I really want to know how I feel after death.

"I really want to know how I feel after I die?" -This is the topic of a weekly diary by student Xu Yifeng.

In my eyes, Yifeng's innocent face often has a carefree smile and a puzzled look, but now he wants to know what it feels like to be "dead". This really surprised me and worried me a little. What prompted him to think so? Is this just out of his childhood curiosity?

With confusion, I read this weekly diary with only one hundred words:

"Since my grandfather died that day, I really want to know how my grandfather felt after his death. Is it uncomfortable? Is it sadness? Is it reluctant? Still feeling sad and angry about "death"?

In the days after grandpa died, I don't think grandma, dad, mom and others ever laughed. This idea of mine has been hovering in my mind.

After grandpa died, he lay there quietly, and I stood beside him in a daze. I've always wanted to know how grandpa felt after he died. I really want to ask my parents, uncles and grandmothers. I'm afraid they will be sad. I never asked. Now, I want to ask my teacher, hoping that the teacher can give me an answer. If the teacher doesn't know, then this question can only be kept in mind.

These days, I still wonder why I didn't cry when grandpa died. And now I want to cry when I think about it! "

This is really a weekly diary that makes me feel heavy. Suddenly, I seem to have gone back in time. In the process of growing up, I also experienced the "death" of my grandparents and other elders. When I first faced the death of my loved ones, I also had doubts like other peaks. However, for the living, this is a question with no definite answer after all, and it is a painful, helpless and increasingly numb question. With the growth of age, it has become a topic that many adults are unwilling to mention voluntarily. No matter whether you explain it from the scientific angle of materialism or from the belief mentality of idealism, the result can't be confirmed-needless to say, I can't give Yifeng this answer. At that moment, all I can do at once is to write a comment for his weekly diary:

"Other, the teacher read your diary and was moved by your truthfulness, sincerity and frankness. The teacher understands your confusion and mood at that time and now, because the teacher also came from an early age and experienced what you experienced. Now, your weekly diary gives the teacher a new idea. Yes, the teacher is also thinking, how will people feel after death? The teacher thinks that people probably have no feelings after death. We should be alive if we have feelings. We will cry, we will be sad, we will miss, we will be helpless ... The teacher also knows this very well. However, the teacher believes that no matter whether the relatives of the deceased feel or not, we should actively go our own way and do what we should do. Cheer up, cheer yourself up, pass on strength and optimism to the living, let us love and cherish our present life more, and pay more attention to and care for our relatives and friends around us ... Are you right? Hold your hand, work hard together and live a good life! "

To be honest, in the face of the topic of "death", I think my comments may be general or even pale. But I still write with passion. I know that it is a positive attitude to write comments with heart and emotion. Whether in life or education, I think as long as I insist on doing what I should do at hand, students may still be influenced by it. Anyway, this is also a positive psychological hint to myself. Of course, I also understand that students sometimes write such sad topics because they need to talk, and I am happy to be a good listener. ...

When marking this weekly diary, I did not hesitate to write down the word "Jing". In the "Boutique Recommendation" class, I showed this weekly diary and my comments to the whole class. After class, I assigned an optional homework: talk about your feelings after listening to Yifeng's weekly diary. If you like, tell me your answer to other questions.

A week later, when I opened Yifeng's weekly diary again, after my comments, I read his message:

"Teacher, you're right! Although I still miss my grandfather, I am also very happy because I often study and play with my classmates and friends. Thank you for writing such a long sentence to me, which makes me very happy! I also want to bring happiness to others. I showed your comments to my parents, and they were very happy and praised you! "

I smiled when I watched it. Yes, happiness can be transmitted, infected and created. As long as we have a "love" heart, we will have a source of happiness. ...

I should have stopped here, but I don't want to stop here, because I want to attach the feelings of the following students after listening. I have been deeply attracted by their feelings. I don't want to say anything more, just want to say: I like reading these children's weekly diaries very much. I am willing to listen to their stories and communicate with them-to appreciate them is to be happy with myself! I hope everyone can understand the child's mind and heart through these childlike words.

Lin Huiping:

Today, Teacher Yang read a weekly diary. He didn't tell us the name of the author. We are all thinking, who is this classmate? The teacher seemed to see our ideas, read them well and told everyone about the author. I was a little surprised when I heard the name "Xu Yifeng". His usual composition is very short. How can an "excellent article" be his? However, after listening to Zhou Ji, I think it can really be regarded as a "boutique".

Because Yifeng mentioned a problem about "death" in his weekly diary, the teacher said that anyone interested could help him solve it with his own ideas. So, I also write my own opinion. When I was seven or eight years old, my thoughts were also circulating on this issue and I was still doing experiments. That year, I was not sensible. I saw someone hanging on TV, and I want to see it, too Unexpectedly, I felt very sad and out of breath. Looking back now, I really feel a little silly at that time.

