case, the big girl is the sun at eight or nine in the morning, full of vitality and charm; It is also like a flower in bud, colorful.

In feudal times, girls were not allowed to laugh heartily. They all grinned to avoid showing their teeth, so that they could laugh generously and be criticized by their elders.

Girls are naturally shy and can't laugh in most cases.

However, it is difficult for big girls to control their emotions in an emergency. In one case, I couldn't help laughing when I heard a humorous joke from my best friend. The second situation is to meet the man you love and have spiritual sustenance; The third situation is that the ceremony is approaching and you will be with the person you love.

So big girls don't laugh, and they can't help laughing when they are particularly happy. Such a smile is a great beauty of life.

There is a saying in our hometown that "three fortunes a day, the magpie branches are noisy, the girl smiles across the hall, and the swallow flies back to the nest". Magpie branches call for good news, girls laugh and celebrate, and Yan 'er's return to the nest is also gratifying.

Kannika nimtragol, huh?

A newly married woman is called kannika nimtragol. She is slim, delicate, beautiful and full of youth.

Different from the big girl's smile, the light hum of kannika nimtragol represents the shyness of identity transformation, which is a silent amorous feelings. This kind of performance will definitely make the groom fondle, and the husband and wife are inseparable, playing the piano and singing.

Not to mention the groom's official, people passing by will feel relaxed and happy when they hear the bride's shy whisper and recall the sweetness of their wedding.

The doll called her father the first time.

Xie Dong sang a song called "The Father of the Child". "The day you were born, it kept raining, and the wind and rain made you cry. It was quite noisy at the time. " "But you gave your mother your first smile and then just looked at the man by the bed. . . "The child calls his mother first, and his father is jealous, and then reminds him loudly," Baby, I am your baby ".

It must be the most beautiful voice in the world, and it is better than Beethoven's symphonies and Wang Feng's songs.

After saying "Dad", a man has completed the transformation from his son to his father, from an ignorant teenager to a boy with a big waist, shouldering the heavy responsibility of his family, working hard for his son's future with ambition and confidence, creating a good growth environment for his children and looking forward to a bright future. What a wonderful feeling.

In the eyes of the old people, a son marrying a daughter-in-law is to carry on the family line.

With my beloved son, I will complete the task assigned by Laozi. Especially in the era of tight family planning, it doesn't matter to have two boys and girls. They are not afraid of fines, ligation, unemployment, and they don't have to leave their homes to become super guerrillas.

At this time, the feeling of being a father is even better, and beauty is not necessary.

In fact, there are many beautiful things in people's lives. For example, as we said earlier, a daughter-in-law called her parents-in-law will also make people smile from ear to ear. China's parents suffer the most. They raise their children with a handful of excrement and urine, and when they grow up, they provide him with schooling, find him a job, build a house and marry a wife.

When the daughter-in-law marries home, there are new members in the family. A year later, there will be a new generation, that is, children and grandchildren around their knees, who run, laugh and have fun at home. What is more worthy of happiness than a daughter-in-law calling her parents?

In a word, a big girl laughs, a little daughter-in-law hums, and a child calls her father for the first time, which is the best thing in life and worth looking forward to.