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Are you a paranoid person?

Hello, everyone, I'm Xiao Bei.

Everything that can be broken these two days has been washed away. It's all small things. They are irreplaceable. They are necessities of life.

I am deeply touched by the fact that it rains all night.

The migraine that I haven't been here for a long time has come to see you again, which is "lucky" since the second half of the year.

I used to just need to sleep, but this time I can't. I hope everything will pass as soon as possible.

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I find that many people are particularly fond of thinking. Maybe when you see my tweet, you will think of something else.

Is this thinking good? Not good? Okay？

I don't know.

But Xiao Bei knows that sometimes thinking too much will only increase a lot of troubles.

For a while, so did i.

I love to listen to sad songs, read sad words, and write all kinds of confidences, feelings, confused remarks and so on on QQ.

Later, I learned that it turned out to be "Literature of Youth Pain", which was written by many people, not just me. Once I thought I was depressed and crazy. Later, I learned that everyone is the same. Everyone has to go through such a period of self-mockery when they grow up.

At that time, I said how awesome the writing was, how speechless it would be after a while, and how real the experience of deleting my hands was.

When wechat began to appear, it was very novel to love friends. Although it is often sent now, there is a lack of many secondary two speeches and sand sculpture languages.

Once I took the light rail, missed my stop and made a circle of friends, which was meant to sigh and laugh. As a result, a friend commented on the following sentence:

"Are you drying the lower limit of IQ?"

I don't remember my reaction to this sentence. Later, the circle of friends was established for three days, and every time I shared my circle of friends, I was no longer so arbitrary and began to be extremely careful.

Understand that not everyone likes your life sharing. Many times, in their eyes, you are just a joke and a fun talk.

I gradually began to understand that some people like to say such remarks. They do this to everyone. They don't look at other people's life and work sharing with appreciation, but only say a lot of negative things.

Why should I care about his pointing fingers at my life? Even so, my life is still my life, and his words will always be his. I can't shut him up, but I firmly believe that someone can.

So, for a while, I quickly let go.

After understanding, should we share life or continue to share, food, travel scenery, etc. Not anymore.

Convergence of those secondary two, only for those who know themselves.

There was a time, very sensitive, and it was only that time.

Now, looking at other sensitive people, I just want to persuade them to divert their attention, stop staring at one thing and have some other fun.

Life is often simple and rich, but it is oneself that is complicated. It's really bad to think too much, and sometimes it just adds to your troubles.

At the same time, it is also very clear that, in many cases, it is too sensitive to control.

Because of one thing, you can think about many things without limit, and you can direct a series in your mind.

take for example

If others look at themselves, maybe the next second, even the children's names will pop up, and the picture of future school life will come out.

Is it too exaggerated?

But there is really such a person around me, and he really can't control his own thoughts. The next few decades are only a few minutes in his imagination.

For another example, a few months after breaking up, we still can't help thinking about why we broke up. It's my problem? Or is it his problem? Aren't you good enough? Or is he not loving enough? Why others can tolerate it, but he can't, which shows that he doesn't love himself at all. Why does he have a new lover only a few months after we broke up? Xin Huan's face value is obviously not as good as his own, but why did he choose her instead of me? Is it because my job is better than mine and my family background is better than mine? Better than me? Wait a minute.

In fact, thinking so much is neither regret nor redemption. After all, I just want to know whose fault it is and why we broke up.

Then start analyzing one by one and find a point, which must be your own satisfaction, then this matter will slowly develop to the end.

If we find other clues from the scene where we are together, it will be a new round of ideas, and then find what we are satisfied with and slowly forget it. Over and over again.

Also, when I walk in the street, I always feel that others are watching me. Why? What is there to see? Sometimes, I really just miss myself too much.

I sent a WeChat to my favorite male god, but I didn't receive a reply after a few hours.

We had a good chat the other day. Why didn't you reply to the message today? So the brain fabricated various plots and pictures, telling and analyzing various sisters in the sister group.

Later, the male god replied that it was inconvenient for some brothers to play games in the internet cafe, so he didn't reply.

After hearing this result, you may continue to think that if you like someone, you will reply to the message as soon as possible, and you will always miss it. You didn't reply to the message because of the game, and you didn't like it.

Then unilaterally declared lovelorn, no longer take reason, people are confused.

It could have developed further, but it came to an abrupt end because of this. There should not be too many such things.

Although I used to be a very sensitive and thoughtful person, I am much better now, mainly because I am too busy to think about these things at all.

Sensitive people, regardless of gender, sometimes obviously don't want to think, but they can't control their own thoughts.

Once this symptom occurs, you can immediately divert your attention and do other things. When you concentrate on one thing, your thoughts will naturally disappear.

After many times of deliberate training, it will gradually fade away.

In addition, the reason why many people can't get out is that they love to cling to the past, but they can't grasp the present and dream of the future.

Imagine grasping the past with one hand, grasping the present with the other hand, and thinking about the future with the other hand. The body has been torn and involved, which will eventually lead to what? I don't need to say, I believe everyone understands.

At the same time, let yourself experience pain, it is better to give up one side, or seize the past with both hands, or seize the present with both hands and give yourself a good time.

Now that love has broken up, the fact is a foregone conclusion. Is it meaningful to recapture the past? Is it meaningful to think twice? Let go, live in the present and plan for the future.

Fantasy is fatal persistence.

Do you think we are really contradictory?

Yes, that's right.

Everyone is a self-contradictory person, constantly entangled in the past, trying to grasp the future that has not yet arrived, but unwilling to see the ongoing present.