I don't know what others think, but I know how people feel after death, but I just don't feel! Because if people still have feelings after death, won't the dead be resurrected?

Ye Dao:

I think death is the most terrible thing in a person's life. But for children, we seldom think about it, and few adults mention it to us. I sometimes think about what will happen after death before going to bed at night. In some TV dramas, people go to the underworld after death, drink Meng Po Tang, and then reincarnate. People who believe in Christianity all say this: "Good people die in heaven and bad people die in hell." People who believe in Buddhism say that they will go to the western paradise after death. But if we use scientific methods, after death, some organ functions disappear and the brain dies, and it will disappear from this world forever.

With so many examples, I only choose science. Because the first kind of going to the underworld after death was conceived by some imaginative people, it should be ruled out. The second said that good people die and go to heaven, while bad people die and go to hell. Where are all the good and bad people? You will never go to heaven and hell at once, so this is ruled out. The third kind of people died and went to the western paradise. The whole world doesn't know how many people died. Can the paradise in the west still accommodate so many people?

Therefore, I choose the fourth scientific statement.

Wang Xixi:

What is death? Some people think that death is a relief, while others think that death is unfair to them by God. They don't understand why grass can "keep the wildfire burning and spring breeze blowing high", but people can't regenerate.

Death, I have never tried, and I will never try. However, I often see "death" on TV, which always makes my family sad and heartbroken. "Death" always brings heartbreaking cries! But if you live in a dark and inhuman society, then your death should be a relief, and such a death may be good for you! Sometimes I accidentally get hurt, and the wound hurts. I think even a little injury will hurt, so death should be very, very painful.

Death is not terrible. As long as you live a valuable life, then you won't be afraid of death! If you think you will die sooner or later, you might as well sit and wait for death, then life will become more and more sad and boring. In this way, what's the point of not being afraid of death?

Xiang Ye:

I think death is the most painful thing. When you know that you are going to die soon, endless fear and unwillingness will follow. You will complain and resent: Why do people die? Why is it my turn to die?

I am afraid of death, because after I have tasted the happiness of living, I will be attached. I imagine: when I die, I will never see my mother's smiling face and my father's concern again; How painful it is to never enjoy happiness again!

The most terrible thing is that death will bring me an unacceptable fact-I will never eat the "hot lobster" fried by my father again, and I will never eat the whole set meal of KFC again ... there are many delicious foods. If I die, I will never have a chance to taste them again. What a pity!

I think living is an opportunity given by God. He wants us to feel the happiness of living in the world. So, don't cherish the life and happiness in front of you!

It's good to be alive!

Chen Xiaoqiu:

Death is a terrible word, and I am genuinely afraid of it!

Perhaps in the eyes of sick old people, especially those who don't want to live, death is a kind of relief and happiness. When someone jokingly asked me, "Are you afraid of death?" "Not afraid!" I answered frankly. Actually, I'm scared. However, it is useless to worry and be afraid all day. It depends on how you face it.

I clearly remember that my grandfather died on the last day of July last year. But a few days before he died, he was still not afraid of death. When his mother went to see him, he also asked, "How is your family recently?" "Good ... good!" This reminds me that no matter what happens, it is useless to escape, only to face …

Although I am afraid of death, I live happily every day. What are your regrets? I'm afraid, but I believe I won't worry about death. You are also in this state of mind. Why don't you face it and have fun like me? To be free? Whether you are worried or not, "death" is there. Which would you choose, worrying about death all the time or living happily and doing your own thing?

Yi Binbin:

Listening to Xu Yifeng's Zhou Ji reminds me of a series of memories: a few years ago, my grandfather died of illness, and my mother, grandmother and others cried their eyes out. However, I stood by, looking silly. I wonder, after grandpa died, where did his soul go? I once heard that if someone does a lot of good things before his death, his soul will go to heaven; If you do a lot of bad things, you will go to hell. So how many good deeds and bad deeds are the criteria for going to heaven and going to hell? How is this standard determined?

After listening to Xu Yifeng's Zhou Ji and the teacher's explanation, I think people may have no feelings after death. If he has feelings, won't it hurt to hear his family crying there?

Loretta Lee:

I thought "death" was not terrible, as long as I closed my eyes and kicked my legs, but since I witnessed it with my own eyes, my mind has changed. ...

I went back to my hometown for the Spring Festival this year and learned that a neighbor's grandfather was going to die. Curious, I followed the crowd to his side. Grandpa is sixty-nine years old, but he is not as healthy as his peers. He's already sick. His face looks pale and there is almost no blood. His hands and feet have been shaking from side to side and his mouth is still groaning. I couldn't bear to watch it, so I stepped aside. Suddenly a tragic cry came, and grandpa's relatives began to cry. Later, I learned from a large group of people that the old man shook badly before he died and rolled to the ground. When his relatives lifted him up, the light in his eyes disappeared and he died.

After this experience, I began to have some fear of "death". One day, when I was eating, I was worried about choking to death. What should I do? What should I do if a thief breaks in while I'm sleeping and tries to kill me? What should I do if I accidentally fell to my death while playing games? When I was driving ... I kept seeing terrible pictures in my mind. I'm really scared.

After a few months, I gradually became less afraid of "death" because what I was worried about did not happen. And sometimes when you are busy and active, you forget these troubles. I think it's no use worrying all the time. The best thing in life is to do things with a clear conscience, be happy, and think more about relatives and friends and things to do every day!

Li Xinxing:

"Death" really puzzles me. Because after death, where is his soul? Where is the soul? Are you conscious? I'm just confused by these three questions. I once witnessed my uncle's death. My uncle died of illness, which seems to be some kind of cancer. On the night of June 65438+1October 65438+August this year, my uncle was very uncomfortable all over. He said there seemed to be a needle on his head. So, my father, uncle and uncle are all rushing to see my uncle, because they know that my uncle's illness is very serious, which may be the only thing they can see in this life. Seeing that my uncle was in such pain, they had to ask the doctor to give him an analgesic injection. I heard that this painkiller will kill you if you take too much, but what can you do? You can't look at your uncle like that, can you? As the saying goes, "short pain is better than long pain!" I think this is the only way to treat my uncle's illness, and it is not easy for my father to make this choice.

When the painkiller went down this time, my uncle really said goodbye to us, and he just quietly left this world. At that time, I thought, what does it feel like to have my uncle dead? But for this question, my mind is blank, and I just suddenly feel that people are worthless and meaningless when they die. Just like when I was four years old, I fell into the river and struggled in it. Even my mother's familiar voice was calling me, and I didn't know it until my mother rescued me and took me to the hospital. That familiar and kind voice turned out to be my mother calling me urgently.

Now, I deeply feel that death is actually not a feeling, as the teacher said, only the living can feel it. Indeed, the adventure of childhood and the death of my uncle made me understand that people should cherish every day, every moment and every moment when they are alive. ...

Ye Dao:

Grandma told me that death is happy, you don't have to suffer in this land of right and wrong-the world, you can go to a beautiful paradise; My mother told me that death is unconscious. Once you die, the cells will die soon, and you won't feel any pain. But I feel that death is painful.

That year, my uncle lost his bright smile forever because of an unexpected car accident and never woke up again. Tears flowed on the faces of relatives. At that time, I was still young I don't understand what death is, so I thought, why are they crying so sad? What are they crying about? They don't hurt ...

If I die, I can't play hide-and-seek with my mother anymore; I can't listen to my father's story anymore; Never watch the sunrise with grandma again ...

Chen Xiaobao:

In my impression, death is also a way of liberation.

When I was a child, that is, when I first went to kindergarten, my grandmother died. I want to know why my grandmother died and I didn't. It turned out that grandma was sick, could not move, could not eat, and the medicine had no effect, so she died. Seeing a smile on my grandmother's face after her death, I was even more puzzled and asked my mother. My crying mother said to me, "Your grandmother is ill and it is painful to live in the world. The savior took her to a happy paradise, so grandma was very happy ... "I listened and said," I am also in pain. I go to kindergarten every day. My teacher has homework every day. Some students also beat me and scolded me. Why don't you take me away? Faced with my problems, my mother was frightened. ...

Now, I am a sixth-grade pupil, but I feel a little terrible and hateful about "death". In retrospect, I used to be a lonely child. No one in kindergarten pays attention to me. My sister bullies me when I go home. I really want to go to heaven with my grandparents. But now, with the care of teachers and classmates, I have made many friends. The more you live, the more energetic you are. Let me die now, and I will never leave. But time will change people's minds. If the real life is too painful for me to cope with, I will gladly choose to die, because I am free!

Zhang:

I'm afraid of death. I'm afraid I won't see TV, parents, fruits and snacks after I die. I don't know why I will die in the future and why I will die. I don't want to die. It must be hard to die. I can't breathe, my heart keeps beating and it hurts. Besides, I'm afraid I'll look ugly after I die. It would be embarrassing if outsiders saw me.

I'm afraid of death, in fact, most people are afraid of death!

Ye Dao:

"Death" is a word that makes people afraid and makes friends and relatives sad. In my eyes, it is a riddle that puzzles me-"death". What is it like? What is it like? Where to go after death?

I remember once, I was confused by this riddle. It was my uncle who was seriously ill. His family invited many doctors to see him, but his illness was so serious that the doctors said it could not be cured. Tears blurred my eyes when I heard this sentence, for fear that my uncle would "die" soon. At that time, I stared at my uncle with my eyes, just like staring at "death", for fear that it would suddenly come and take him away.

I'm worried about how my uncle will feel and taste when he dies. What kind of place will you go? Is it heaven? Or hell?

I guess, most people are very painful when they die, because they all feel that they should not die at this time. Moreover, if they die, they will leave all their relatives forever and leave what they want to do. How can they not be in pain?