People often say that I am like this because of who, because of who and because of what, otherwise it would not be like this.

But he ignored a problem. When he was sad about the Spring and Autumn Period, time had already slipped away, and it was himself who led to the present result.

If people are willing to spend a lot of time and energy in this moment, in the present, in studying, meditating, thinking, exercising and so on. After a while, it will definitely get better.

As people say: thanks to my hard work in March and April, I put on my ideal skirt in July and August.

Everyone is saving mr. banks. If we don't control it, we can think about everything in the world.

I don't know if you are the same. Sometimes it is difficult to concentrate on one thing. Many things will disrupt what you are doing now, and many thoughts have already drifted away.

When we came back, time had passed and the fleeting time was gone.

We are often troubled and unhappy. Why?

Because we will ignore the present because of the past and the future. What happened? I didn't do well enough. I made a wrong choice. I missed the opportunity. It was another wave of spit, frustration and self-blame.

Things that will not happen in the future, because of uncertainty, we will be particularly nervous, because we can't grasp it, and the feeling of uncertainty is really terrible.

There is no sense of security and confidence in the future, which is inherently uncertain. No matter how persistent we are, it is useless. Why don't we go with the flow?

With so much time, it is better to grasp the present, what to do and do it quickly, even if it can't achieve the ideal result, it's not too bad.

Things can't be done overnight, and it's impossible to get things done in one result. Many things are big results caused by many different small results. We just need to do everything well.

Sometimes the right time, the right place and the right person are indispensable. Just do it and leave the rest to time and fate.

Don't care too much about what others think and what others think of you.

You are your best controller. It's crazy to give the initiative to others. It is very dangerous to care about what others think of you and what others say.

It's like putting yourself in the sun, showing it 360 degrees, like a commodity, like an item that anyone can choose, waiting for someone to give us the final judgment.

In one's life, there are many things to do and many people to know. But not everything needs to be done. Everyone needs to know and understand that things have priorities, and people are still rewarded.

So, remember, the only person who can control himself is himself, and being his own master is the most beautiful.

Of course, from birth to death, everyone will have a different life and experience different scenery.

Some people will choose to get married and have children, some people will choose to live alone, some people will choose to work hard, some people will choose a full-time family, and some people will choose plain. These are the pleasures of life. Who says our life is plain? You need to find the joy of life by yourself.

Ladies and gentlemen, don't be sad. Instead of lying in a small box without sunshine and darkness, it is better to have a party with "friends"

Therefore, when we encounter difficulties and are in a bad mood, it is most important to slow down, look back at our journey and get rid of TM's troubles.

When I think about many things, I only feel that I was a little papaya at that time.

Everything in the world is insignificant except life and death. This is what Cangyang Jiacuo said. We should believe it.

That's what I said. You don't have to believe:

"Life is alive, it is impossible for everyone to like it. Fingers are long and short, and they taste salty. Yours is the best. Living in the present is more important than anything else. Why do you think so much? "

Don't let your life revolve around one thing. If you do more things, you will find that some things are equal to a P.

Life, study, career, love, family, friends, entertainment, interests, hobbies, little brother, little sister, old man, old lady, love beans, celebrities, great men, reading, writing and traveling. ...

Too many interesting things, interesting souls.

Sometimes we can't understand why some people just love one person and go crazy. Just like the first time I heard that Yang Lijuan was chasing idol Andy Lau, I thought it was incredible.

I can't understand her and I don't agree with what she has done. I even think that her love is an invisible shackle that imprisons others, which is very terrible.

There are such friends around me, and they can't live without love. I can't understand if I want to love one day.

Why? Because their life has only one fulcrum.

Yang Lijuan's fulcrum is Andy Lau, and the fulcrum of people who love brains is love. Jump out of this strange circle, and you will find that there are still many beautiful things in life.

Control your emotions. As I mentioned earlier, if you immediately feel that you are going to start thinking, then immediately divert your attention and focus on another thing.

Resolve your emotions, don't always go against the current on one thing, which will only narrow your path and make it more and more difficult to open your mind.

Every job, everyone's life, in fact, are similar, similar.

Many people lament that life has become what I always wanted, but I don't know that the bitterness and loneliness behind it are for you to face. Can you bear it? If not, it can only exist, always in what you want.

That's all.

After working for a period of time, I feel extremely bored, especially bored, and I will start to come up with many strange ideas.

Of course not. As long as you have the strength and ability, you can stretch yourself everywhere.

Often afraid, weak and don't know how to overcome and improve, and then I have been depressed, not interested in anything, and everything is boring.

No matter how delicious the food is, no matter how beautiful the scenery is, it's just punching in. Photographed by a circle of friends, the task is completed, proving that I have been here. Every time I hear such remarks and such an attitude towards life, I really want to slap.

But helpless, the force is mutual, and I will hurt myself, that's all.

Finally, I want to say that life should not be static, but it should not change too fast. It is really contradictory. But the most important thing is that we should live in the present, not all day long, once in a while is ok, shouldn't we often blame ourselves?

When we are busy with our work, don't forget to slow down once in a while, make a repair and get a promotion;

When we enjoy ourselves, don't forget that we often go home to see our parents, make trouble and eat the rice cooked by our mother;

When our love is not going well, then let go of everything and do what you like, as long as it is within the scope permitted by law, then do it.

There are many possibilities in life, and there are many ways to live. Don't cling to a fulcrum. Our world is full of infinite possibilities, and so are you.